A Thought of Divorce

[-b]

I feel like just giving him everything....why even fight....I do not like
fighting etc......If Ontario has a No Fault Divorce how come
he can just make up something, so he can drag it on....

When I meet him, I was the one with the Education....Though
I got paid nothing for what I do......But I loved him, help build him up
and supported him through University .......Plus through
every ups and downs in life......

My family have stepped up, they are willing to take care
of me when I need it.....they are willing to support whatever
I decide.....I just wanted to make sure my Son would
have something when I pass away.....because I know my ex
he will marry again and my son would get nothing....My family
also said they would help him.......Funny you fight with your
Siblings but when it comes down to it they re enter your lives
and are there for you......That is how my Father Raised us...

So why should I not just give up.......

 

[Macho Man]

Giving up is never an option.

You still have your integrity.

 

[L._s.]

It all depends how much money you are talking about. If you are talking about $250,000 and it is going to cost you $100,000 in professional fees and your time then it may be worth it for you (Net $150,000). If you are talking about $25,000 and it will cost you $15,000 in legals and your time, aggrivation, etc. - it is likely better to put your efforts into something else more productive for the $10k net.

 

[Bridgette_xo]

I would keep fighting. You may feel like you're at a low point today but it will get better. Keep fighting the fight.

 

[George Costanza]

This should give you more reason to fight back.

.Funny you fight with your
Siblings but when it comes down to it they re enter your lives
and are there for you..

 

[Boing]

Hang in there Bliss.

 

[papasmerf]

Because if you give up everyone else will too

 

[TINY]

Because if you give up everyone else will too

Listen to Papa Blissful.

 

[peace]

I don't know. I think your health and your peace of mind are a lot more important than fighting over money. If its important, just hire a lawyer to do all the work while you go on with your life. Swallow some losses or recoup some of your material assets, then move on. Then again, I have never been married before despite wanting to settle down and getting married. Now...I don't know.

 

[Al Bumin]

This should give you more reason to fight back.

.Funny you fight with your
Siblings but when it comes down to it they re enter your lives
and are there for you..

What he said.

 

[-b]

Thanks all....

I have a lawyer....He is really good...but I worry a lot.....
In worrying I spend a lot....because I am worrying a lot...
Which I should not.....Damn-Not too smart

I just get really pissed....No Fault means No one is at fault....
I am just sad...depress because this was the man I married....

Thanks...
I am sorry....

 

[Danolo]

Stay cool, Bliss....

 

[HOF]

It's not giving up or giving in; it's getting rid of.

Pay out and walk away, you'll probably be alot better off in the end.

Yes, I'm being nice and sincere because I've been away for awhile and I'm pissed at someone else not board related.

 

[-b]

It's not giving up or giving in; it's getting rid of.

Pay out and walk away, you'll probably be alot better off in the end.

Yes, I'm being nice and sincere because I've been away for awhile and I'm pissed at someone else not board related.

Thanks HOF....

This is my when I get older and also my health plays into it.....

As the person you are upset with....why waste all the negative
energy on them.....I always believe in being direct even if it
means you lose that friendship....tell them how you feel.....
If they do not like it they never were your friend....

 

[RAWD]

Hey Bliss, no one has to fight. It shouldn't be driven solely by money or by emotion. Take a step back and figure out what is truly important to you. Do you want to make him pay? Do you simply want to move on? Do you hate that this is hanging over you? If you quit now, will you regret it a year from now? No one has the answer except for you.

If you want to fight, that's a different story....fighting can be fun, too

 

[oldguyzer]

Divorce always turns ugly. I had a clear pre-nup, and when we separated the understanding was (written down in the sep agreement) "I give you this, this and this, I get to keep this, this, and this". Started friendly. Enter lawyer. Six years later, with over $100K in legal bills, I walked away with damned near nothing. Agreements are not worth the paper when greed and maliciousness get involved.

 

[papasmerf]

Divorce always turns ugly. I had a clear pre-nup, and when we separated the understanding was (written down in the sep agreement) "I give you this, this and this, I get to keep this, this, and this". Started friendly. Enter lawyer. Six years later, with over $100K in legal bills, I walked away with damned near nothing. Agreements are not worth the paper when greed and maliciousness get involved.

you should have recalled the advice I gave you

A good woman is hard to find, if you bury them right.

 

[-b]

Hey Bliss, no one has to fight. It shouldn't be driven solely by money or by emotion. Take a step back and figure out what is truly important to you. Do you want to make him pay? Do you simply want to move on? Do you hate that this is hanging over you? If you quit now, will you regret it a year from now? No one has the answer except for you.

If you want to fight, that's a different story....fighting can be fun, too

People that I talk to say he should pay.....
Me, I just want the worrying to stop...It hard for me to be upset...People grow in
different directions...or find some one younger......healthier.....and can not do a
BJ without using her teeth....so he says....LMAO I am not in it for anything other
than what I am entitle too and I already stated I would take less....He took all
my money too....I trusted him too much....Ok my middle name is Idiot.....


Now for the fight....I would like to go see one of these...

I am in Love.......

 

[papasmerf]

People that I talk to say he should pay.....
Me, I just want the worrying to stop...It hard for me to be upset...People grow in
different directions...or find some one younger......healthier.....and can not do a
BJ without using her teeth....so he says....LMAO I am not in it for anything other
than what I am entitle too and I already stated I would take less....He took all
my money too....I trusted him too much....Ok my middle name is Idiot.....


Now for the fight....I would like to go see one of these...

I am in Love.......

a buck says I can take you

 

[-b]

a buck says I can take you

:LMAO:

You can, I hurt...can't spare anymore....:Crying/: