Discretion

[Shiek]

Don't feed the troll....... everyone that gives him answers is just encouraging his moronic behaviour of asking personal questions.

He's been offered numerous times opportunities to find out in person along with his "Ida" and as usual always begs off and continues to brag about going to see a masseuse.

 

[ipsniffit]

Don't feed the troll....... everyone that gives him answers is just encouraging his moronic behaviour of asking personal questions.

He's been offered numerous times opportunities to find out in person along with his "Ida" and as usual always begs off and continues to brag about going to see a masseuse.

It's getting to the point that some of you are actually now abusing Baz. He really hasn't asked anything that others haven't asked here or on other boards and in most posts unless attacked as of late he has been very polite. I don't think he's being the troll as much as he's being trolled by some in my opinion.

 

[Madman]

Bridgette, do not worry I do not consider your questions as trollish behavior and I will try and answer you as honestly as I can.

Baz, if there was absolutely no way Ida would ever find out or be hurt by you seeing an escort, would you follow through?

I would not be able to because the guilt would eat me from with in. Ida has a way of looking at me as if she can see right through me and that alone is enough to keep me on the straight and narrow. I also made a vow when we were married and that for me is not something to be taken lightly. Honestly if my marriage were not a good one, I may feel differently but at this point and time I am a very happy man.

Or say she wakes up one morning and monogamy is no longer an issue for her and she gives you a hall pass to indulge, do you do it? Are you tempted?



I would do whatever would make Ida happy, if this were something she would like to explore I would not stand in her way. I will also add, I would be worried for our relationship because once the door is opened it maybe to hard to control the car travelling down the wayward road. I don't mean to offend anyone by my statement but once others are introduced into a relationship it can really complicate things because emotions are very hard to control.

Another question, if it is not too intrusive, did you experience an erection during the massage? I understand if you don't want to answer, again, it's just my curiosity

No I did not and I will tell you why. I ensured the attendant did not disrobe and I ensured her hands only massaged my back and calves. I was so preoccupied with keeping the session remaining on the up and up that I didn't ever let my mind go to a point where an erection would have occurred. I will be honest with you Bridgette, if I had allowed the young lady to disrobe I'm sure it would have happened, I'm not a machine, I am merely human.

Baz, you have will power dude. How can you resist laying your hands on a sexy lady willing to let you do so??

 

[Baz]

Don't feed the troll....... everyone that gives him answers is just encouraging his moronic behaviour of asking personal questions.

He's been offered numerous times opportunities to find out in person along with his "Ida" and as usual always begs off and continues to brag about going to see a masseuse.

I've mentioned it before Ida has no interest and if you would pay attention you would notice she doesn't post at all. She may occasionally log on to see what I'm up to but besides that, she doesn't participate so why you bring Ida into it I have no idea. As for the masseuse it's the closest experience I can grasp which has something in common with the rest of the chaps here. I'm sorry if it offends you that I occasionally bring it up.

Madman, the fact I didn't allow her to disrobe and the fact that I was very nervous and all I could think of was what was going through Ida's head it really was easy my friend.

 

[thesun]

Don't feed the troll....... everyone that gives him answers is just encouraging his moronic behaviour of asking personal questions.

He's been offered numerous times opportunities to find out in person along with his "Ida" and as usual always begs off and continues to brag about going to see a masseuse.

No pun intended nor attempting to discredit you, why does Baz bother you so much? I mean there are other members here sharing and asking personal questions here too. You do have a choice to ignore him. I am sure there are others that ignore or disapprove of me. From my understanding, you cannot please everyone.

 

[a 1 player]

If I may, I have another question and that is about discretion? I notice some here have wives, others possibly girlfriends and surly some are in a position where discretion must be strictly adhered to based on career or of prominent status within the community. How do you manage to hide in the shadows based on available household funds, finding the time to abscond into a strange hotel or apartment building to complete your mission of pay for play without attracting attention? Obviously being caught with let's say your proverbial hobby pants down can lead to devastating consequences therefore how do some of you get away with it for so many years?

I only do it when I'm single so no one ever gets hurt.

 

[Shiek]

No pun intended nor attempting to discredit you, why does Baz bother you so much? I mean there are other members here sharing and asking personal questions here too. You do have a choice to ignore him. I am sure there are others that ignore or disapprove of me. From my understanding, you cannot please everyone.

Baz has judged others, myself included. Now he's starting to ask questions that are of a very personal nature..... It's typical behavior of a troll and lately there's been too many personal questions being asked by him.

 

[a 1 player]

Baz has judged others, myself included. Now he's starting to ask questions that are of a very personal nature..... It's typical behavior of a troll and lately there's been too many personal questions being asked by him.

Sheik,

With all due respect...

We all make value judgements every minute of the day, from the way a person looks to the car they drive and everything in between. Baz may be a troll, or he may be trying to be the voice of the 'moral majority', I haven't quite figured that out for myself yet. Either way, in my opinion, if he is not rude, belligerent, or threatening, I don't see a problem even if his tone can sometimes be condescending. The questions may be somewhat personal in nature, but as always we have the choice whether to answer or not, as well as how much information we wish to provide.

I for one think that often his questions are thought provoking, whether we like the nature of them or not. If nothing else it allows for a moment of inner reflection.

Now if he is in fact 'the troll', the problem should be taken care of soon enough. If not, we all have the choice to either block, ignore, tease, taunt, or answer the questions that are asked. I may or may not choose any or all of the above options depending on my mood, the thread, etc. Regardless, though sometimes an albatross, I really see no harm.

I for one would still have a beer with him.

Again, just my opinion.

 

[-b]

Baz has judged others, myself included. Now he's starting to ask questions that are of a very personal nature..... It's typical behavior of a troll and lately there's been too many personal questions being asked by him.

I agree.......

Now I remember ....Lamb to slaughter.....

Jeremiah 11:19:

But I was like a gentle lamb led to the slaughter; And I did not know that they had devised plots against me, {saying,} "Let us destroy the tree with its fruit, And let us cut him off from the land of the living, That his name be remembered no more."


Everyone has there own choice....but that is my feeling and those words
keep playing in my head ....Lambs to slaughter....

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[Baz]

Baz has judged others, myself included. Now he's starting to ask questions that are of a very personal nature..... It's typical behavior of a troll and lately there's been too many personal questions being asked by him.

I've judged you? Please show me where I've judged you? I don't believe I've ever singled you out unless I've been responding to your attacks. I don't agree with your stance on guns but that's my right as it is yours to defend your position. I've never called you names as you have done to me i.e. moronic, troll comes to mind. I've never belittled you and from what I see you are a promoter of the industry but not an active participant yet you judge me because I've only had one somewhat limited experience.

 

[Baz]

I agree.......

Now I remember ....Lamb to slaughter.....

Jeremiah 11:19:

But I was like a gentle lamb led to the slaughter; And I did not know that they had devised plots against me, {saying,} "Let us destroy the tree with its fruit, And let us cut him off from the land of the living, That his name be remembered no more."


Everyone has there own choice....but that is my feeling and those words
keep playing in my head ....Lambs to slaughter....
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Blissful, this is a little over dramatic don't you think? I feel I should be walking around with a pitchfork and a long red cape to hide my tail. :biggrin2:​

 

[Madman]

Blissful, this is a little over dramatic don't you think? I feel I should be walking around with a pitchfork and a long red cape to hide my tail. :biggrin2:[/INDENT]

HA HA HA BAz does have a sense of humor!

 

[Art Mann]

That's quite the handsome devil.

I like the natty suit, but I do feel he's mocking me with the moustache.

 

[Baz]

Madman, I do have more hair, perhaps this is a picture of HOF now that he's lost so much weight. :biggrin2:

 

[Madman]

That's quite the handsome devil.

I like the natty suit, but I do feel he's mocking me with the moustache.

I picture you more like this running all excited after booking an young lady

 

[Art Mann]

That's because

 

[shakeandbake]

are you writing a book???

That is the first thing that came to my mind , or an article

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

If I may, I have another question and that is about discretion? I notice some here have wives, others possibly girlfriends and surly some are in a position where discretion must be strictly adhered to based on career or of prominent status within the community. How do you manage to hide in the shadows based on available household funds, finding the time to abscond into a strange hotel or apartment building to complete your mission of pay for play without attracting attention? Obviously being caught with let's say your proverbial hobby pants down can lead to devastating consequences therefore how do some of you get away with it for so many years?

Baz - why do you choose to word things the way you do? I have said this before and will say it again. You post in a such a off putting way with your backward insults and passive/aggressive nature.

From this post alone

hiding in shadows - bad person
abscond into a strange hotel - dangerous
complete your mission of pay for pay - selfish
without attracting attention - sneaky

Just for starters.

Why not say something like - how can hobbying be done without getting caught for those who feel they need to hide it? I asked the same thing in one sentence as you did in your paragraph. Mine is not insulting, trolling, or can be thought of anything more then a simple question. Can you see the difference? Can you see that if you asked with my example, you may get a better reception? If I went into a church and asked questions about God that were with backwards insults and passive/aggressive in nature, would you not feel judged and offended? Even upset that I have insulted God himself in some comments?

I am not saying that you have to change a thing, but you wonder why people feel how they feel about you and "trolling" - this is an example of why. I think deep down you know that and partly enjoy it. As your little dig to the world you conflict with. But that is just my personal opinion.

I think if you truly just want answers, then maybe look at they way you deliver the questions. Just a friendly suggestion.

 

[Baz]

Thank you FemmeFatale and your constructive criticism is noted and appreciated. I'm not as eloquent as Art Mann and at times my words may come off a bit pompous or antagonistic. I am glad to see you back and I hope you are doing well??

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Thank you FemmeFatale and your constructive criticism is noted and appreciated. I'm not as eloquent as Art Mann and at times my words may come off a bit pompous or antagonistic. I am glad to see you back and I hope you are doing well??

I am doing well Baz, Thanks.

Just stopping for a quick minute and then I will probably be off again. :wink2: