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Ladies: Penetration vs. Oral

blackram

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So we hear all of the time that guys don't like giving oral, just receiving it. We hear about how terribly unsatisfied women are because they aren't getting orgasms during sex, because guys just want to penetrate, and penetration is absolutely useless for the girl's pleasure. However, this video seems to suggest that's a myth: not the part about penetration being useless, it's still useless; the part that's a myth is that guys don't like giving oral. Apparently guys would love to give oral, it's the girls who are too embarrassed to receive oral for some reason! Lesbians on the other hand have no embarrassment about getting oral.

 
Explain that :unknw:

Apparently guys would love to give oral, it's the girls who are too embarrassed to receive oral for some reason!
 
Ladies: Penetration vs. Oral

Mmm from my experience a lot of men who see escorts (that are only looking for sexual release and not much connection) don't like doing oral and don't want to.

As I transitioned to start attracting more gents that really dig connecting on a gfe aspect I found a lot (but still not most) really did like giving oral sex.

But I will say it's still disproportionate in the amount that want to receive oral sex only versus who really enjoy giving oral sex.

More clients typically want to lie there and get a bj and have a girl on top for sex after, versus spending some of their paid time on reciprocating oral sex on her too and multiple sex positions.

But this is fine for me. Because if everyone wanted to do oral only I'd probably go numb. So I appreciate my quality licks over quantity from the kind daty lovers I see.

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Mmm from my experience a lot of men who see escorts (that are only looking for sexual release and not much connection) don't like doing oral and don't want to.

Of course, the girls in this video were talking about their boyfriends. Some guys might be more careful around SP's. Or they may feel that an SP is their time to completely relax, and let someone else do all of the work. I personally find it useless to be completely passive with any woman, as I'm into the interactivity.
 
I can't find my headphones in the dark so I should probably not post until I watch the video but what the heck...I can't sleep.

I don't know if I'm simply lucky or what, but I'd have to say 95% of my partners are as much into going down on me as I am into going down on them. Another 3% don't know what they're doing but are interested in finding out. And the remaining 2% aren't interested in any affection for whatever their reasons and so I never get around to presenting my goodies near their face.
 
Some of the comments surprise me, most men I've met always want to give oral and I'd prefer giving it to receiving it. As far as penetration vs oral, I'd rather fuck than be eaten, to be blunt. I guess my vibrator has ruined it for most men's tongues, most guys cannot compete with a strong vibrator, lol.
 
Some of the comments surprise me, most men I've met always want to give oral and I'd prefer giving it to receiving it. As far as penetration vs oral, I'd rather fuck than be eaten, to be blunt. I guess my vibrator has ruined it for most men's tongues, most guys cannot compete with a strong vibrator, lol.

Vibrator can't produce its own lubricant. :wink2:
 
Of course, the girls in this video were talking about their boyfriends. Some guys might be more careful around SP's. Or they may feel that an SP is their time to completely relax, and let someone else do all of the work. I personally find it useless to be completely passive with any woman, as I'm into the interactivity.


I noticed that with relationships a lot of times the guy would mostly only do oral in the hopes of getting a bj after, it wasn't because he was needing to perform oral to be fulfilled, but then that's why i stopped dating younger guys, just didn't do it for me. I prefer experience lol
 
This is a tough one for me...

I love receiving oral sex; but as a squirter it can be hard to fully enjoy the experience because you end up holding back from enjoying all of the pleasure being as you're afraid to "burst" out in orgasm right in someone's face- lol However, if I'm fortunate enough to find myself with a man who is comfortable with my juicy explosions of pleasure then I'm able to actually let loose and enjoy the experience to the fullest which is awesome!

Giving oral sex is an absolute must have for me. I love, love, love it and often have to be told to stop because I'm truly a gluten when it comes to my passion for penis- I tend to get very carried away by my own excitement and indulgence... It's easily my favorite sexual activity by far!

Penetration though can honestly go either way with me... My favorite position is "doggy" and I can have multiple orgasms if I'm really getting it deep and hard from behind (in a good rhythm of course); but if I'm on my back or on top, I don't typically find as much pleasure in the act of penetration- for whatever reason, unless the angles are just right, these positions do nothing for me personally...
 
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