Does sex get boring in a long term relationship?

[BrockLesnar]

I think the average joe has better odds winnin the cash for life lotto than marrying the true love of his life
that woman who will be as fiery and sexy from the time u marry her to the day u die
she changes u change....especially in this day and age with all the distractions around us

 

[Pussy_Eater]

I will never get tired of licking pussy. Married or not.

 

[oldguyzer]

It's ressurect old threads day! :good:

 

[HOF]

It sure does get boring that why I enjoy my relationships 2 hours at a time!

 

[oldguyzer]

Sex with the same person, no matter whether it's lover, girlfriend, wife, SP, or whomever, gets boring. That's why variety is the spice of life :biggrin2:

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

I have to disagree with the boring people.

I have been in a relationship going on 5 years now and it is still going strong.

Variety is the spice of life, I agree. So we change it up quite often. We add the variety, we don't separately go searching for it. He had a couple of years were he was like most men here, different girls all the time. He decided on his own that it was not what he wanted. He didn't want sex with different women all the time, he was different sex with me all the time.

It works for us.

 

[oldguyzer]

To each their own. I've been faithful when in relationships with no desire to stray, but after a few years the routine does become routine. There is a separation between sex and romance, of course.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

To each their own. I've been faithful when in relationships with no desire to stray, but after a few years the routine does become routine. There is a separation between sex and romance, of course.

I think there is something to be said about letting your partner be themselves as well. I am not saying that I am like other women. I know I am not. No "regular" woman would have built a relationship for 3 years while her partner was sleeping with other women. But I do think that because I did and it allowed him to do what he wanted, he decided in the end it was not in other women but in me the whole time.

The first night we had sex was a Saturday, it was amazing. Last Saturday when we had sex, it was better then the first. I couldn't squirt then. Now I can. LOL

I also think being in this business helps. I know the difference between sex and love. He was a former hobbyist. We have sex like the hottest GFE/PSE sessions out there. We have even called it a session. When we fight, sometimes we will just fuck because the fight is lasting longer then they we like, but we still need to get laid. I have a higher in usual sex drive as well.

I am backwards, most people find a mate they can live with and sex becomes second. I could never live with him, {maybe but doubt it, LOL} yet the sex is fucking awesome!

 

[Madman]

Routine is routine, it gets boring. Femme are you 100% positive he's not secretly monkeying around?

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

Routine is routine, it gets boring. Femme are you 100% positive he's not secretly monkeying around?

He doesn't have to sneak. That is point. He can go and do. Next year he may choose to, but for now and the last 2 years, he has not. Sadly, I even know most of the stories, the names, life stories of these women. I am his best friend. Has it hurt me, yes. It didn't start out with my permission. I told him straight, I don't support it, but I accept it.

Maybe the trill is gone for him. Because it is not a "hidden" thing. I don't know. Maybe he saw my sacrifice and the pain it caused me, and he just doesn't want to be responsible for that. Or maybe after my injury and he saw me the way he did, he saw how close he was to losing me to something else. I don't know, but for now - I know he is all mine. Tomorrow who knows, but that is what makes life interesting, no?

Routine - yes. Ours is sex 3-4 times a week and Saturdays are the big marathon full of every acronym you can think of. I will take that kind of boring any day of the week.

 

[oldguyzer]

He may not "have" to sneak, but he will. It's called "guilt". Men and women both have it in large doses, even though they pretend they don't.

 

[RAWD]

He may not "have" to sneak, but he will. It's called "guilt". Men and women both have it in large doses, even though they pretend they don't.

I tend to agree. In some respects, openness is worse.

Sometimes, I think life would be much easier under a shield of willful ignorance.

 

[oldguyzer]

Sometimes, I think life would be much easier under a shield of willful ignorance.

Look around...lots of people like that :biggrin2:

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Sorry what did he say?

</willful ignorance>

 

[Boing]

I had to bring back this oldie after I read this.

The Origin of the Word Computer













A language instructor was explaining to her class that in French, nouns unlike their English counterparts, are grammatically designated as masculine or feminine.



One puzzled student asked, "What gender is computer?"



The teacher did not know, and the word wasn't in her French dictionary.



So for fun she split the class into two groups appropriately enough, by gender and asked them to decide whether "computer" should be a masculine or feminine noun. Both groups were required to give four reasons for their recommendation.



The men's group decided that computers should definitely be of the feminine gender ("la computer"), because:



1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic



2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else



3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long-term memory for possible later retrieval



4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your pay check on accessories for it.



The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be masculine ("le computer"), because:



1. In order to get their attention, you have to turn them on



2. They have a lot of data but they are still clueless



3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem



4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you'd waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model

 

[Ozzie]

I had to bring back this oldie after I read this.

The Origin of the Word Computer













A language instructor was explaining to her class that in French, nouns unlike their English counterparts, are grammatically designated as masculine or feminine.



One puzzled student asked, "What gender is computer?"



The teacher did not know, and the word wasn't in her French dictionary.



So for fun she split the class into two groups appropriately enough, by gender and asked them to decide whether "computer" should be a masculine or feminine noun. Both groups were required to give four reasons for their recommendation.



The men's group decided that computers should definitely be of the feminine gender ("la computer"), because:



1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic



2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else



3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long-term memory for possible later retrieval



4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your pay check on accessories for it.



The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be masculine ("le computer"), because:



1. In order to get their attention, you have to turn them on



2. They have a lot of data but they are still clueless



3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem



4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you'd waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model

:biggrin2:

 

[ShowmeThemoney]

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