Where does the thrill lie

[Baz]

In the pay for play world where does the thrill of the event happen for you? Is it at the beginning stages when shopping for you choice, is it the thrill of meeting someone new, is it the ease of engagement, is it during the actual event or is it once you leave and recall the earlier rendezvous? I've established for most this is an addictive hobby and with any type of addiction, somewhere in the act lies the adrenalin high that keeps one going back.

This same question can apply to the ladies for hire. If you truly to some extent enjoy your career choice , where does thrill occur? Is it the call requesting an appointment, the knock on the door by a complete stranger, the call asking to repeat a session with you?

 

[Pullmyfinger]

When is your thesis due :biggrin2:

 

[Baz]

When is your thesis due :biggrin2:

I wish it were true and I was back in University but I'm in the working world. It's simple curiosity on my part nothing more and nothing less. It is a discussion board and I'm simply asking to discuss topics of interest too me.

 

[RAWD]

Ok, I'll bite.

The easy answer is the obvious. What red blooded guy wouldn't get a thrill from getting naked with hot girls? It's purely visceral, physiological, physical.

At a deeper level, I respectfully submit that it is not at all about get your dick wet. Many (most) guys are in the hobby to fill a void in another part of their life. That void may exist by choice, by circumstance or by nature. Whatever. The hobby is a proxy for real life. So, what is it replacing? That's your answer.

 

[BEER]

When I come.

 

[HOF]

The thrill lies between her lips (both sets) and her cheeks!

It's the element of having sexual relations with different beautiful women at our leisure. Also, because I only meet crazy golddiggin bitches!

 

[L._s.]

In the pay for play world where does the thrill of the event happen for you? Is it at the beginning stages when shopping for you choice, is it the thrill of meeting someone new, is it the ease of engagement, is it during the actual event or is it once you leave and recall the earlier rendezvous?.
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FOr me - All of the above. Also to have a sexy woman caress and touch you is nice as well. "intimacy"


BAZ - I think the problem here is that you think sex outside of marriage is bad. There is nothing wrong with sex - it is natural and makes you feel good.

The problem is that if you are in a relationship and you spouse thinks you are monogamous and you are fucking around. That is the area where me and you agree.

Why do you think that casual sex is bad?

 

[Blank_Dave]

Beats the hell out of me, Baz. I have yet to really see what the big thing about sex is.

I keep getting ask when/who is next. It's getting to the point that I'm about ready to say fuck this bull shit. I don't care if she's soul mate or not, or just nice tits and a sweet ass, the trouble isn't worth a questionable reward.

 

[ConquerorRyan]

The first thrill for me is when the door opens, and I meet the lady for the first time, or if it's a repeat visit, the thrill is when she gets back to you saying she does have time to see you Because then I know I will have a great time

 

[muckin]

For me it keeps me feeling young, variety is the spice of life. The thrill of having sex with beautiful women, so I guess it's the whole package. My wife is quite attractive but that's just not enough for me. A lot of the girls say its part of being a Leo, I think they are right, I am a true Leo in every sense of the signs traits. I need the thrill and its a lot better than a full out affair, done that too and never will again, hobbying is way better; no drama just fun.

 

[Bubba]

Trying to get Silly girl to reply.

 

[SillyGirl]

Trying to get Silly girl to reply.

um, I'll just keep what thrills me to myself. :blush2:

 

[Madman]

um, I'll just keep what thrills me to myself. :blush2:

Um, i noticed quite a few apple pies missing:unknw:

For me it's the thrill occurs as soon as the door opens. I love the first little chit chat and then while showering the idea of what we are going to do to one another starts to form. It is a fantastic rush Baz.

 

[Baz]

Ok, I'll bite.

The easy answer is the obvious. What red blooded guy wouldn't get a thrill from getting naked with hot girls? It's purely visceral, physiological, physical.

At a deeper level, I respectfully submit that it is not at all about get your dick wet. Many (most) guys are in the hobby to fill a void in another part of their life. That void may exist by choice, by circumstance or by nature. Whatever. The hobby is a proxy for real life. So, what is it replacing? That's your answer.

A very enlightening post Rawd, thank you. Do you think it is maybe for companionship? I would think this to be the case more with older gentlemen as opposed to younger men. Especially for gentlemen choosing to book for more than an hour. The men that hire a lady for 30 minutes, I believe it is pure lust because there can be no companionship within a 30 minute appointment and for the younger men I do agree with you in most cases it's purely visceral.

 

[Baz]

Also, because I only meet crazy golddiggin bitches!

You are attracting the wrong type of women. Please don't take this the wrong way but is it perhaps in the way you carry yourself or the venues you attend?

 

[Baz]

FOr me - All of the above. Also to have a sexy woman caress and touch you is nice as well. "intimacy"


BAZ - I think the problem here is that you think sex outside of marriage is bad. There is nothing wrong with sex - it is natural and makes you feel good.

The problem is that if you are in a relationship and you spouse thinks you are monogamous and you are fucking around. That is the area where me and you agree.

Why do you think that casual sex is bad?

Thank you for your honest post. Do you find the same thrill if it were a woman you met in a bar? Given the choice, a one night stand with a beautiful woman you met or a pay for play, which one would you choose?

 

[Baz]

Beats the hell out of me, Baz. I have yet to really see what the big thing about sex is.

I keep getting ask when/who is next. It's getting to the point that I'm about ready to say fuck this bull shit. I don't care if she's soul mate or not, or just nice tits and a sweet ass, the trouble isn't worth a questionable reward.

How many pay for play ladies have you actually hired Dave and how many real relationships have you been involved in? I am not starting to finally understand a lonely gentleman seeking companionship through a professional but you seem to be against both the lady for hire and the regular dating scene, I am correct?

 

[Baz]

the thrill is when she gets back to you saying she does have time to see you Because then I know I will have a great time

Curious about this comment. Have you ever been turned down when requesting a repeat visit?

 

[Baz]

For me it keeps me feeling young, variety is the spice of life. The thrill of having sex with beautiful women, so I guess it's the whole package. My wife is quite attractive but that's just not enough for me. A lot of the girls say its part of being a Leo, I think they are right, I am a true Leo in every sense of the signs traits. I need the thrill and its a lot better than a full out affair, done that too and never will again, hobbying is way better; no drama just fun.

Muckin you are one of the prolific reviewers here and thank you for your response. You have a beautiful wife so being lonely is not the issue in your case, in your view it's about feeling young. Obviously you can afford the lifestyle because it's apparent one does need a healthy amount of disposable income to partake in the hobby. If one day for unforeseen circumstances this were to change, do you believe you would be able to cope without being able to see 3 or 4 different ladies a month? I'm guessing based on your reviews you average one visit a week give or take either way. Another scenario might be your wife giving you an ultimatum it's her or she's leaving, would you choose her?

Thank you all for the great replies and if I've asked any uncomfortable questions please feel free to ignore the question.

 

[L._s.]

Thank you for your honest post. Do you find the same thrill if it were a woman you met in a bar? Given the choice, a one night stand with a beautiful woman you met or a pay for play, which one would you choose?

Please answer the question - Why do you think casual sex is bad.

Bar v. SP. Different.

Things I like about the bar scene. Challenging - Have to really put on the charm and may not get "lucky" every time. You meet some interesting people. Usually there with some friends and have fun. Good for the ego if you get someone's number or if you get lucky that evening. THe act of sex can be really good or bad depending on a lot of things. Usually no baggage if things don't work out but not as easy as paying an SP - really no baggage.

SP - Easy. If lucky with your choice -- get to have a good looking girl that is good in bed and you "click" with. Just like the bar scene the expereince can be really good to ok depending on a lot of factors. However, paying is so much easier - pretty much guaranteed that you will have sex. There is nothing the matter with sex.

Yes ideally sex would be better if you didn't have to pay and it was with your soul mate who was super model. But let's be realistic.