Fuck buddies

[SillyGirl]

SCH...

I'm not asking about which one to drop, just the best way to do it if necessary.

If I were paying I'd be sticking with Three and Four. I don't think I'd feel the same obligation to not just disappear if I wanted to.

The situations are the same in that it's only about sex. Different in that I don't have that clear "business" line right out in the open and automatically clear to everyone.

This pic made me laugh.... :tongue:

 

[SillyGirl]

Yes, but you're telling us this fellow isn't a fuck buddy up to your standards and isn't making the cut.

I'm curious, how are you going to tell him?

I haven't even decided for sure yet, I'm just thinking about it.

And it's not about standards, it's about the faint ringing of alarm bells in my head. I'm just trying to decide on an exit strategy so I'm ready if I need it.

 

[Lone Wolf]

..... he's just setting off some alarm bells in my head.......


Too many emails, a little too enthusiastic. I've already decided not to see him more than once a month or so, and if he doesn't calm down a little it will be best to not see him at all.

This is already a good enough reason to move on.

 

[Lone Wolf]

I've actually been thinking I need to add a Five, but it won't be one of you guys. My problem with your plan is it has me dumping somebody every couple of months, and I have to constantly be looking for new ones. I was really hoping to just get the rotation settled and let it be for awhile.

DEFINE FOR A WHILE (NO NEED TO RESPOND FOR THE BOARD)

It bothers me tremendously when people just disappear from my life, so I don't want to do that to someone else.

JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL THAT WAY, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES. IN GENERAL, MEN ARE MORE USED TO DISAPPOINTMENT IN THIS REGARD THAN WOMEN, SINCE IN CIVILIAN LIFE, THEY GENERALLY DO THE "ASKING". IN ANY CASE, SOMEONE IS NOT JUST DISAPPEARING...YOU COULD SIMPLY SAY SOMETHING TO THE EFFECT OF " I AM MOVING IN SEVERAL NEW DIRECTIONS IN MY LIFE, AND I AM MAKING SOME SWEEPING CHANGES, ALL AT ONCE. IN LIGHT OF THIS, I AM GOING TO ASK THAT WE NOT SEE EACH OTHER FOR A WHILE, WHILE I SORT THROUGH THINGS.....HE'LL GET THE HINT, AND IF HE DOESN'T, YOU NEED TO BE MORE ASSERTIVE.

I can see the similarities with a hobbyist's situation, but at least with an sp there is a "business" element to the experience. This is purely personal, although strangely impersonal at the same time..

SCH IS CORRECT IN HIS VIEW. YOU FUNDAMENTALLY AGREE WITH HIS POINT WHEN YOU STATE: "This is purely personal, although strangely impersonal at the same time." IF WE ACCEPT THE VIEW THAT MOST LADIES WOULD LIKE TO HAVE A STEADY STREAM OF "REGULARS", IT MIGHT BE EASIER TO VIEW IT FROM THAT PERSPECTIVE, ESPECIALLY IF ONE TAKES INTO ACCOUNT THAT MANY HOBBYISTS DO HAVE A REGULAR ROTATION OF LADIES THAT THEY TYPICALLY SEE, AND THEN ONLY VENTURE OFF OF THAT LIST, ON OCCASION....AND ONLY THEN, TO POTENTIALLY FIND A LADY TO REPLACE ONE WHO IS CURRENTLY IN THEIR ROTATION.

 

[Cycleguy007]

So this afternoon Four was here, and the first thing he said when he came in was, "you know you have Gladys Kravitz living over there, right?" :shock: um, no I didn't realize I really do. oops. :bad:

I still think you shudda answered the door nekid!

 

[Cycleguy007]

Dude!

Dude!

DEFINE FOR A WHILE (NO NEED TO RESPOND FOR THE BOARD)

 

[SillyGirl]

JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL THAT WAY, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES. IN GENERAL, MEN ARE MORE USED TO DISAPPOINTMENT IN THIS REGARD THAN WOMEN, SINCE IN CIVILIAN LIFE, THEY GENERALLY DO THE "ASKING". IN ANY CASE, SOMEONE IS NOT JUST DISAPPEARING...YOU COULD SIMPLY SAY SOMETHING TO THE EFFECT OF " I AM MOVING IN SEVERAL NEW DIRECTIONS IN MY LIFE, AND I AM MAKING SOME SWEEPING CHANGES, ALL AT ONCE. IN LIGHT OF THIS, I AM GOING TO ASK THAT WE NOT SEE EACH OTHER FOR A WHILE, WHILE I SORT THROUGH THINGS.....HE'LL GET THE HINT, AND IF HE DOESN'T, YOU NEED TO BE MORE ASSERTIVE.

Correct as usual, King Friday. That's brilliant.

I'm also still a fan of "I'm switching to girls." :tongue:

A pic for CG...

 

[Lone Wolf]

Correct as usual, King Friday. That's brilliant.

My Pleasure

 

[SillyGirl]

So last summer I was flirting around with some Youngstuff, and then one day he said something stupid and I crossed him off my list. Until a couple of days ago, when I got a text from him, and 140 texts later I'm thinking I might have to name him Five.

Here's the thing, though....um, usually for me, Smart and Funny count for a lot. A whole lot. And so far I'm not convinced he's much of either. Also, he lives in the city and has no car, so I would have to drive to see him, and you all know how much I hate driving, especially city driving.

But, he balances that out by being 25, seems nice, and he's fucking gorgeous. He would be my first Mimbo, but I'm thinking it probably doesn't matter...it's not like I'm spending a lot of time talking to these guys anyway. :tongue:

Oh and Two has settled down, I think I might keep him.

 

[Art Mann]

I'm loving this

I'm loving this

. . . 140 texts later I'm thinking I might have to name him Five . . . and Two has settled down, I think I might keep him.

You go, girl, go!

 

[Auggie]

You've got a good thing going.

I'm curious about where you do your fuck buddy recruiting. Is it on-line, people you happen to meet or former clients?

 

[Cycleguy007]

or... maybe you're just acting like a guy! :tongue:

 

[Lone Wolf]

Here's the thing, though....um, usually for me, Smart and Funny count for a lot. A whole lot. And so far I'm not convinced he's much of either. Also, he lives in the city and has no car, so I would have to drive to see him, and you all know how much I hate driving, especially city driving.

You know that I am quite fond of you, and I don't mean for this to be hurtful. However, the first thing that I thought of when I read this was that it sounded very familiar to many of the stories reported in the news of desperate junior high, or high school, teachers and the measures that they undertook to see their underage targets of affection, who obviously didn't drive. I know that your situation is clearly not the same, but it's the first thought that popped into my mind. And, as you know, I call them as I see them. My comments are not necessarily meant to dissuade you, but rather to give you pause to reevaluate the situation with a clear head, which is rarely encountered when one is exchanging 140 texts at a frenetic pace. Food for thought: And, you may have answered the question with your reference to him as a mimbo. Do you want a man, a boy toy, or is it of no consequence? If it's of little to no consequence, how does he compare and contrast to "pizza boy", who we have heard of, and who presumably has a car, at least to deliver pizza?

I am happy to hear that 2 is acting in a more appropriate manner.

 

[SillyGirl]

You know that I am quite fond of you, and I don't mean for this to be hurtful. However, the first thing that I thought of when I read this was that it sounded very familiar to many of the stories reported in the news of desperate junior high, or high school, teachers and the measures that they undertook to see their underage targets of affection, who obviously didn't drive. I know that your situation is clearly not the same, but it's the first thought that popped into my mind. And, as you know, I call them as I see them. My comments are not necessarily meant to dissuade you, but rather to give you pause to reevaluate the situation with a clear head, which is rarely encountered when one is exchanging 140 texts at a frenetic pace. Food for thought: And, you may have answered the question with your reference to him as a mimbo. Do you want a man, a boy toy, or is it of no consequence? If it's of little to no consequence, how does he compare and contrast to "pizza boy", who we have heard of, and who presumably has a car, at least to deliver pizza?

I am happy to hear that 2 is acting in a more appropriate manner.

Yea, I thought of that too. I think I'm doing the girl-version of thinking with the little head. :tongue:

Auggie I'm finding them online, and I think you're having a misunderstanding about me...I have no former clients, I've never been an SP. Unless we're counting being married. :roll:

 

[Auggie]

I assumed wrong, you seem to know a lot about the biz but that's easy just through osmosis.

I like how you keep us up-to-date on your private life arty: while maintaining a barrier from us. :great:

 

[Auggie]

This is one of my favourite threads.

Time for an update on the current numbering sequence of SillyGirl's fuckbuddies in the New Year.
Who got the first one after midnight? arty:

 

[Art Mann]

This is one of my favourite threads.

Time for an update on the current numbering sequence of SillyGirl's fuckbuddies in the New Year.
Who got the first one after midnight? arty:

D'oh!

The answer's obvious:

SillyGirl got the first one . . . and she doesn't have to share the details with you.

But you're free to let your imagination and jealousy run wild.

 

[HOF]

Sillygirl, do you know what this reminds me of?

Sillygirl, do you know what this reminds me of?



:no::no::no::no:

 

[SillyGirl]

:no:

Yes. It reminds you that I got further in three hours with your gf than you had in three weeks.

Not my fault she was all over me, dude. Maybe you should try dating girls who like guys. :na:

 

[SillyGirl]

This is one of my favourite threads.

Time for an update on the current numbering sequence of SillyGirl's fuckbuddies in the New Year.
Who got the first one after midnight? arty:

gosh, so far I've been completely chaste this year. Well not with myself, but I don't think that counts.

Update....I've lost interest in One, Four has disappeared, Two and Three are still around.

It's all been fun in an empty and meaningless way. Now it's getting kind of old, but I still don't want a bf. I need a BF Lite...can't there be something in between FB and BF?