When you grow tired of your regular

[Fuggedabouditt]

This goes for both sides, client and SP.

I'm not speaking to the ladies point of view, but hope they can chime in with their thoughts.

For myself, it's a gradual thing. Although I keep quite a number of regulars on the roster, there does come a time when it's no longer a fun and it becomes somewhat of a chore. I understand I have the option of stopping communication and contact but for the weaker will, sometimes that's not so easy. Familiarity grows contempt and that contempt can come from being attached and or viewing in to personal lives and trying to keep that separate from business - go back to my arrangements thread.

4 regulars have been crossed off the roster this year. I'm a little sad about it because there was/is a connection that remains but, it's business and perhaps the best move.

 

[What A Wookie]

It happens and I understand your feelings. I'm reevaluating one of mine for 2017 as I feel underappreciated.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

It happens and I understand your feelings. I'm reevaluating one of mine for 2017 as I feel underappreciated.

That's my point Wook. I don't expect exclusivity, but when I'm providing you with an income and show my appreciation with gifts that I really don't have to give, then it should be reciprocated. And then they accuse you of taking it too seriously. Well, If I did take it seriously, I wouldn't be fucking other women.....

 

[The Authority]

# 1 always use a hobby phone.

# 2 Never tell them your real name or what to do for a living.

# 3 Never ever tell them where you live, why I won't do out calls.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

# 1 always use a hobby phone.

# 2 Never tell them your real name or what to do for a living.

# 3 Never ever tell them where you live, why I won't do out calls.

I think this is more for you guys who are attached and have to cover up. For those lucky ones who don't have a ball and chain anchored to our morals, we're free to do what we want and ultimately, we get personal information from each other. I actually see comments from reviewers of my faves that are confirmation of what's in their personal lives, so no matter what, it comes out.

I think I'm more talking about having each others personal contact info, personal details and do the private calls if they're agency ladies, even for some indies (but not many). And of course, the VIP treatment

 

[Jasper]

I don't expect exclusivity, but when I'm providing you with an income and show my appreciation with gifts that I really don't have to give, then it should be reciprocated.

I pay for sex within a set time, I don't expect more from her.
Funky & Music

 

[HOBO]

I haven't got that far yet but if you pay them why grow tired of them. Just don't see them.

 

[oldguyzer]

When you get bored of one, move on. It's simple. Past investments are not guarantee of future returns, and really, what do you expect? The ladies are doing this for money and whatever else they can get, not to find a new boyfriend.

 

[JunoxGrey]

That's my point Wook. I don't expect exclusivity, but when I'm providing you with an income and show my appreciation with gifts that I really don't have to give, then it should be reciprocated. And then they accuse you of taking it too seriously. Well, If I did take it seriously, I wouldn't be fucking other women.....

Im generally curious what you mean by reciprocated? I'm assuming you me priority booking etc and surely not a discount etc?

 

[Madman]

It happens because boredom and routine eventually sets in. Too many and you can see it from the reviewers this is about variety. Why on earth when you're paying do you need to see the same girl, it is not a relationship and if you think it is it's one way.

 

[Jasper]

Im generally curious what you mean by reciprocated? I'm assuming you me priority booking etc and surely not a discount etc?

I assumed he meant free time off the clock from his previous postings. :NoNoNo:

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

When you get bored of one, move on. It's simple. Past investments are not guarantee of future returns, and really, what do you expect? The ladies are doing this for money and whatever else they can get, not to find a new boyfriend.

True. Not looking for an ongoing BF/GF relationship. It gets complicated with constant contact though.

Im generally curious what you mean by reciprocated? I'm assuming you me priority booking etc and surely not a discount etc?

No, not priority booking or discounts. It's the off the clock contact that's mutually initiated.

It happens because boredom and routine eventually sets in. Too many and you can see it from the reviewers this is about variety. Why on earth when you're paying do you need to see the same girl, it is not a relationship and if you think it is it's one way.

It IS a relationship in some respects, just not an emotional relationship such as normal civvie life. Variety IS key and something I endorse.

I assumed he meant free time off the clock from his previous postings. :NoNoNo:

Correct.

 

[JunoxGrey]

To : fugg /messed up quote and I'm lazy to be honest

Okay that understandable, I usually avoid reaching out to clients unless they specify that's okay as some have SO's. And as long as you don't write me love notes or write be every hour of the day I'm okay with that aswell. Thanks for clarifying

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

To : fugg /messed up quote and I'm lazy to be honest

Okay that understandable, I usually avoid reaching out to clients unless they specify that's okay as some have SO's. And as long as you don't write me love notes or write be every hour of the day I'm okay with that aswell. Thanks for clarifying

Thanks Juno. I can understand not being available. We all have separate lives. The odd check in or "hey, how's your day" is really nice to get. Sometimes those text conversations can be a little overdrawn and it's up to someone to say "Hey, I'll get back to you, kinda in the middle of something right now." Being respectful at both ends is key.

No, I'm not in it for a BF/GF relationship. That's only worked out once and it was wonderful and open but in the end, we found that we clashed on a level we didn't see coming and it was the end. Rules and boundaries are set and if those are crossed, someone has to say something, if not, then the other party continues until it escalates and that's not good either.

 

[User-E]

When I get tired/bored of regular clients, I make myself available to them less often, so it's more exciting to see them again when we finally get together.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

When I get tired/bored of regular clients, I make myself available to them less often, so it's more exciting to see them again when we finally get together.

Like screening phone calls. :LMAO:

 

[User-E]

Like screening phone calls. :LMAO:

Yes, that's one method. :wink2:

Men are inherently designed to be hunter gatherers. It's in their genes to enjoy the thrill of the hunt. So, early in my career, I learned to play 'hard to get' with new clients. Men place greater value on prey they've had to work to catch, so if you make them wait, they feel a greater sense of satisfaction when they finally get to see you.

With regular clients, a good companion will be able to sense when things are getting stale and boring, and take steps to fix the situation by spicing things up or making him wait for a while.

 

[Green Eyed Bandit]

To be honest I don't really have a regular SP and have very few regular MPA's. That way things don't get overly complicated because these relationships don't usually (almost never) end well.

 

[emojihappy]

I personally feel that despite guys being great clients for their girls, they should not expect anything more beyond the clock. The girls work is to be your best companion and give u the illusion you mean something to them for a paid time. They have their own lives, friends, family, and even SO's, so asking them to spend their free time with work clients (especially in this line of work) is hard to get from them, unless they mutually want to. Cuz I'm assuming the meaning of free time means free sex in this case.

Generally speaking if u were in a sales position, would u not rather spend your time off with yourself, friends or loved ones rather than hang with work related clients where your 'time off' still ends being work to a degree...

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

I personally feel that despite guys being great clients for their girls, they should not expect anything more beyond the clock. The girls work is to be your best companion and give u the illusion you mean something to them for a paid time. They have their own lives, friends, family, and even SO's, so asking them to spend their free time with work clients (especially in this line of work) is hard to get from them, unless they mutually want to. Cuz I'm assuming the meaning of free time means free sex in this case.

Generally speaking if u were in a sales position, would u not rather spend your time off with yourself, friends or loved ones rather than hang with work related clients where your 'time off' still ends being work to a degree...

All of this is implied. My case was mutual and although we both were responsible for contact (in all cases) I was NOT the one to present a personal number and or off the clock situation. My conscience is clean on this.