A Thought of Divorce

[papasmerf]

:LMAO:

You can, I hurt...can't spare anymore....:Crying/:

so we do it under water

 

[-b]

so we do it under water

Shh....quiet do you that......Listen.....carefully......
That was me passing wind in the water.....:na:

Only fighting I will do is, ripping the clothes off a woman...and she mine.....:wink2:

 

[thesun]

It's not giving up or giving in; it's getting rid of.

Pay out and walk away, you'll probably be alot better off in the end.

Exactly. Good luck.

 

[thesun]

Divorce always turns ugly. I had a clear pre-nup, and when we separated the understanding was (written down in the sep agreement) "I give you this, this and this, I get to keep this, this, and this". Started friendly. Enter lawyer. Six years later, with over $100K in legal bills, I walked away with damned near nothing. Agreements are not worth the paper when greed and maliciousness get involved.

Saw my friend went through a similar situation to yourS. Pre nuptial agreements mean shit. People are greedy and seriously, how can you not know fully well that some things do not belong to you. My friend bought a house and lived there for 10 years. Then he married this woman and it lasted for a year. Yet she was entitled to half of the house. That is bull shit. She could have at least said hey this is your house. Not mine and thanks for living there rent free. But noooooooo she got half of the house . FYI this has nothing to do with gender issue. Just some people who are selfishly greedy.

 

[papasmerf]

Saw my friend went through a similar situation to yours. Pure nuptial agreements mean shit. People are greedy and seriously, how can you not know fully well that some things do not belong to you. My friend bought a house and lived there for 10 years. Then he married this woman and it lasted for a year. Yet she was entitled to half of the house. That is bull shit. She could have at least said hey this is your house. Not mine and thanks for living there rent free. But noooooooo she got half of the house . FYI this has nothing to do with gender issue. Just some people who are selfishly greedy.

ya give a dance you have to pay the band

I lost over $300k in 1990 in divorce.

no fun but considering how the past 23 years of marriage would have been..........I did well

 

[thesun]

That's quite steep but you are right. My friend lost over 500 k and the marriage was barely over a year

 

[-b]

Well he wanted everything in my account.....I gave it...
When the House sold it was in my name....I got the Lawyer
to write the cheque to him....a few Hundred Thousand...

His argument...I am a gambler.....That and Drugs are the two things
you can claim to get almost all the money.....Well Yes I went to the
casinos with friend...He hated it....I needed his ok...Bought Lottery
Tickets....did not like that either.....Hmmmmm The Judge told
him he has to Prove that I spent over $300,000 in gambling...
I am laughing....I never had that much, all my money went to
bills...when I was working...Of coarse my money was gone because I make nothing
and he always had money.....

So if I was the person he says I would have just taken the House money and took off...
Not give him it and all my money too..I just wanted no fighting with him...I was thinking
it would make him feel better....he was getting controlling as time went on and I thought
it was a bump in the road of marriage......Yes my next middle name is Stupid...but
I loved and trusted him totally.....

 

[peace]

Wow...I always hear stories that women get most out of the divorce. Sorry Bliss.

 

[papasmerf]

Wow...I always hear stories that women get most out of the divorce. Sorry Bliss.

it has been my experience with my divorce and others they rule is


Whoever files can blindside and control the process and they win

Best advice I can give anyone being sued for divorce is after the separation agreement arrives do not sign it.
Have your lawyer advise the plaintiff you will exercise your right to no sign anything for 12 months

no court will deny you of that

 

[Silvio Burlusconi]

I'm often amazed at people getting dragged into that shit.
If he's negotiating in bad faith then just say screw it and tel your lawyer to tell him to take it to court.
If your lawyer tries to talk you out of it so that he can negotiate more then throw his bills in his face and offer to take him to the Law Society AS HE'S ONLY DOING IT TO MILK THE FEES.
Unsubstantiated claims get thrown out the window and the accountants move in.

If he wants to claim that you're a drug addict and that you'll piss away all the money then so be it. It's not his.