I'm pretty sure

[SillyGirl]

my bf is doing that thing guys do when they act like an asshole to get a woman to break up with them, so they don't have to be the bad guy and do it.

That tactic works really well on me.

Nah nah nah nah, nah nah nah, hey hey hey....

 

[SiNbaD]

Sorry to hear that Sillygirl. I am guilty of that immature actions in my youth but glad you caught on.

 

[SillyGirl]

Sorry to hear that Sillygirl. I am guilty of that immature actions in my youth but glad you caught on.

Thank you. I could be wrong, but if he's not doing that, yikes that could mean he actually is this big of a jerk. Which is not a good thing in a bf.

 

[Kingston]

Thank you. I could be wrong, but if he's not doing that, yikes that could mean he actually is this big of a jerk. Which is not a good thing in a bf.

If your instincts tells you something, don't ignore it.

Just saying.

 

[SillyGirl]

If your instincts tells you something, don't ignore it.

Just saying.

Wise words, and I needed the reminder. Thanks.

 

[Boing]

Maybe he is just going through personal problems he is hiding from you. Like financial problems?.

 

[SillyGirl]

Maybe he is just going through personal problems he is hiding from you. Like financial problems?.

I don't think so, but I guess it's possible. Still behaving like an immature brat, though. At best.

 

[Boing]

I don't think so, but I guess it's possible. Still behaving like an immature brat, though. At best.

As far as I can remember it has been almost a year together. Did this just happened overnight or the last few weeks?.

 

[Boing]

I would use a different tactic. Say, John I feel you are not happy for reasons I am not able to comprehend. Let's take some time away from each other and lets connect in a couple of weeks. Play it cool as if you don't need him as much as he think you do.

Yes you are giving him the easy way out if he wants to leave you or he will wake up and say no, sorry I have to much on my mind. But he must tell you the reasons he is acting like an asshole.

Either way you win cause you are the one that was upfront and won't deal with bullshit.

 

[SillyGirl]

As far as I can remember it has been almost a year together. Did this just happened overnight or the last few weeks?.

It's 9 months, and he's been kind of weird for the last couple. Hmmm I should have paid more attention to that.

Maybe I'll sit down and make a list of every douchebag move he's ever pulled. Yea, that's an excellent idea! I can save it for future reference. I know you guys love it when we do that. :666:

 

[Raiden]

Best thing to do is fogetabout him and have great sex,

My number is XXX XXX XX69:biggrin:

 

[SillyGirl]

Best thing to do is fogetabout him and have great sex,

My number is XXX XXX XX69:biggrin:

Yes well speaking of great sex, i saw Studly for awhile tonight for the first time in about a year. We didn't have sex or even kiss, but I will admit I sure was tempted.

 

[LickingGravity]

It's 9 months, and he's been kind of weird for the last couple. Hmmm I should have paid more attention to that.

Maybe I'll sit down and make a list of every douchebag move he's ever pulled. Yea, that's an excellent idea! I can save it for future reference. I know you guys love it when we do that. :666:

You all ready know, from the way you are talking, that it is time to kick him to the curb. Time to come to TO while the weather is good :biggrin2:

 

[Madman]

You all ready know, from the way you are talking, that it is time to kick him to the curb. Time to come to TO while the weather is good :biggrin2:

Best thing to do is fogetabout him and have great sex,

My number is XXX XXX XX69:biggrin:

CAN YOU BOTH STOP CUTTING MY GRASS SillyG is MINE!!!

 

[Wanker]

Can you not use tactics that work really well on him?.

Like playing hard to get: not returning calls/texts or emails. Ignoring him and just play like he is not important to you anymore.

Damn, men hate that.

 

[SillyGirl]

You all ready know, from the way you are talking, that it is time to kick him to the curb. Time to come to TO while the weather is good :biggrin2:

That's what I love about this board...everyone is so helpful! :smiling:

 

[SillyGirl]

CAN YOU BOTH STOP CUTTING MY GRASS SillyG is MINE!!!

 

[Transient]

You all ready know, from the way you are talking, that it is time to kick him to the curb. Time to come to TO while the weather is good :biggrin2:

She's from N.C., no way could she survive the frigid Canadian summer.

 

[SillyGirl]

You can give the guy a chance to explain himself, but ultimately, if he doesn't make you happy you are better off moving on. There are just too many fish in the sea to really have to fight for someone who doesn't treat you well.

I know, you're right. But walking from this will be a big deal for me, and I want to be sure that's the right move.

Although I couldn't help comparing the way it was hanging out with Studly last night and how it last was with the bf. I was much more relaxed with Studly, we laugh a lot.

 

[SillyGirl]

Can you not use tactics that work really well on him?.

Like playing hard to get: not returning calls/texts or emails. Ignoring him and just play like he is not important to you anymore.

Damn, men hate that.

Well if this rocky path we're on continues, that will be easy because the longer it goes on, the less I do care if I talk to him. sigh.