Made with Love

You want to do what?????

It is all about ones own comfort level.
And from what you say that is respected.

Remember you can always revisit the idea at a later date but for today you can't see it.

I have to echo the sentiments of our blue friend here.

This foyer in a new sexual fantasy for him isn't going to amount to much if throughout it all you find it uncomfortable. At some point into it he will sense your apprehension about going through with it and it will make the both of you feel terrible. You for doing something you find detestable and him for putting you through something you never wanted to. You have to be comfortable within your limits and you should never be embarrassed or ashamed that you can't get past it.

As Papa said you can always revisit this down the road when you may have a change in heart. But to do it now would really drive a wedge between the two of you. We all like to think we have a tolerance for others and what they find sexy or kinky but in the end we all have limits as well.
 
Is he asking to plug your nose hair out while he ties you up :don'twantto-see:/
 
Did it involve a blindfold, ropes, a trapeze over your bed, and inviting his friends over?

Hmmmmmm
 
oh my, you all have such vivid imaginations, lol. I told you it was an innocuous thing, to most people.

I like light choking. I like having my hair pulled. I like being tied up, spanked, and blindfolded.

What I don't like, what I find completely skin-crawling, repulsive, and almost frightening, is to have my feet touched. I might be able to tolerate a footrub if I was both drunk and high, but, um, sigh I don't even want to type it.

He wants to suck on my toes.

There. I said it. I didn't want to tell you all because I figured you would think I'm ridiculous for finding such a stupid thing stressful.

So please, be gentle when you mock me.

oh, and MM? Studly stomped all over my heart months ago, we're very done.
 
oh my, you all have such vivid imaginations, lol. I told you it was an innocuous thing, to most people.

I like light choking. I like having my hair pulled. I like being tied up, spanked, and blindfolded.

What I don't like, what I find completely skin-crawling, repulsive, and almost frightening, is to have my feet touched. I might be able to tolerate a footrub if I was both drunk and high, but, um, sigh I don't even want to type it.

He wants to suck on my toes.

There. I said it. I didn't want to tell you all because I figured you would think I'm ridiculous for finding such a stupid thing stressful.

So please, be gentle when you mock me.


:kissed: I owe you a hug
 
I say go for it! You have nothing to lose.

Either:

lay on your tummy so that you don't have to watch him in action. If he is smart he will give you a full body rubdown first so that you are relaxed.

or:

tell him to do it when he's pumping into ya hehehe.


I am very ticklish and incredibly self-conscious of my feet. I have had sweeties and lovers suck and lick on my toes in both instances I mentioned and I was surprisingly agreeable to enjoying it. It was very sensuous and I didn't kick them off of me as I normally would lol.
 
Tell him to start with the pinkie toe and work himself up to your elbows.
 
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