Friends in this Industry?...

[Amelia Fox]

Friends?
Sadly that word is said loosely nowadays. In this industry, I've learned others are acquainting themselves with you for there own personal gains..
It's truly hurtful to people who are kind hearted, when you know you have a friend who is either using you or pretending to be friendly for other reasons.
What do you do?
Act upon your impulses or just not speak anymore, and ignore all communications without further explanations?

 

[Snail]

People don't change. If he has done it before run and run very fast.

 

[Prick]

We are lucky if we die having experienced true friendship with 2 people, 3 tops.

 

[Al Bumin]

How long did you know the person?.

 

[cristycurves]

I believe a persons only TRUE friend is themselves and well, if they have one, their dog....
After many, many negatives experiences with peers I decided to only befriend those outside of this lifestyle. Because when money comes into play, sadly people aren't always "nice". Amelia, we all choose to have who we have in our lives, and how they treat us is how we allow them to treat us. If you know someone isn't out for your best interest there is no reason to associate with them. Life is far to short to spend any time on anyone that isn't wanting you to better yourself. We all should want that of one another. I find it funny when those who consider themselves to be a "nice " person will treat some like shit. Nice people treat all people nice and they are few and far between, but that statement may be to black and white for some!

 

[Senior]

Friends?
Sadly that word is said loosely nowadays. In this industry, I've learned others are acquainting themselves with you for there own personal gains..
It's truly hurtful to people who are kind hearted, when you know you have a friend who is either using you or pretending to be friendly for other reasons.
What do you do?
Act upon your impulses or just not speak anymore, and ignore all communications without further explanations?

Say good-bye. Mourn the loss. Move on with an piece of your heart missing.

 

[Wanker]

Friends in any industry are hard to find. As one of your "friends" if you can borrow $500 for a couple of months and see how quick they stop calling you.

 

[Louis XIV]

In this industry, trust no one. Ever.

 

[Boing]

In this industry, trust no one. Ever.

In any industry Louis.

 

[Louis XIV]

In any industry Louis.

True Dat!

 

[Guido]

Money is usually the motivation behind the betrayal, money and sometimes someone of the opposite sex.

 

[Willy]

Money is usually the motivation behind the betrayal, money and sometimes someone of the opposite sex.

Money and sex in that order.

 

[cristycurves]

In this industry, trust no one. Ever.

:LMAO::LMAO: oh my gosh you're funny! your posts get better and better:wink2:

 

[Goodfella]

:LMAO::LMAO: oh my gosh you're funny! your posts get better and better:wink2:

I have to second that. Nothing against the profession as there are a few more that cannot be trusted.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

This industry is all about deception. Best to keep that in mind.

 

[muckin]

this industry is about sex for money, keeps it simple. no more no less.

 

[oldguyzer]

this industry is about sex for money, keeps it simple. no more no less.

Indeed, but having sex for money does not preclude intelligent, loving human beings on either end. Money is important. Love makes us feel important.








Damn, that was good!

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Someone please check oldguyzer's IP address please. That's not him posting. :wink2:

 

[Louis XIV]

:LMAO::LMAO: oh my gosh you're funny! your posts get better and better:wink2:

Yeah, I always laugh a good belly laugh when I read some dumbass's posts online complaining that they were either publicly outed, or discovered cheating by their SO because either a client or a provider wasn't trustworthy enough to maintain discretion.

The disastrous fallout that results, when individual lives, careers, marriages/relationships and families are destroyed always has me in stitches. That shit is just hilarious! Not. :Na-don'think-so:

Providers who think they can trust clients or other providers are just as ignorant and naive as clients who believe they are special to their providers, or that they can be trusted with their personal information.

I have no sympathy for anyone that fools themselves into thinking fantasy is reality, or that they can trust others whose paths they may cross while hobbying. They deserve exactly what they get for being so stupid.

You can never completely trust anyone to keep a secret.

It all boils down to this ^^^

 

[oldguyzer]

Someone please check oldguyzer's IP address please. That's not him posting. :wink2:

I'm not Bob is the Spicy Chocolate. I think.