Fuck buddies

[blissful]

Who doesn't need a good flogging? :bad:

Brash just bought one, if you want I could visit and we can test it on each other:he:
OK:slap:

 

[SillyGirl]

Brash just bought one, if you want I could visit and we can test it on each other:he:
OK:slap:

I have my own. :tongue:

 

[SillyGirl]

Well even fuck buddies represent a form of relationship, to me, as do friends and even the people you meet on the street. I know I'm certainly not ready for a Relationship. But even something like a fuck buddy relationship, I don't think I'm ready for that. As for hobbying, I'm questioning if I'm ready for even it any more.

Perhaps a vow of celibacy would be a good idea...six months, maybe? Take the pressure off yourself and figure out what you want and what you can handle.

 

[blissful]

I have my own. :tongue:

Ok, so we both have one each, no need to share, think of the fun. If I am right to think you also have bondage equipment too? Should I bring my own too.:tongue:

 

[SillyGirl]

Ok, so we both have one each, no need to share, think of the fun. If I am right to think you also have bondage equipment too? Should I bring my own too.:tongue:

Um, equipment? I don't think so...do handcuffs count? :???:

 

[blissful]

Um, equipment? I don't think so...do handcuffs count?

Yes they do, stop it, I have to wait till the weekend. New Woman this one is civi and I have to wait for the handcuffs.
OMG I may have to get a pro if you keep posting pics like these.:666:

 

[SillyGirl]

Yes they do, stop it, I have to wait till the weekend. New Woman this one is civi and I have to wait for the handcuffs.
OMG I may have to get a pro if you keep posting pics like these.:666:

hehehehe..... :666:

 

[SillyGirl]

Now I have girls on-the-brain.

 

[blissful]

Damn you:bad: Not nice:no:
They are so Beautiful.
Would you like to play, I am a learning fuck buddy, you are my Goddess:666:
Ok the poor civi is in trouble. I also keep another number hand

 

[SillyGirl]

Damn you:bad: Not nice:no:

evil smile...I never claimed to be nice. :666:

:tongue:

 

[blissful]

When we meet, I AM GOING TO FLOG YOU:bad:

Or you will be begging.:666:Hey we could get an escort together.:666:

 

[Blank_Dave]

Perhaps a vow of celibacy would be a good idea...six months, maybe? Take the pressure off yourself and figure out what you want and what you can handle.

Again with the abstinence thing?!? I went nearly 7 months without hobbying, and that only ended in a BJ/HJ. I went 10 months total before getting laid. Now I should do that again...Damn....

 

[SillyGirl]

Again with the abstinence thing?!? I went nearly 7 months without hobbying, and that only ended in a BJ/HJ. I went 10 months total before getting laid. Now I should do that again...Damn....

Well if you don't want to hobby, don't want a fuckbuddy and don't want a relationship, I don't know what else to tell you. :neutral:

 

[Blank_Dave]

Well if you don't want to hobby, don't want a fuckbuddy and don't want a relationship, I don't know what else to tell you. :neutral:

Well I just got the little bugger out, I was hoping to get some use out of him. But you are correct, time off to figure out which is the direction to go in is really what I need.

I'd like more intimacy than what hobbying really has to offer. But at the same time, I can't see someone choosing me to be either a fuckbuddy or an SO....I just don't have anything to offer in those areas.

So until then....In you go little guy...*ziiip*

 

[SillyGirl]

Well I just got the little bugger out, I was hoping to get some use out of him. But you are correct, time off to figure out which is the direction to go in is really what I need.

I'd like more intimacy than what hobbying really has to offer. But at the same time, I can't see someone choosing me to be either a fuckbuddy or an SO....I just don't have anything to offer in those areas.

So until then....In you go little guy...*ziiip*

Um, I seriously don't think you should abandon solo play. When I did my celibacy vow I raised masturbation to an art form. And at one point I had a rotation of cyberfuck buddies.

It's important not to abandon the sexual part of yourself, even if there's no partner involved.

 

[blissful]

Well I just got the little bugger out, I was hoping to get some use out of him. But you are correct, time off to figure out which is the direction to go in is really what I need.

I'd like more intimacy than what hobbying really has to offer. But at the same time, I can't see someone choosing me to be either a fuckbuddy or an SO....I just don't have anything to offer in those areas.

So until then....In you go little guy...*ziiip*

You do realize life is short. You do realize that you are making your own choice for these things, so if that your choice you should be HAPPY, right. So go celebrate and drink on it and if you see a nice ........... then walk away with a smile because that is your choice.

As for me my choice right now would to Spank Sillygirl for teasing me.Damn it:666:

 

[SillyGirl]

As for me my choice right now would to Spank Sillygirl for teasing me.Damn it:666:

Thought you might like this pic, Bliss... :bad:

 

[blissful]

Thought you might like this pic, Bliss... :bad:

One of these days we will meet up and then:slap:
for being a tease. If you are nice we can play nicely:666:
2 more days. Sillygirl today I got ask for my phone number to go out with me at the gym. She knows I am married, she is too. By the time you and I meet well ..............:he:

 

[Blank_Dave]

Um, I seriously don't think you should abandon solo play. When I did my celibacy vow I raised masturbation to an art form. And at one point I had a rotation of cyberfuck buddies.

I have been pondering masturbation and myself for say about a year. I read on an unrelated adult forum, a female member post about her experiences with masturbation. I found it to be an interesting read, and with a bit of thought, I noted how it paralleled my own experiences/practices. Early on, she masturbated solely for the release. The faster she could get off, the better. And she had no interest in the pleasure of the process.

I have found that in my masturbation practices as well. I wasn't rubbing them out for the pleasure of rubbing them out, I was strictly doing it to pop off. The faster the better. And it would appear that I was most prone to masturbating when I was stressed or really feeling down. I was using to pick myself up and relieve stress.

But now that I'm feeling better about myself, and have adopted a more accepting attitude, it's "not as important" to me. I don't need that release now...Ok, as often. Now I'm free to try it for pleasure, but that means having to 'abandon' my old ways, and learn how to pleasure myself from scratch. And that is something I don't quite have the patience for.

It's important not to abandon the sexual part of yourself, even if there's no partner involved.

Well to be honest, while I do seem to think and fantasize about sex an inordinate amount of time, I'm not that physically/emotionally a sexual individual. I think the fact that I held out until I was 38 kind of speaks for itself.

Addition: I will admit that I am rather envious of the members of this board as to their sexual freedom. Sure I'm jealous they're getting laid left, right and center, but that's not it. It's the ease and comfort with which they express their sexual side/being. That is an aspect of myself that I'm uncomfortable with.

You do realize life is short. You do realize that you are making your own choice for these things, so if that your choice you should be HAPPY, right. So go celebrate and drink on it and if you see a nice ........... then walk away with a smile because that is your choice.

To quote Rush...."If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice" Who knows, maybe I'll see a cutie, finally break down and ask.... Of course if yo believe that, then I have a bridge to sell you.

 

[SillyGirl]

Addition: I will admit that I am rather envious of the members of this board as to their sexual freedom. Sure I'm jealous they're getting laid left, right and center, but that's not it. It's the ease and comfort with which they express their sexual side/being. That is an aspect of myself that I'm uncomfortable with.

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If someone had told me ten years ago that the day would come I'd be perfectly ok fucking some guy I'd just met, and that it would turn out I find girls yummy, I would have laughed and not believed it.

Things can change in ways we don't foresee.