I had a change of heart and asking mods to reinstate Blissful.

[Wise Guy]

Something happened to a family member that we were all too quick to judge. A personal issue I won't bother to discuss. Had me thinking about Blissful. She was one of our own and the big guy banned her for her stupid comments about a certain member.

We all deserve a second chance and let's have her back. The members that disagree with me can have their say but just think how many screw ups you all had before being forgiven.

I know she tried to blame others but who really cares. She was just being human. Bosco and Silly girl do you understand what I am talking about?.

I forgot Hof, take it easy on the weak ones.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

I enjoyed Blissful's posts. I even enjoyed watching her rip Baz a new one and deep down I think Baz enjoyed it too.

 

[Valid]

I enjoyed Blissful's posts. I even enjoyed watching her rip Baz a new one and deep down I think Baz enjoyed it too.

Baz a masochist?.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

Baz a masochist?.

I dunno but I'd bet Ida is one.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

I think you're a sweetheart Wise Guy but if you think this board only gave her one chance you've gotta be kidding me. You should reach out to her elsewhere if you feel badly. Good luck

 

[Guy]

I think you're a sweetheart Wise Guy but if you think this board only gave her one chance you've gotta be kidding me. You should reach out to her elsewhere if you feel badly. Good luck

You don't believe on second chances?.

 

[Wise Guy]

I think you're a sweetheart Wise Guy but if you think this board only gave her one chance you've gotta be kidding me. You should reach out to her elsewhere if you feel badly. Good luck

Thanks Amy. I know all that but, never mind I will somehow.

You are right.

 

[George Costanza]

I say reinstate her. She needs us more than we need her.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

You don't believe on second chances?.

Where did I say that? Please don't make this thread about me. I'm probably gonna be bombarded with threatening voicemails just for saying what I said above. Gawd forbid I should ever publicly voice my opinion about someone who repeatedly lied/lies about me.

 

[SillyGirl]

I agree with Amy. This ban wasn't her first, she had already been given multiple second chances here. Since the ban she has lied and trash-talked this board and its members elsewhere.

WiseGuy I think you have a big heart, and you should contact her there if you are concerned.

 

[Madman]

*gasp* *wide eyed* *bewildered* my maid's fate hangs in the balance.

Will wiseguy have his way and usher in the princesses of gumjobs, the queen of Laundry, the Bazeater and will history of the perfect gumjobsw be rewritten??

Only time will tell but for now SILLYG AND AMY I really could use a new pair of boots,,,,please.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Something happened to a family member that we were all too quick to judge. A personal issue I won't bother to discuss. Had me thinking about Blissful. She was one of our own and the big guy banned her for her stupid comments about a certain member.

We all deserve a second chance and let's have her back. The members that disagree with me can have their say but just think how many screw ups you all had before being forgiven.

I know she tried to blame others but who really cares. She was just being human. Bosco and Silly girl do you understand what I am talking about?.

I forgot Hof, take it easy on the weak ones.

My short time here has given me some interesting observations as to how she behaves. Most of you have FAR MORE experience with her than I and I freely admit that on more than one occasion she has turned on me for no reason. In each case I attributed it to her mood swings.

No one can argue that she has mood swings or personal issues and that she uses this board to a great extent as a crutch in her life. I have witnessed her posts late night on this board where she posts out of pure emotion and irrationality. It was painful to watch because I knew the thread would become a downward spiral into a flame war. On those occasions I reported the posts and the moderators removed them. In essence, they were saving her from herself.

I'm pretty sure the moderators/admin here have spoken to her about her behavior. I'm also pretty sure she's provided additional work for the moderators in monitoring her. Given that she can't control her outbursts it would be unwise to think she could control her behavior. I however have not been personally attacked by her to the extent it concerned me. But she has personally attacked others and she needs to take responsibility for that and learn to change or at least deal with it in more constructive means other than coming on a discussion board and posting outburst when you feel "blue." It's not healthy and it doesn't make this place feel nice to come to when you have to see it regularly.

As both Amy and SillyGirl have noted she has continued her behavior on another board and soon that membership will tire of her as well and the same result will occur there as happened here. Wise Guy, I know you mean well but no one here or on the other board can help her. She has to help herself.

 

[Baz]

I feel a little responsible for Blissful's demise on this forum and for this Blissful if you are reading the lobby I do apologize and hope you do find some peace in your life. Madman I already have a BazEater and she goes by the name of Ida.

 

[User-E]

I think you're a sweetheart Wise Guy but if you think this board only gave her one chance you've gotta be kidding me. You should reach out to her elsewhere if you feel badly. Good luck

Where did I say that? Please don't make this thread about me. I'm probably gonna be bombarded with threatening voicemails just for saying what I said above. Gawd forbid I should ever publicly voice my opinion about someone who repeatedly lied/lies about me.

I agree with Amy. This ban wasn't her first, she had already been given multiple second chances here. Since the ban she has lied and trash-talked this board and its members elsewhere.

WiseGuy I think you have a big heart, and you should contact her there if you are concerned.

I agree with SG & Amy. Blissful turned from being a 'friend' to being very unfriendly to me behind the scenes before she was banned. Review boards aren't a healthy environment for someone who's emotionally unstable.

 

[papasmerf]

Bliss asked to be banned

she was Banned

Bliss received her request and I request that

Time to move on

 

[HOF]

Bliss asked to be banned

she was Banned

Bliss received her request and I request that

Time to move on

+1

 

[HOF]

No matter what I say in this thread, it will seem mean, so let me just say that she poked the bear once too often, taunting the administration to send her away and she received her wish. If she were reinstated, it would only start again. It is like the parent that says just one more time and you're gonna get it, then the child provokes to push the boundary.

We can be our own worst enemies.

 

[Casa_Nova]

I had nothing again Bliss, in fact she was quite friendly towards me. However I too see that her participation on this board was doing her more harm than good so perhaps it was for her benefit that she is no longer on. I do believe she's on other boards though so not being on here is merely a bandaid solution...

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Wise Guy although I applaud your good intentions in this matter I think you should just venture over to her new home on the other blue board and peruse her latest ramblings.

As has been stated she asked to be banned and her wish was granted. In this case I am of the opinion that it is best to just let sleeping dogs lie.

As my papi once told me '' you can't help people who don't want to help themselves''. And God knows many have tried on this board only to have it blow up in their face.

 

[jumpingjackflash]

It's a shame, it is like a train racing down the track knowing full well a derailment is in the cards.