Hobbyists Do's & Dont's

[peace]

That wont work. Once a smoker, you cannot never get rid of the smell. I remember kissing this civie and she didnt smoke for a week. I could still taste the smoke. Gross.

 

[-b]

That wont work. Once a smoker, you cannot never get rid of the smell. I remember kissing this civie and she didnt smoke for a week. I could still taste the smoke. Gross.

You are right....I can smell it even though they try to cover it up..
But the ladies I had seen were good about the smoking....

 

[WOLF]

Treat me with respect.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Do communicate as much as possible about what you would like to get out of this. If you're too shy to say something during, send an email or text prior to meeting.

Don't forget to say you are nervous if you are. Shifty behaviour can be interpreted many different ways.

 

[blackram]

I always keep the ladies uptodate on my whereabouts just prior to arriving for an appointment, if I think I'm going to be late. Everybody has a cellphone these days, no excuse to arrive late without warning them first. I will tell them the reason I'm running late (i.e. traffic, etc.), and always ask them if that'll cause them any problems (eg. scheduling conflicts with their next clients, they have to go pick up their kids, etc.). Most of the time they say that there's no problem, they usually build in a bit of slack time.

 

[hobnew]

We need this thread organized Hmmmmmm

into one neat list

 

[peace]

Do communicate as much as possible about what you would like to get out of this. If you're too shy to say something during, send an email or text prior to meeting.

Don't forget to say you are nervous if you are. Shifty behaviour can be interpreted many different ways.

OK I will tell you now...I am always nervous. :biggrin2:

 

[socialstrat]

Based on stories I've heard from a couple MPAs:

1) Any variation of "Why's a girl like you doing a job like this?" is not the compliment you might think it is. Neither are any intimations that you're going to "save" them.

2) If your specific kink involves words or actions that may be considered aggressive or demeaning, tell the MPA/SP beforehand. It might be okay, but it's not okay to surprise them with it.

3) When asking to see the lineup at an MP, be polite about it if you're not interested in a particular woman. It's something I imagine none of us would like to have to experience.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Do freshen up when you arrive. Even washing your hands and using mouthwash is better than nothing at all.

Don't spray cologne directly on your goodies if you intend to have them in someone's mouth.

 

[Charley LaRoux]

DO:

Shower at her incall - even a quick 5 minutes will make all the difference, and don't forget to soap up those jewels and use the mouthwash.

Communicate with her before you get together to explain your desires and what you are hoping to experience.

Bring a bottle of something she would like to share with you. It is such a nice gesture and will be appreciated.

Do be respectful of her boundaries, expect to have fun and have a good time!

Finally, have a great experience that both of you will enjoy and will want to develop further in the future!

xoxox Charley

 

[JDHomersimpson]

i would also think that those thinking of digits, trim those fingernails down...(personally I cut all the white tips off).

long fingernails inside must be like the SP scraping her teeth on ur junk. ouch!