Fuck buddies

[Auggie]

Only if it's homemade, that indicates you've invested time and thought into him.

 

[odyssey]

Since when do fuck buddies care about birthdays?

You get him something for his.. then he gets you something for yours.. and before you know it, you're not fuck buddies anymore, you're in a relationship!

 

[SillyGirl]

Since when do fuck buddies care about birthdays?

You get him something for his.. then he gets you something for yours.. and before you know it, you're not fuck buddies anymore, you're in a relationship!

This is the first time I've known of a FB birthday, that's why I wasn't sure what to do. He mentioned it, so it seems like it would be really rude to ignore it.

I was concerned about the reciprocal gift, that's why I want to keep this small and simple.

Auggie, LOL, that's not the kind of Crafty I am. :tongue:

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Give him a gift as a buddy, doesn't have to be sexual in nature

 

[Art Mann]

So Two has a significant birthday coming up soon, and I don't know what to do. What's appropriate for a FB?

I don't want to do too much, especially with my own birthday looming. I'm thinking maybe a print of one of the naked pics I had taken...or let him take his own pic, which I know he would love because I've vetoed the idea several times.

Any ideas?

A collage of all your avatars would be pretty damn sexciting!

 

[SillyGirl]

Give him a gift as a buddy, doesn't have to be sexual in nature

I wouldn't have the first idea of what to get him...it's a purely-sexual relationship, and I don't want to do anything that would come across like I want to make it anything else.

 

[Auggie]

Is he whimsical?
If so, you could paint his toenails for his birthday.

 

[odyssey]

This is the first time I've known of a FB birthday, that's why I wasn't sure what to do. He mentioned it, so it seems like it would be really rude to ignore it.

I was concerned about the reciprocal gift, that's why I want to keep this small and simple.

Auggie, LOL, that's not the kind of Crafty I am. :tongue:

I'm just saying be careful.. because birthdays, anniversaries, etc. are relationship territory.

Would he be upset if you missed his birthday? Or you if he missed yours? Maybe not even this one.. what about next year's (if you intend on keeping him around that long)?

 

[SillyGirl]

I'm just saying be careful.. because birthdays, anniversaries, etc. are relationship territory.

Would he be upset if you missed his birthday? Or you if he missed yours? Maybe not even this one.. what about next year's (if you intend on keeping him around that long)?

Thank you, I know what you're saying, and you're completely right.

If he doesn't ask directly, I won't even mention my birthday. And I'm pretty sure I'm moving south over the summer, so next year won't be an issue.

 

[Ridgeman08]

Maybe you should post the picture here first, and let us decide if its FB worthy.

We promise not to post it on the GHM site. Honest.

(I'm guessing shaved BTW) :go:

 

[SillyGirl]

Maybe you should post the picture here first, and let us decide if its FB worthy.

We promise not to post it on the GHM site. Honest.

(I'm guessing shaved BTW) :go:

:tongue:

 

[Cycleguy007]

I think hiring a girl for a 3some might be better, for you as well. arty:

Dam fine idea if ya ask me Auggie! :great:

 

[traveler23b]

FB

FB

I wouldn't have the first idea of what to get him...it's a purely-sexual relationship, and I don't want to do anything that would come across like I want to make it anything else.

I have lived the FB lifestyle for many years and i can say that the novelty almost always wears off over time if you dip in the well to often, some you can play with monthly, some every six months but not much more often than that to keep it hot. As for a gift for a FB occasion, acknowledging the event is OK but stay away from anything permanent (i.e. a picture). I suggest something special sexually that he would like that way he feels special and there is no lasting evidence (well accept the rope burns or spank marks) for him to pine over. Most all FB turn into relationships at some point whether you want them to or not ... Good Luck!

 

[SillyGirl]

I have lived the FB lifestyle for many years and i can say that the novelty almost always wears off over time if you dip in the well to often, some you can play with monthly, some every six months but not much more often than that to keep it hot. As for a gift for a FB occasion, acknowledging the event is OK but stay away from anything permanent (i.e. a picture). I suggest something special sexually that he would like that way he feels special and there is no lasting evidence (well accept the rope burns or spank marks) for him to pine over. Most all FB turn into relationships at some point whether you want them to or not ... Good Luck!

Why nothing permanent? I guess I could understand your lady friends not wanting any sort of reminder of your liason :tongue: but why is it bad from a guy's POV?

I'd have to travel waaaaay outside my comfort zone to do a sexual something that would qualify as a gift...um, don't like the guy quite that much.

I don't know that I want to do this long enough to consider it a lifestyle.

 

[LickingGravity]

You could always get him a cock ring, flesh light in your, ahem, size or his very own handcuffs

 

[Cycleguy007]

I'd have to travel waaaaay outside my comfort zone to do a sexual something that would qualify as a gift...um, don't like the guy quite that much.

I still say the 3-way (FMF of course) is the best option.

 

[Auggie]

Why nothing permanent? I guess I could understand your lady friends not wanting any sort of reminder of your liason :tongue: but why is it bad from a guy's POV?

I'd have to travel waaaaay outside my comfort zone to do a sexual something that would qualify as a gift...um, don't like the guy quite that much.

I don't know that I want to do this long enough to consider it a lifestyle.

Since he likes fucking you, a pic of yourself qualifies as a turn-on - you're more open sexually than most women. You have to have it framed so it gets displayed - whether it's openly or in a discreet place.
Stay in your comfort zone, save visiting the limits for whenever you're in that mood.

 

[traveler23b]

I don't know that I want to do this long enough to consider it a lifestyle.

That's exactly the point, this may just be a phase for you, this relationship is doubtfully permanent but a picture is, you have no idea how this will end up, you will end it, he will be pissed and your picture gets plastered all over the Net. Good for us but bad for you. Let his memories of your time together serve as your permanent gift to him. Of course, as always, you will do as you like ... but if you decide on a pictures, i am a professional photographer and would be happy to offer my services to a lady in need :whip:

 

[SillyGirl]

You have to have it framed so it gets displayed - whether it's openly or in a discreet place.

I go back and forth about a frame...sometimes it seems like a nice touch, sometimes it seems presumptous.

That's exactly the point, this may just be a phase for you, this relationship is doubtfully permanent but a picture is, you have no idea how this will end up, you will end it, he will be pissed and your picture gets plastered all over the Net. Good for us but bad for you. Let his memories of your time together serve as your permanent gift to him.

He won't be pissed, he already knows I'm moving. And I'm feeling a little naive even saying this, but I can't see him plastering me online.

Which is, of course, exactly what those GHM girls thought. :shock:

Of course, as always, you will do as you like ... but if you decide on a pictures, i am a professional photographer and would be happy to offer my services to a lady in need

Gosh, you're just too good to me...but I've already been to the photographer, I don't need another one.

Thanks for offering, though. :roll: :roll:

:tongue:

 

[Auggie]

Are you happy with the pics?
What kind are they, fully nude yet covering the more private areas?
Do they show your face?
Soft focus or more realistic? B&W or colour?
Have they been touched up?