Falliing For Your Lady for Hire

[HOOKED]

I remember in my day most of us boys would put the girls into two categories. She was either marrying material or partying material. These were not escorts but just regular college/university girls. Looking back I now see how wrong this was because if we married the party girls the sex and blow jobs would have probably not stopped as soon as the ring went on!:biggrin2:

 

[papasmerf]

I remember in my day most of us boys would put the girls into two categories. She was either marrying material or partying material. These were not escorts but just regular college/university girls. Looking back I now see how wrong this was because if we married the party girls the sex and blow jobs would have probably not stopped as soon as the ring went on!:biggrin2:

My bet is she would have insisted you stop giving BJs :whip:;/Waving://

 

[HOOKED]

My bet is she would have insisted you stop giving BJs :whip:;/Waving://

 

[papasmerf]

it is good to dream

 

[User-E]

Actually Sarah, this pic makes me a little bit uncomfortable. It causes my speedo to ride me terribly in the back side because of the pressure caused in the front part while I try to look up your dress.:blush2:

Sorry for the hi-jack Baz, carry on!

Please allow me to apologize Guido! I had no idea my photo would cause such a situation. I will remember to pull my dress down and act like a lady from now on.

:no:

 

[Dan]

Thanks Guido! I vote to have speedo Guido banned!:biggrin2:

 

[oldguyzer]

Please allow me to apologize Guido! I had no idea my photo would cause such a situation. I will remember to pull my dress down and act like a lady from now on.

:no:

Thanks Guido! I vote to have speedo Guido banned!:biggrin2:

It's OK...I know some Greeks....they don't like the Italians too much. We should have her dress riding high soon!

 

[oagre]

I'm curious if this occurs more often than not? I am aware some gentlemen repeat with the same lady on a regular basis and I'm curious if the lines of business vs friendship vs more than friends ever cross? Do you start to believe that there is more to the relationship as opposed to strictly a business relationship? Do lunch dates possibly dinner dates get thrown into the mix along with taking vacations together? How about taking a lady for hire to an event, perhaps a Christmas party etc...... At one of my company's events it was noted one of the VP's had quite an attractive younger woman on his arm. Needless to say eyebrows were raised and some were suspicious of the relationship. An older very well to do man with a much younger attractive woman always leads to speculation.

I used to belong to an UK board called Captain 69 which was a hoot. I once asked the "chaps" if they had the equivalent of escort-client social parties in London and one of them told me that if they did, they would end up w their photos in the Daily Mail. He added that a few of them had a glass or 2 of champers together once a year at the Queen's enclosure at Epsom, the big socialite horse race event.

You may gather from this that Oagre was a little out of his social and financial league on that board.

In any event, many of the chaps ran hi-end mistresses and regular $$$ escorts and it was a standing joke about how they had to deal with the stares of maitres d' and other service staff when out w attractive women 30+ years younger than themselves. Of course - being British - they kept a stiff upper lip and simply ordered "more tea for the young lady, if you please, my good fellow".

 

[oagre]

I'm curious if this occurs more often than not? I am aware some gentlemen repeat with the same lady on a regular basis and I'm curious if the lines of business vs friendship vs more than friends ever cross? Do you start to believe that there is more to the relationship as opposed to strictly a business relationship? Do lunch dates possibly dinner dates get thrown into the mix along with taking vacations together? How about taking a lady for hire to an event, perhaps a Christmas party etc...... At one of my company's events it was noted one of the VP's had quite an attractive younger woman on his arm. Needless to say eyebrows were raised and some were suspicious of the relationship. An older very well to do man with a much younger attractive woman always leads to speculation.

Absolutely. It can get damn confusing. Currently, I am "dating" my regular escort in the sense that more than 50% of the time, we go out to a show or to play tennis wo me paying her a fee. I still pay for sex, but that is an effort to stop the relationship crossing the line fully into real life, which I am not ready for.

I have had various line blurrings with at least a half-dozen other girls over the years. It can vary from a little extra time off the meter while she tells you about her rl issues, to shows, movies, dinners off the meter.

You have to try an figure out when you are being played, semi played, slightly played or not at all played. So it's always a risk. And I am not convinced they would shag you more than that "good girl" once they got a ring on their finger. They're all females at the end of the day and they all function in much the same way.

Like I said, be careful. One of my escort friends (who I still have dinner w once in a while) extracted a condo on Queens Quay out of a love-sick client a few years ago as the price of agreeing to marry him and quitting the business. He put the condo in her name alone before the scheduled marriage day. He's still single. She's still escorting.

 

[User-E]

Absolutely. It can get damn confusing. Currently, I am "dating" my regular escort in the sense that more than 50% of the time, we go out to a show or to play tennis wo me paying her a fee. I still pay for sex, but that is an effort to stop the relationship crossing the line fully into real life, which I am not ready for.
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Like I said, be careful. One of my escort friends (who I still have dinner w once in a while) extracted a condo on Queens Quay out of a love-sick client a few years ago as the price of agreeing to marry him and quitting the business. He put the condo in her name alone before the scheduled marriage day. He's still single. She's still escorting.

I've been admiring your avatar oagre. /-Thumbs-up::/

 

[JessieJames]

Absolutely. It can get damn confusing. Currently, I am "dating" my regular escort in the sense that more than 50% of the time, we go out to a show or to play tennis wo me paying her a fee. I still pay for sex, but that is an effort to stop the relationship crossing the line fully into real life, which I am not ready for.

I have had various line blurrings with at least a half-dozen other girls over the years. It can vary from a little extra time off the meter while she tells you about her rl issues, to shows, movies, dinners off the meter.

You have to try an figure out when you are being played, semi played, slightly played or not at all played. So it's always a risk. And I am not convinced they would shag you more than that "good girl" once they got a ring on their finger. They're all females at the end of the day and they all function in much the same way.

Like I said, be careful. One of my escort friends (who I still have dinner w once in a while) extracted a condo on Queens Quay out of a love-sick client a few years ago as the price of agreeing to marry him and quitting the business. He put the condo in her name alone before the scheduled marriage day. He's still single. She's still escorting.

Do you pay the regular fee in a situation like this Oagre?

 

[HOF]

My bet is she would have insisted you stop giving BJs :whip:;/Waving://

:LMAO:

 

[HOF]

Absolutely. It can get damn confusing. Currently, I am "dating" my regular escort in the sense that more than 50% of the time, we go out to a show or to play tennis wo me paying her a fee. I still pay for sex, but that is an effort to stop the relationship crossing the line fully into real life, which I am not ready for.

I have had various line blurrings with at least a half-dozen other girls over the years. It can vary from a little extra time off the meter while she tells you about her rl issues, to shows, movies, dinners off the meter.

You have to try an figure out when you are being played, semi played, slightly played or not at all played. So it's always a risk. And I am not convinced they would shag you more than that "good girl" once they got a ring on their finger. They're all females at the end of the day and they all function in much the same way.

Like I said, be careful. One of my escort friends (who I still have dinner w once in a while) extracted a condo on Queens Quay out of a love-sick client a few years ago as the price of agreeing to marry him and quitting the business. He put the condo in her name alone before the scheduled marriage day. He's still single. She's still escorting.

Hmmmmmm

 

[oagre]

Do you pay the regular fee in a situation like this Oagre?

I do. It's a hold over from when I first started seeing her 4 years ago and all the other stuff hadn't yet taken place.

It's one of those things where if you start messing w one feature, you have to re-think and have a "talk" about the whole situation and I am trying to figure out how serious I am about the relationship before getting into a "discussion" with her.

One thing I have discovered is that women memorize little things you say and resurrect them 9 months later.

 

[oagre]

Hmmmmmm

Actually, whenever my escort friend refers to what happened, she expresses it more along the lines of.... :biggrin2:

 

[oldguyzer]

I do. It's a hold over from when I first started seeing her 4 years ago and all the other stuff hadn't yet taken place.

It's one of those things where if you start messing w one feature, you have to re-think and have a "talk" about the whole situation and I am trying to figure out how serious I am about the relationship before getting into a "discussion" with her.

One thing I have discovered is that women memorize little things you say and resurrect them 9 months later.

I have been in this situation too. It is simply better to continue to offer payment for the stuff we pay for, but not for the company outside the bedroom. As the relationship and feelings sort themselves out, the issue becomes moot. But forcing it is a sure way to make one or both sides feel uncomfortable.

 

[Guido]

I'd rather pay and not deal with the outside stuff. As George use to say, keep the two worlds apart, the fantasy and the reality world must never meet.:wink2:

 

[Baz]

Thank you very much for your insight and sharing your experience Oagre. Do you believe she would continue the relationship if you were to cease paying her for intimacy? As you stated one of your friends extracted a condo out of a love sick fool. This is exactly what I believe is the motivation for many of the women involved in this type of relationship. I also believe this with over sea relationships, mail order brides ect.. I do see you are well grounded and as much as it pains me to admit it I do agree with you to keep it on a business level as to not blur the lines.

 

[Reverse]

Baz, I could really use my own pad. Blow jobs for condo's available.:biggrin2:

 

[Mikehorn]

Needless to say eyebrows were raised and some were suspicious of the relationship. An older very well to do man with a much younger attractive woman always leads to speculation.

Especially with the church ladies