How should I approach friends about group sex?

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Since the women are already comfortable discussing the general subject with each other, your gf should talk to his gf. Then if she's into it, let her broach the subject with your friend, if she doesn't already know his opinion.

That way if he's not into it, there has been no actual discussion about it between the men, thereby allowing them to act like the whole thing never happened.

Stellar thinking I must say. The last thing you want is to have your friend feel awkward. This could effect your friendship going forward. Many men feel very uncomfortable being around another man in a sexual situation. They feel it is a homo erotic act and it challenges our alpha male mentality.

 

[tboy]

^^^ exactly my point.......I have no problem going skinny dipping with a bunch of friends, hanging out in the locker room etc but sharing a bed/woman? Nope, not for me.....

 

[Ryder]

Since the women are already comfortable discussing the general subject with each other, your gf should talk to his gf. Then if she's into it, let her broach the subject with your friend, if she doesn't already know his opinion.

That way if he's not into it, there has been no actual discussion about it between the men, thereby allowing them to act like the whole thing never happened.

This sound like good game plan

 

[SayyyWhat?]

Did it happen yet?.

 

[LickingGravity]

I don't even get a MFM threesome. Is it a way to have 'sex' with another guy with the female buffer zone in between?

......

Have you never seen a porno where one guy occupies each end. Most common would be doing a girl doggie while she blows your friend.

 

[Auggie]

Have you never seen a porno where one guy occupies each end. Most common would be doing a girl doggie while she blows your friend.

That means the two guys are facing each other intimately and sharing how they look while orgasming. Might be too much male bonding for some guys. :???:

 

[Cycleguy007]

Have you never seen a porno where one guy occupies each end. Most common would be doing a girl doggie while she blows your friend.

Been there, done that... :???:

Then, there's the ol' double penetration. (Have to be careful to guard against accidental "crossed swords"! :shock

Then of course there's the "air tight" scenerio! :gasp:

 

[tboy]

Have you never seen a porno where one guy occupies each end. Most common would be doing a girl doggie while she blows your friend.

AKA finger cuffs.....

That means the two guys are facing each other intimately and sharing how they look while orgasming. Might be too much male bonding for some guys. :???:

Literally male "bonding".....the only thing IMO that is different than just fucking the other guy is that they have a buffer zone in between....personally I have NO interest whatsoever in any way shape or form of facing a guy while he comes.....Nada, zilch, negative, uh uh........hence why i don't see the attraction of MMF or MMFF group sex. Hence why I am SO not into MF porn. I mean hell, I'm watching porn because I'm not getting any and who the fuck wants to watch some other guy get laid? LOL if I am going to watch porn I want to see ME getting laid lol......hence why a couple of my gf's and I made our own so when she wasn't around, I could enjoy it solo......

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Have you never seen a porno where one guy occupies each end. Most common would be doing a girl doggie while she blows your friend.

When I am having sex the last thing I want is to have another male naked in the same room.If that turns you on then you should reconsider your sexuality. The DP thing is way out there. I mean there is only a thin membrane between the two orifices so there is no way you can't feel the other guys member rubbing against yours. Sorry but that is just blatantly gay.

 

[peace]

I need a 3some..excluding men. I would go limpy if I see a naked man there. Heck it really doesnt matter if you (re:men) are fully clothes are not as I prefer my privacy with women only.

No offense but my bonner only works when i see women and their beautiful bodies with an amazing personality (if not, then dont say anything...shhhhhhh...LOL) ...If it works for you, Great!!!!

nOW...i NEED some beautiful female volunteers to partake in a 3s0me with me....

 

[Skipper]

How should we approach him about it? Should we just straight up ask or slowly ease into it?

Just don't do it. Why would you want to share your woman with another man?

 

[Cycleguy007]

AKA finger cuffs...

As for the male bonding part, well, unless you've been in that situation you don't know how you're going to react. I didn't think it would work for me either, but I was a little drunk, (we all were), and the sexual intensity was very high. The girls were going at each other pretty good, and then they came over to us and we just joined in. There was no crossing of swords, and we all had a blast. :shock:

 

[tboy]

As for the male bonding part, well, unless you've been in that situation you don't know how you're going to react. I didn't think it would work for me either, but I was a little drunk, (we all were), and the sexual intensity was very high. The girls were going at each other pretty good, and then they came over to us and we just joined in. There was no crossing of swords, and we all had a blast. :shock:

LOL as long as you didn't get his "blast" anywhere near you lol

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Nobody would admit catching a blast or for that matter a sword crossing even if it did happen I suspect.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Y'know the more you guys deny it ... hehehe

I personally am attracted to men who aren't phased by another man in the near vicinity. You don't have to wanna eat him up or anything!! Sheesh! Lol but it speaks volumes about your character...Are you the kind of person who can derive (intense amounts of) pleasure watching someone else's pleasure and not be bored or wrapped up in jealousies/insecurities? Watching a woman have sex is to me the most beautiful she is gonna be...just don't focus so much on the other guy... unless that's your thing

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

..Are you the kind of person who can derive (intense amounts of) pleasure watching someone else's pleasure and not be bored or wrapped up in jealousies/insecurities?

Yes as long as it is a woman,lol.

 

[tboy]

Y'know the more you guys deny it ... hehehe

I personally am attracted to men who aren't phased by another man in the near vicinity. You don't have to wanna eat him up or anything!! Sheesh! Lol but it speaks volumes about your character...Are you the kind of person who can derive (intense amounts of) pleasure watching someone else's pleasure and not be bored or wrapped up in jealousies/insecurities? Watching a woman have sex is to me the most beautiful she is gonna be...just don't focus so much on the other guy... unless that's your thing

Sorry, the "more you deny it..." doesn't fly. I hate the taste of red meat and state that whenever the subject comes up but that sure as hell doesn't mean I LIKE it.....

See, the way I look at it: I find most women at least semi attractive. I mean unless she's a bull dyke in the gay parade. Even some of the UFC fighters I can admit they have incredible bodies. Do I want to watch him fuck? Ummm no. Do I want him to watch ME fuck? Ummm no.

Why is it if someone doesn't like something, it is automatically "insecurities/jealousy" or some other negative connotation? Why can't it just be personal preference? Some people like chubbies, some like petite women, some like men, some like women, hell some even like animals.

So, let me put it to you this way amy: if you were having sex with a woman, and there was a guy in bed with you having sex with a goat, would that bother you?

How about another analogy shall we:

Would you eat this?

 

[Cycleguy007]

LOL as long as you didn't get his "blast" anywhere near you lol

Good one tboy!

But fortunately we were careful to CIC or CIM of the ladies! LOL

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

See, the way I look at it: I find most women at least semi attractive. I mean unless she's a bull dyke in the gay parade. Even some of the UFC fighters I can admit they have incredible bodies. Do I want to watch him fuck? Ummm no. Do I want him to watch ME fuck? Ummm no.

Uh you do realize that there are not any women fighters in the UFC right? So it sounds like you are admiring the guys,lol.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Y'know the more you guys deny it ... hehehe

I personally am attracted to men who aren't phased by another man in the near vicinity. You don't have to wanna eat him up or anything!! Sheesh! Lol but it speaks volumes about your character...Are you the kind of person who can derive (intense amounts of) pleasure watching someone else's pleasure and not be bored or wrapped up in jealousies/insecurities? Watching a woman have sex is to me the most beautiful she is gonna be...just don't focus so much on the other guy... unless that's your thing

Exactly.

During the few times we've experienced group sex with another dude present, I really couldn't care less about the other guy, as my entire focus was on the ladies and myself. The extent of his presence (as I'm sure was the case for him as well) was just to make sure we didn't get in each other's way. :shock:

Admittedly, the only reason we tried a MFM 3way was because it was specifically requested by the ladies, and they have been MORE than accommodating in our requests of them, so we decided to give it a whirl. Having done this, the ladies had their fun, crossed it off their TDL, and we are all in agreement, "been there, done that, was OK, but would rather engage in other activities".