A pet Peeve

[jumpingjackflash]

This is something that I find happens more often that it should. I've had it happen in most spa's so I'm not naming names but why would an MPA who's on the rag come to work.

I mean I'm not getting a discount, they want the full fee but I can't enjoy the session as I would normally do.

By the time I find out seeing a string dangling or being told "sorry not today I'm on my period " it's session ruined for me. Now if I was told at the start I could change and book another lady but finding out once the session is underway and I usually choose the bodyslide I'm at the point of no return. I find this very misleading and not good value for my dollars spent.

I'm surprised the spa owners do not have a rule in place for this. I don't think it's fair, take the week off or tell me so I can choose a different priced session.

IT'S even worse if it's an SP but so far so good on that front. I've had appointments cancelled with the agency calling me up telling me the problem and I've been very appreciative for the warning.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

YES, the dreaded white string, ew!

 

[Capo]

You must say who it was to avoid her or the agency.

Brothers and our money comes first.

 

[jumpingjackflash]

You must say who it was to avoid her or the agency.

Brothers and our money comes first.

In that case name all the massage parlors and you won't be wrong. I've been probably to more different massage parlors in this city than I care to count and in everyone of them I've come across the dreaded white string (thanks Robin, I like that one)

Muse, Flirt, SRM, HFH, AGS, Allure, Utopia, Alphacare etc,,,,, the list goes on and on.

I will say I've found less of this happening in the cheap Asian places off the grid I sometimes enjoy visiting.

 

[Dexter1]

I will say I've found less of this happening in the cheap Asian places off the grid I sometimes enjoy visiting.

Shock me so more. You saying the top MP allow this or you saying the MPA do not tell the owners it their due day(s).

 

[jumpingjackflash]

Shock me so more. You saying the top MP allow this or you saying the MPA do not tell the owners it their due day(s).

I'm not sure if it's the attendant not wanting to miss her shift or the owners putting pressure on the lady to not miss her shift due to being on the schedule, only they can answer that. All I know is I usually come out of the session feeling lets say less satisfied.

 

[Guido]

I can see where you re coming from JJ, that would leave me with a bad taste in my mouth especially if you know...:biggrin2:

 

[socialstrat]

I've only ever encountered this with women I see regularly so it's no big deal. Once it was actually almost better since she was very much more sensitive and responsive (that, or engaged in some brilliant compensatory acting). If I was seeing somebody for the first time I'd probably be a bit disappointed. Good point about telling guys upfront so they can choose accordingly.

 

[thinkaboutit]

WOW bro that happen to me a long time ago. It was at a cheap Asian spa around East Beaver Creek and She never told me until it was to late. And again at East Beaver Creek there be sometimes were the MPA said that there on the rag up front before we started the session, which those times I pick another girl. Since then it never happen to me again and I do go to bigger spa's.....

 

[Shiek]

When I was at my prime and hobbying regularly it did happen quite a few times and regardless of the great reputation of the establishment or the lady herself it's unavoidable at times.


For someone to get upset about it...... I never let it bother me. If I liked the lady enough I went back to see her a week or two later. Sometimes they need to work and only with a SP would I expect them not to work during their period.

 

[Insertion]

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For someone to get upset about it...... I never let it bother me. If I liked the lady enough I went back to see her a week or two later. Sometimes they need to work and only with a SP would I expect them not to work during their period.

You are only looking at it from the providers point of view but from the clients POV the fee is the same is it not, unless a discount is applied the client is getting short changed in my opinion. The last thing I want to see during a bodyslide or reverse massage is a string. It's happened to me and I left thinking it was a ploy used by the lady to ensure no kitty play.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

This is something that I find happens more often that it should. I've had it happen in most spa's so I'm not naming names but why would an MPA who's on the rag come to work.

I mean I'm not getting a discount, they want the full fee but I can't enjoy the session as I would normally do.

By the time I find out seeing a string dangling or being told "sorry not today I'm on my period " it's session ruined for me. Now if I was told at the start I could change and book another lady but finding out once the session is underway and I usually choose the bodyslide I'm at the point of no return. I find this very misleading and not good value for my dollars spent.

I'm surprised the spa owners do not have a rule in place for this. I don't think it's fair, take the week off or tell me so I can choose a different priced session.

IT'S even worse if it's an SP but so far so good on that front. I've had appointments cancelled with the agency calling me up telling me the problem and I've been very appreciative for the warning.

I feel your pain. But when you have an escort fake a period to get out of having crazy sex with you then come talk to me. :biggrin2:

 

[ultistar]

Bro, I feel your pain, but technically if it's all "within MP limits", MPA's can work while on the rag.
It happened to me once, and she was nice to offer the NR rate while doing some BS stuff.

 

[Madman]

Bro, I feel your pain, but technically if it's all "within MP limits", MPA's can work while on the rag.
It happened to me once, and she was nice to offer the NR rate while doing some BS stuff.

This is fair what she did but I'm with the rest never mind the "mp limits" because most of us and many do not step foot into an MP if that mantra is true.

 

[Shiek]

This is fair what she did but I'm with the rest never mind the "mp limits" because most of us and many do not step foot into an MP if that mantra is true.

Some do, some dont but I wouldnt say most of us dont

 

[just curious]

Well...I hobby mostly at asian spas and what I was told was they don't mind working while on period cuz there are lots of guys come to spas (60 -70% of them), just for a massage and HJ or topless HJ only. I know how you would feel if you drove alll the way down there hoping for a good daty and saw the string dangling down....

 

[zorro]

Well...I hobby mostly at asian spas and what I was told was they don't mind working while on period cuz there are lots of guys come to spas (60 -70% of them), just for a massage and HJ or topless HJ only. I know how you would feel if you drove alll the way down there hoping for a good daty and saw the string dangling down....

Definitely not a good thing and a session killer. I agree they should warn the client ahead of time , some guys like the attendant and want to spend time with her regardless of Aunt Flo being present but at least it would be the fair thing to do.

 

[ultistar]

This is fair what she did but I'm with the rest never mind the "mp limits" because most of us and many do not step foot into an MP if that mantra is true.

I hear ya, and would agree, that's why it is important to share on these review boards, especially for MPA's where so much of it is YMMV and unwritten menus. You cannot complain to MP managers about this sorta stuff, so the best we can do is support the brotherhood.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

I hear ya, and would agree, that's why it is important to share on these review boards, especially for MPA's where so much of it is YMMV and unwritten menus. You cannot complain to MP managers about this sorta stuff, so the best we can do is support the brotherhood.

The problem is you can't say too much on the boards without bringing the wrong type of attention to the mps.

I'm with the op on this one. I don't want an mpa who is on her period. I work hard for my money and I don't believe wasting $140 because some don't mind only getting jerked off. The minimum I take in any mp is a reverse. I might as well stick exclusively to sp's. It's the same price so why not if I have to worry about no go zones during a reverse.

 

[L._s.]

It has happened to me a few times at top rated spas. Not worth the $150 to $200 IMO when the MPA is having her period.


I just wish they would tell you before hand not 20 minutes into the session after the massage, etc.. Possibly if the MPA wants to work she could reduce her fees.

I understand that a woman should be able to work if she is having her period and legally it would be hard to tell them they could not work, but I think this industry is unique.

If she is a long-term thinker it would hurt her business - bad reviews, no repeats or recommendations. The only way to stop the practice is to say their names or give them a mediocer review but most of us will not give a bad review - just not say anything.