Wife cheating

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I hope she is having a good time on the side too.....

Sorry you can not divorce.....but you never know when the kids get older
with their own lives then...

Good Luck to Both Of You.....

 

[RAWD]

Wow, it was interesting reading this thread again.

Speaking of past members...what happened to Silly Girl?

 

[Art Mann]

Silly Girl hasn't gone away. Most recently bumped her post count this morning with a little confession about texting.

 

[Analme]

I think Cycleguy is still around under another handle. I have a hunch on which one but I will not say

Starts with an R and ends in Man?Hmmmmmm:biggrin2:

 

[RAWD]

Silly Girl hasn't gone away. Most recently bumped her post count this morning with a little confession about texting.

That's odd. Her handle shows "guest" on her posts on page 1 of this thread.

 

[SillyGirl]

That's odd. Her handle shows "guest" on her posts on page 1 of this thread.

Those posts must have been before the vacation I took awhile back.

I'm still here.

 

[peace]

Hi Sillygirl.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

Hi SillyGirl.

 

[RAWD]

Those posts must have been before the vacation I took awhile back.

I'm still here.

Phew. Don't do that again. :wink:

 

[SillyGirl]

Hi Peace. Hi Robin. Hi Rawd.

I was thinking about this thread last night, and it made me wonder if there are any happily-married-after-10-years couples. Is it ever right? Does it ever work?

Is it better to die alone than to die attached to someone you don't love?

sigh.

 

[Madman]

SillyG, I think it is better to be alone than suffer with someone beside you that rubs you the wrong way.

Couples rarely die at the same time so one will usually die alone so why suffer for 10 20 or 30 years.

 

[RAWD]

Hi Peace. Hi Robin. Hi Rawd.

I was thinking about this thread last night, and it made me wonder if there are any happily-married-after-10-years couples. Is it ever right? Does it ever work?

Is it better to die alone than to die attached to someone you don't love?

sigh.

I can think of several couples I look to as role models for a happy marriage. Mind you, I only see from the outside (and we've already had that discussion about appearances).

My story is far from a fairy tale. I've had some huge challenges and personal failures. But, hopefully, I will be able to get back to you about that 10 year milestone soon

I think long marriages can work. Falling in love is easy. Staying in love is hard. One of the things I've noticed is that not taking someone for granted includes noticing how they've changed. It's hard to notice changes when you see someone every day. But, take a step back and really *look* at them. I did this recently and I found myself saying WOW! I just need to do that every so often (and let her know I'm wowed).

Then there's all that stuff about "working" at a relationship, which is true. But, work sucks. We work every day. Having fun is equally (if not more) important. My goal was to take a vacation every month this year. We managed to get away 10 times. It wasn't always easy to sneak away, but in retrospect, I'm glad we did. It had to be done to recharge and prepare us for the adventure ahead.

To answer your other question, I say yes. Put another way it's better to be alone than to feel lonely within a relationship.

 

[jumpingjackflash]

Rawd, some sound advice but I don't think the majority of people can get away once a month but fun is what keeps people together and stress pulls them apart.

 

[muckin]

Silly Girl if i could turn back the clock, marriage is not something i would do, be your own person enjoy life the way you want.

 

[RAWD]

Rawd, some sound advice but I don't think the majority of people can get away once a month but fun is what keeps people together and stress pulls them apart.

Very well put, my friend. Just gotta remember not to let the banalities of life get in the way of living.

Muckin - I would agree if you haven't found your soulmate. If you have, she will accept who you are and it won't feel like compromise. Ever seen a beautiful sunset and wish a certain someone was there to see it with you?

 

[SillyGirl]

 

[RAWD]

SG - chicks can be so cruel, eh? LOL

I like that tune; not the lyrics so much.

 

[blackram]

good point Art Mann and thanks for asking, still stuck in a loveless marriage, kids and money make it difficult to make the change, but i do my own thing for the most part and she still does my laundry shes known as a yummy mummy, but its what comes with it thats the problem, fuckin princess that is a total bitch for the most part. lot of them out there.

Just discovered the thread. Reading from the early part of the thread from 2 years ago to now, how have things changed? You mentioned that you weren't absolutely sure that she had a physical affair with another guy, just that she had an "emotional connection" or something, but you suspected it was much more. Have your suspicions gotten more concrete? Is she still seeing the other guy?

Actually, believe it or not, if my wife ever had an affair, that would be my dream scenario. Then that would finally be the reason to get rid of her. "Oh, you're in love with another guy? Oh well, I guess it's all for the best, I'm gonna miss ya. Buh-bye." raying:

Without this excuse to finally pull the trigger, we're just stuck to an existence of each other looking disappointed whenever we see each other after a long day. "Oh, it's you again." :dontknow:

 

[cycleguy007]

I would be remiss... if I didn't comment in this thread.

or:

Its not "perfect"... like all couples we have our ups and downs... but like many have already said, couples have to work together.

 

[peace]

i wish that was me....