Have you ever been caught cheating?.

[Ossosuna]

......and we're supposed to believe that a woman is stupid enough to fall for this crap?

Believe whatever you want to believe. I couldn't care less what you believe.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

......and we're supposed to believe that a woman is stupid enough to fall for this crap?

Actually none of them do.
Or they think that they can change your mind.
I've had that bomb dropped on me often but curiously enough only one woman I ever dated had balls enough to state outright after being told "I am never getting married again or having children" "I am going to change your mind on that"

 

[tboy]

Believe whatever you want to believe. I couldn't care less what you believe.

www.iespell.com

it's your friend, really.

So if you don't care, why are you posting here?

Other than to show just what a douchebag you are.....

 

[tboy]

Actually none of them do.
Or they think that they can change your mind.
I've had that bomb dropped on me often but curiously enough only one woman I ever dated had balls enough to state outright after being told "I am never getting married again or having children" "I am going to change your mind on that"

LOL after I hit the "post" button I thought: wtf are you thinking? There's literally millions of women who would fall for that crap lol......

 

[dreamblade]

I just re-read blade's post and missed this the first go 'round:



You do realize who you're talking about right?

I think notsoblissful's communication skills are about as good as her ability to overhaul the turbochargers on a bugatti veyron......

I realise there's a fellow board member who's in pain and is asking for help. I'm in a unique position to offer some advice, as I'm poly as well. This board is about building a community, we've done really well so far. You seem to have issues understanding this, as all I've seen here is you condemning her, no help whatsoever. I've noticed you confuse judgment and condemnation for opinion, perhaps it's why you've been asked to leave from other boards in the past.

I understand you don't, but I try my best not to judge people on here, living in a glass house and all.

 

[blissful]

First of all it is an escort board and if I want to do every scort every minute what is it to you tboy? Jealous in your little Northern Home with the no women to do, or do you have issues because you do. I feel sorry and you are so blind and the reality I should not even encourage your you. IHave a Sweet Christmas tboy.

The woman I am referring to is the woman who was my neighbour's friend not my sweet neighbour. I only help this person out because she needed help. My Neighbour is off sailing the West Indies.

I am still not sure what to do usually I feel sorry for him and I should have thought of his feelings and his side. I always think if it was me.

I am going to sit here and try with all my heart and soul to think from both sides but I do not want to find excuses for her behaviour.

Anyway for those pm ing me thanks and emailing me thats. Maybe tboy and Maurice Boscorelli is righ, with the pain and hurt and the sorrow and so on on, I should just fucking give up because them know better than everybody and I am such a mental case. So maybe I should just fucking end everything.

Thanks for the Christmas Joy and tboy and Maurice I hope to God that when you times come s you do suffer for to long I am going into my 8th year of torture. So I know suck it up. You both are sorry individuals. Your mothers never taught you compassion. One day you will need help and when it comes I truly hope all the people you have put down and insulted will help. You both are right I am not worth being here or escortin or even breathing because you both are so highly educated on interpersonal skills. You both a just pushing me to the final end because in seeing something positive you are making me realize what is the point in struggling with this pain and my sorrow.

Have a wonderful Christmas.

 

[Ossosuna]

There is only one douche in this thread. It is not hard to guess who HE is.

 

[tboy]

Well, I have never been asked to leave any other board so I don't know where you're getting your info from.

As I said: if someone is genuinely in pain I'll give them sympathy but if someone is a victim of their own life choices, then no sympathy will be forthcoming. In fact, go read some of her posts about me, and then, if you're man enough, write the same thing about her. See, tit for tat.

BTW: I don't know what you mean by "poly". Polygamous? Polygoric? Polyurethane? Poly unsaturate? but anyways, I have known many people like notsoblissful in my life and they THRIVE on drama and if there is no drama in their life? They do something to create it. Then people like you come on here and give them what they crave: that's called enabling.

Another thing you should pay attention to: people like bliss come on here all sweetness and nice with I love yous, merry christmas's etc yet under her breath (and in her posts) she's constantly insulting me and telling me I have sex with a deer? Sorry, I'm a little more direct than that.....

Sorry, there is something seriously wrong with someone who on one thread is trying to pick up another member yet in this thread they are all boo hoo hooing about how their partner is banging someone else.....a little hypocritical don't cha think?

Once again: if someone sticks their hand in a lion's cage, I'm not going to feel sorry for them when they get bit. I'll reserve my sympathy for kids with cancer at sick kids hospital, or abused animals, or those in need through no fault of their own.......

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

I really do not give a shit if some of you have issues with me posting this.

.

Well this statement is blatantly not true is it?

 

[Cycleguy007]

Perhaps its time...

Perhaps its time...

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

CG we are past the popcorn, it's time for;

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

There is only one douche in this thread. It is not hard to guess who HE is.

Self realization is always a good thing.

 

[dreamblade]

Well, I have never been asked to leave any other board so I don't know where you're getting your info from.

As I said: if someone is genuinely in pain I'll give them sympathy but if someone is a victim of their own life choices, then no sympathy will be forthcoming. In fact, go read some of her posts about me, and then, if you're man enough, write the same thing about her. See, tit for tat.

BTW: I don't know what you mean by "poly". Polygamous? Polygoric? Polyurethane? Poly unsaturate? but anyways, I have known many people like notsoblissful in my life and they THRIVE on drama and if there is no drama in their life? They do something to create it. Then people like you come on here and give them what they crave: that's called enabling.

Another thing you should pay attention to: people like bliss come on here all sweetness and nice with I love yous, merry christmas's etc yet under her breath (and in her posts) she's constantly insulting me and telling me I have sex with a deer? Sorry, I'm a little more direct than that.....

Sorry, there is something seriously wrong with someone who on one thread is trying to pick up another member yet in this thread they are all boo hoo hooing about how their partner is banging someone else.....a little hypocritical don't cha think?

Once again: if someone sticks their hand in a lion's cage, I'm not going to feel sorry for them when they get bit. I'll reserve my sympathy for kids with cancer at sick kids hospital, or abused animals, or those in need through no fault of their own.......

Reading back on the thread, I see your first response to her as condemnation and judgment. Then you wonder why she tells you to go piss off? Dude! Do you even realise how douchy you sound? Then someone calls you on it, you get all wide-eyed and innocent, pretending you're the victim. Those are some serious blinders you have there.

Poly: Common short form for polyamorous. The chosen lifestyle where one entertains multiple ethical relationships at once. There are many people in the world that are quite happy practicing this form of loving. Sure, there are obstacles, especially when those around us keep telling us how wrong we are to live our lives this way.

Once again, not knowing what I was referring to (or rather pretending not to know) makes you completely unqualified in giving your opinion on the topic. You either don't understand or feel contemptuous of such a lifestyle... most likely both. You'd never see me posting on a thread about finance or cooking, because I'd come across as a serious idiot. You don't seem to exercise that same kind of restraint.

Finally, it's not about her or Brash picking up someone. It's about the dynamic that exists in this particular triad, how this new person is affecting the primary couple's dynamic, and how Blissful feels her boundaries are not respected. Being poly myself, I saw that right away. I've dealt with similar situations, from both sides. Someone coming from a monogamous POV is not likely to see that.

 

[dreamblade]

Self realization is always a good thing.

Aaaand ZING! Point!

 

[Ossosuna]

Self realization is always a good thing.

Remind this to me later on so I can laugh at it.

 

[blissful]

Reality is I was looking for help and 3 have once again taken into been what you 3 have done before.
CG I am sorry your wife will not let you see escorts.

Maurice I am sorry you are so old that you have not learn from live

tboy you have serous issues and if you are a woman you really do.

I never asked for you opinions and as a matter of fact they are mostly unproductive and making me more depress than I am. So Why DO THIS TO ME. I ask For women who are into open Marriages for help. None of you are so you have no knowledge .
So i am hitting my head on the wall with 3 people who know nothing.

Like I said have a wonderful Christmas. The same 3 people again. I ignore your post but you all not mine. Kind of show everybody on the board a few things about your personality. You calm the board is nice and friendly but every time I need info I am mentally unstable by you 3. CG don't even try kissing my ass because I know you asked the Post on My*****rb about me awhile ago so . Just like you know people I have friends who are great with computers and know people.

The 3 same people, friendly board caring people not you all. I have met the ones who are noce and interested. Great Some Balls CG and tell your wife you want to fuck an escort instead of all that shit. As for Maurice I am here things about you. Also tboy you are nothing but a Northern even if you lived it the city, and you sound more of a women hater than anything.

No caring and when you guys are going to need some later in life I hope to God you find it.
The same 3 people who are jealous om my marriage. Somebody had ask me how to deal with difficult family members, well they ar not family but. Thank you for your help and input. Your answers to my questions a quite logical and I will take into consideration your points of view to the question stated.

Have a nice Holiday all 3. I hope Santa brings you what you want Hmmmm........maybe some Balls. And CG please do not pm me and try to be nice to me there ok, be honest and answer out in the open. This was to help me and you 3 turned it into this, of coarse I am emotional what the fuck do you think I would be. Ignore My Post Easy.

So

 

[JackassJack]

Are you guys jealous??? He has a girlfriend who accepts the way he is, what is wrong with you guys????? Who gives a fuck if he loves her or not. She accepts him? Looks like she does. So you all can go fuck yourselves.!! what the fuck is wrong with you guys??!!! It is a frikken escort board!! %99 of members cheat their partners

 

[tboy]

Are you guys jealous??? He has a girlfiend who accepts the way he is, what is wrong with you guys????? Who gives a fuck if he loves her or not. She accepts him? Looks like she does. So you all can go fuck yourselfs.!! what the fuck is wrong with you guys??!!! It is a frikken escort board!! %99 of members cheat their partners

whoa, touch a nerve did we? Don't hold back, tell us how you REALLY feel......

Your stats are a little high. A LOT of the guys on here (and the other board) are there because they just can't be bothered or are too busy to play the game.....I can even point out a few who are here who don't even SEE escorts....but as for your reference: I'm against those guys who see escorts behind their wive's backs too....so, at least I'm consistant!

BTW: I highly doubt his gf "accepts the way he is" since he doesn't have the balls to tell her he's getting a little extra on the side. If he did and she STILL stuck with him? Then yeah, you could say she accepts him the way he is......

Anyhow, Maurice? You're on the ball today, that was GOOD......VERY good!

BTW: a lot of people on here knock me but one thing you can count on: you know who I am, I don't hide my true self from anyone......

 

[tboy]

1) Dreamblade: it is your O P I N I O N that I was condemning her. Nope, I wasn't. I was simply stating a fact: that she chose a lifestyle that is now biting her in the ass. EOS.
2) Whether or not I knew what you meant by poly is irrelevant. I don't know all the acornyms, synonyms or netspeak. So sue me. I bet you don't know all the true meanings of the acronyms I use in my life either.
3) Telling me to piss off: If she came out and said it, then find but hiding it behind all her platitudes to garner sympathy (which this is what this thread is all about) is just plain BS. I wasn't the only one to notice.
4) Bliss: You came to the wrong place if you're looking for opinions from women in relationships. There are few, if any, here. This IS an escort review board and a public forum. You cannot dictate who is going to respond, or what is going to be said. Just like everyone else: I am entitled to my opinions based on the rules and regs set forth by the moderators. If you really wanted to get an honest opinion from someone in your situation I am SURE (in fact POSITIVE) there are thousands of boards for swingers, this is not one of them. (I think CG is the only other true swinger on here and he's only just entered into THAT arena....).

 

[Cycleguy007]

Since you decided to make this personal...

Since you decided to make this personal...

Not sure why you chose to "attack" me blissful, because I pretty much DO ignore you in this your 3rd trip back here... None of my posts in this thread were directed at you specifically, just general comments... but you chose to verbally attack me for whatever reason.

CG I am sorry your wife will not let you see escorts.

Huh? This has never been an issue for me... Not sure why you think it is... I was however thinking about getting an escort for my wife, but she can't get by the whole pay for play concept. Besides given her recent success rate at getting a civie GF, this is now a moot point.

CG don't even try kissing my ass because I know you asked the Post on My*****rb about me awhile ago so. Just like you know people I have friends who are great with computers and know people.

I have never kissed your ass, in fact I have stated on more than one occasion that (based on your erratic behaviour here), I think you may have some mental issues that need dealing with. And WTF is this about me posting on another site about you? Please... :roll:

Great Some Balls

"Great some balls"? WTF are you trying to say? Get some balls? (Ever heard of proof reading????)

CG and tell your wife you want to fuck an escort instead of all that shit.

Again... This has never been an issue for me... Not sure why you think it is...

The same 3 people who are jealous om my marriage.

Why would I be jealous of your marriage? I am not the one that periodically comes on here complaining about my marriage, in fact things have never been better for Mrs. CG and I.

And CG please do not pm me and try to be nice to me there ok, be honest and answer out in the open.

I have not PM'd you since long before you left the last time, when I was trying to give you some constructive criticism on how to get along with other members... but you chose to ignore that and you kept bugging me to get me to introduce you to my wife instead. Frankly you are not at all her type.

Actually, truth be known, I have made a CONSCIOUS effort to NOT comment on your rants... :roll:

But you come on here today and post something like "Man are idiots Really" and you better be prepared for the shit storm that will ensue...

Just sayin....