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Discretion

Baz

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If I may, I have another question and that is about discretion? I notice some here have wives, others possibly girlfriends and surly some are in a position where discretion must be strictly adhered to based on career or of prominent status within the community. How do you manage to hide in the shadows based on available household funds, finding the time to abscond into a strange hotel or apartment building to complete your mission of pay for play without attracting attention? Obviously being caught with let's say your proverbial hobby pants down can lead to devastating consequences therefore how do some of you get away with it for so many years?
 
1) use a hobby phone,

2) always pay cash , don't ever ever for any sp pay email transfer or credit card,

3) don't tell anyone in your circle of friends and family unless you are sure they hobby too,

4) never give out your personal information i.e. real name, real job, real address, real phone number

That's it in a nut shell Baz, now book LadyRaven and get it over with dammit!
 
...and the LadyRaven's discount might have an expiry date. Te clock is ticking......
 
1) use a hobby phone,

2) always pay cash , don't ever ever for any sp pay email transfer or credit card,

3) don't tell anyone in your circle of friends and family unless you are sure they hobby too,

4) never give out your personal information i.e. real name, real job, real address, real phone number

That's it in a nut shell Baz, now book LadyRaven and get it over with dammit!


oh I know he wants to.. he is just shy.. Don't worry Bazzy I will be gentle with you
 
oh I know he wants to.. he is just shy.. Don't worry Bazzy I will be gentle with you

I do believe you, I do believe you would be gentle but I also know you will try your best to seduce me into a world of lust and desire of the flesh which can end up ruining my marriage. I did have Ida's blessing when I went for the massage and the young lady did attempt to engage in a little more than a massage but once I set the boundaries she didn't press the issue any further. In the end I assured her I would give her the same monetary sum of money as anyone accepting her full service package. Unfortunately for myself, Ida had what I call second hand buyers remorse over the entire situation and it took weeks of me explaining and reassuring her nothing more than a simple back massage and conversation went on in the room. I know the same would happen if I met you, although I think you maybe a little more persistent and much more experienced than the young masseuse but my problem is upsetting my darling better half. At the end of it all I do have to go home and I do want a home to be there once I arrive.
 
Baz, if there was absolutely no way Ida would ever find out or be hurt by you seeing an escort, would you follow through?

Or say she wakes up one morning and monogamy is no longer an issue for her and she gives you a hall pass to indulge, do you do it? Are you tempted?

Im not posing these questions as a troll, I'm simply curious.

Another question, if it is not too intrusive, did you experience an erection during the massage? I understand if you don't want to answer, again, it's just my curiosity.
 
I do believe you, I do believe you would be gentle but I also know you will try your best to seduce me into a world of lust and desire of the flesh which can end up ruining my marriage. I did have Ida's blessing when I went for the massage and the young lady did attempt to engage in a little more than a massage but once I set the boundaries she didn't press the issue any further. In the end I assured her I would give her the same monetary sum of money as anyone accepting her full service package. Unfortunately for myself, Ida had what I call second hand buyers remorse over the entire situation and it took weeks of me explaining and reassuring her nothing more than a simple back massage and conversation went on in the room. I know the same would happen if I met you, although I think you maybe a little more persistent and much more experienced than the young masseuse but my problem is upsetting my darling better half. At the end of it all I do have to go home and I do want a home to be there once I arrive.

Bring dear Ida along ....
 
Baz, if there was absolutely no way Ida would ever find out or be hurt by you seeing an escort, would you follow through?

Or say she wakes up one morning and monogamy is no longer an issue for her and she gives you a hall pass to indulge, do you do it? Are you tempted?

Im not posing these questions as a troll, I'm simply curious.

Another question, if it is not too intrusive, did you experience an erection during the massage? I understand if you don't want to answer, again, it's just my curiosity.

Bridgette, do not worry I do not consider your questions as trollish behavior and I will try and answer you as honestly as I can.

Baz, if there was absolutely no way Ida would ever find out or be hurt by you seeing an escort, would you follow through?

I would not be able to because the guilt would eat me from with in. Ida has a way of looking at me as if she can see right through me and that alone is enough to keep me on the straight and narrow. I also made a vow when we were married and that for me is not something to be taken lightly. Honestly if my marriage were not a good one, I may feel differently but at this point and time I am a very happy man.

Or say she wakes up one morning and monogamy is no longer an issue for her and she gives you a hall pass to indulge, do you do it? Are you tempted?



I would do whatever would make Ida happy, if this were something she would like to explore I would not stand in her way. I will also add, I would be worried for our relationship because once the door is opened it maybe to hard to control the car travelling down the wayward road. I don't mean to offend anyone by my statement but once others are introduced into a relationship it can really complicate things because emotions are very hard to control.

Another question, if it is not too intrusive, did you experience an erection during the massage? I understand if you don't want to answer, again, it's just my curiosity

No I did not and I will tell you why. I ensured the attendant did not disrobe and I ensured her hands only massaged my back and calves. I was so preoccupied with keeping the session remaining on the up and up that I didn't ever let my mind go to a point where an erection would have occurred. I will be honest with you Bridgette, if I had allowed the young lady to disrobe I'm sure it would have happened, I'm not a machine, I am merely human.
 
Bridgette, do not worry I do not consider your questions as trollish behavior and I will try and answer you as honestly as I can.

Baz, if there was absolutely no way Ida would ever find out or be hurt by you seeing an escort, would you follow through?

I would not be able to because the guilt would eat me from with in. Ida has a way of looking at me as if she can see right through me and that alone is enough to keep me on the straight and narrow. I also made a vow when we were married and that for me is not something to be taken lightly. Honestly if my marriage were not a good one, I may feel differently but at this point and time I am a very happy man.

Or say she wakes up one morning and monogamy is no longer an issue for her and she gives you a hall pass to indulge, do you do it? Are you tempted?



I would do whatever would make Ida happy, if this were something she would like to explore I would not stand in her way. I will also add, I would be worried for our relationship because once the door is opened it maybe to hard to control the car travelling down the wayward road. I don't mean to offend anyone by my statement but once others are introduced into a relationship it can really complicate things because emotions are very hard to control.

Another question, if it is not too intrusive, did you experience an erection during the massage? I understand if you don't want to answer, again, it's just my curiosity

No I did not and I will tell you why. I ensured the attendant did not disrobe and I ensured her hands only massaged my back and calves. I was so preoccupied with keeping the session remaining on the up and up that I didn't ever let my mind go to a point where an erection would have occurred. I will be honest with you Bridgette, if I had allowed the young lady to disrobe I'm sure it would have happened, I'm not a machine, I am merely human.

I'm impressed you actually sound sincere in your response.
 
If I may, I have another question and that is about discretion? I notice some here have wives, others possibly girlfriends and surly some are in a position where discretion must be strictly adhered to based on career or of prominent status within the community. How do you manage to hide in the shadows based on available household funds, finding the time to abscond into a strange hotel or apartment building to complete your mission of pay for play without attracting attention? Obviously being caught with let's say your proverbial hobby pants down can lead to devastating consequences therefore how do some of you get away with it for so many years?

None of your fucking business. Go buy some test tubes, grow some bugs and examine them instead
 
Baz, if there was absolutely no way Ida would ever find out or be hurt by you seeing an escort, would you follow through?

Or say she wakes up one morning and monogamy is no longer an issue for her and she gives you a hall pass to indulge, do you do it? Are you tempted?

Im not posing these questions as a troll, I'm simply curious.

Another question, if it is not too intrusive, did you experience an erection during the massage? I understand if you don't want to answer, again, it's just my curiosity.
I experienced an erection just by your question and ejaculation by looking at your pictures! Again!!!!
 
Don't feed the troll


I guess somehow I must have offended you too. I don't know how, when and where but obviously I have. Danolo, regardless of how you feel about me I think it's wonderful how you have taken control of your life, congratulations.
 
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