Let's Reverse the Tables

[Guido]

I counted nine instances where you agreed with Reverse's original post. Her points weren't made in a professional manner but they're a true expression of a view from someone in the business who's had to deal with too many assholes - some who post on this board.

EH, I SHAVED MY ASS, ok maybe I didn't but I washed it!!!

 

[a 1 player]

Her points weren't made in a professional manner but they're a true expression of a view from someone in the business who's had to deal with too many assholes - some who post on this board.

Or possibly someone:

Who is not suited for the profession
Was not acutely aware of the nature of the business
Is only in it for the money and hates her job
Expected George Clooney type men, and not the average man

Just a thought.

 

[Auggie]

Or possibly someone:

Who is not suited for the profession
Was not acutely aware of the nature of the business
Is only in it for the money and hates her job
Expected George Clooney type men, and not the average man

Just a thought.

Wow, an escort who is in it just for the money! lol That would be 95% of them.

Did you agree with more than a half dozen of her points?

Just a thought.

 

[Guido]

You can't help but agree with some of her points. It's common sense that some dudes are slobs and most would realize that prior to stepping into the business. It's her attitude of total hatred for her clients that makes her post offensive to most people.

 

[a 1 player]

Wow, an escort who is in it just for the money! lol That would be 95% of them.

Did you agree with more than a half dozen of her points?

Just a thought.

Oops, I'm bad.:biggrin: Of course they are in it for the money, that was silly for me to post. God knows if it weren't for the money I would not go to work every day.

Yes, she did have some valid points which I do agree with and I can understand how they might be troublesome to someone in her profession. However, there were many others which are part of the 'job description', that come with the territory of being an escort.

Being in close contact with people and possibly being sweated on
Being licked
Men who are not good at some positions

Off the top of my head and without reading the post again. Hell, I'm not saying being an escort is an easy job, god knows I couldn't do it, but many of the points she listed are part of the package, and if one cannot deal with those they should not be in the profession. In the same way and manner that if a nurse can not deal with bodily fluids, she should change profession; they are a large percentage of the career she chose. The nurse might not like dealing with them, but if she were to vent about it to a client she would find herself in hot water. That is exactly what happened here.

 

[Auggie]

If a nurse anonymously posted about how her job is messy and she's treated like shit and hates the people she has to deal with, would she be attacked for expressing those honest views on here?

Probably but not as harshly. Perhaps she should find another job. But at least she can put "nurse" on her resume - it's not so easy for an escort to move on.

 

[a 1 player]

If a nurse anonymously posted about how her job is messy and she's treated like shit and hates the people she has to deal with, would she be attacked for expressing those honest views on here?

Probably not on here. However if she were to post on a 'home care' site where her clients reside and pay her money, I would expect an uproar there as well.

Perhaps she should find another job. But at least she can put "nurse" on her resume - it's not so easy for an escort to move on.

I agree with you, but it is a choice escorts make, and like everyone else in the world, we are responsible for our own actions and the consequences from those actions. There are many dropouts, people who do not have a post secondary education, or who had children in their teens... not easy for those people either, but they still have to live with the decisions they have made. I would think that the hardest transition for an escort to make would be the decreased income. However unlike many of us who have not had the option to make what an escort might be able to make, they have the option to use that higher income to their benefit while it is available, whether for school, investments, buying a house, or whatever. If an escort, (or any other person for that matter) decides to live frivolously on their income, one has no one to blame but themselves.

The fact of the matter is, it's hard for most people to change careers, and one should not expect the same income they were accustomed to when making that change.

What I have just written is not really the point though. The point is that she had a vent about many things that she disliked about being an escort in a forum of people who pay insane amounts of money to her for her services. To openly admit that she double books, and provides lousy service to those she is not attracted to, is to expect an outrage from those who are paying to see her. In most companies to speak badly of your employer or the clients you have will find you on the unemployment line. Why should this be any different?

 

[myself]

I counted nine instances where you agreed with Reverse's original post. Her points weren't made in a professional manner but they're a true expression of a view from someone in the business who's had to deal with too many assholes - some who post on this board.

Maybe you are right?But judging on how she expressed her opinion ,it is clear she has a complete lack of class.Don't get me wrong,i believe in freedom of speech but only when it is done in a respectful manner,which was clearly missing...

Lot's of assholes,yup,but mostly great guys.I tend to have a hard time to believe that one respectful/classy lady would get so many bad guys ,perhaps she said/did something that might put guys uncomfortable?Being respectful to the person in front of you will bring you a long way...

 

[myself]

Or possibly someone:

Who is not suited for the profession
Was not acutely aware of the nature of the business
Is only in it for the money and hates her job
Expected George Clooney type men, and not the average man

Just a thought.

what he said

 

[Auggie]

Probably not on here. However if she were to post on a 'home care' site where her clients reside and pay her money, I would expect an uproar there as well.



I agree with you, but it is a choice escorts make, and like everyone else in the world, we are responsible for our own actions and the consequences from those actions. There are many dropouts, people who do not have a post secondary education, or who had children in their teens... not easy for those people either, but they still have to live with the decisions they have made. I would think that the hardest transition for an escort to make would be the decreased income. However unlike many of us who have not had the option to make what an escort might be able to make, they have the option to use that higher income to their benefit while it is available, whether for school, investments, buying a house, or whatever. If an escort, (or any other person for that matter) decides to live frivolously on their income, one has no one to blame but themselves.

The fact of the matter is, it's hard for most people to change careers, and one should not expect the same income they were accustomed to when making that change.

What I have just written is not really the point though. The point is that she had a vent about many things that she disliked about being an escort in a forum of people who pay insane amounts of money to her for her services. To openly admit that she double books, and provides lousy service to those she is not attracted to, is to expect an outrage from those who are paying to see her. In most companies to speak badly of your employer or the clients you have will find you on the unemployment line. Why should this be any different?

I agree with all your points.
Does it hurt that she anonymously pointed out the consequences to clients? We could learn from this or foolishly choose not to.

In an extreme case right here, we found out what happens when you give an escort too much personal information about yourself and then go on to harass them long after the session. You stand a chance of being outed.

 

[a 1 player]

In an extreme case right here, we found out what happens when you give an escort too much personal information about yourself and then go on to harass them long after the session. You stand a chance of being outed.

Damn, I missed that whole episode????

 

[-b]

Some of the guys here and on other boards post about the escorts........even about pictures of women...making fun of their looks etc....I have read reviews that are hard about some escorts....
Look you guys may pay for their services but you can not expect that you own them....that they are
only allowed to say nice things about you because you pay them a couple of hundred dollars....
This is Canada right, people have a right to express themselves......

I have read things like, She was Fat, She Smells, She has bad breath, She does not have nice breast, she is not as good looking so on and so on......Yes you Pay but You Do Not Own them.....They have just the same rights has you......Just as you hide behind your name here why can the escorts do the same......

Some of you guys think that you can control these women but it is all a fantasy and in real life these women can say and do whatever behind whatever name they want to just like you.......and express what they want.....I am not saying all you guys are like this but there are a few and maybe instead of taking it personal, and you know you do not do this then you have no need to worry.

How I look at this is the guys who had a joke out of this or the ones who did not response in a negative way or never response....a lot who posted a lot of reviews, well they know it is not them.....The ones who felt personally attack well they must have screwed up in some way.......Learn and moved on.....

 

[Auggie]

Excellent points, blissful. :bs:

 

[chokemychicken]

I read this post the other day and it's post like this that scare me from visiting my first sp. Every-time I get the courage to do it, something makes me stop and think maybe this hobby is not for me.

 

[-b]

I read this post the other day and it's post like this that scare me from visiting my first sp. Every-time I get the courage to do it, something makes me stop and think maybe this hobby is not for me.

So every time you hear about a car accident you won't get into a car.......

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

So every time you hear about a car accident you won't get into a car.......

Whatever anyone tells you, everyone wants acceptance and everybody fears rejection on some level.

This all being part of being human I'm afraid.

 

[-b]

Whatever anyone tells you, everyone wants acceptance and everybody fears rejection on some level.

This all being part of being human I'm afraid.

Yes it is being humane.......but if a guy wrote what I wrote then that would be ok and if I wrote what you wrote to him about fear of rejection you would have said something else........So it really does not matter what I write ..........You will always have an issue with it and that is being an unfriendly human....Still Merry Christmas......

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Yes it is being humane.......but if a guy wrote what I wrote then that would be ok and if I wrote what you wrote to him about fear of rejection you would have said something else........So it really does not matter what I write ..........You will always have an issue with it and that is being an unfriendly human....Still Merry Christmas......

Too be honest what you write on here is so disjointed that most of the time I have to read it numerous times just to figure out what you are trying to say.

Whether you are male or female matters little. What matters is the way in which you convey your thoughts on here.

I'm not big on calling any favourites. Just ask SG. We started off kind of rough but quickly I realized I rather enjoy her candor.

 

[a 1 player]

Some of the guys here and on other boards post about the escorts........even about pictures of women...making fun of their looks etc....I have read reviews that are hard about some escorts....
Look you guys may pay for their services but you can not expect that you own them....that they are
only allowed to say nice things about you because you pay them a couple of hundred dollars....
This is Canada right, people have a right to express themselves......

I have read things like, She was Fat, She Smells, She has bad breath, She does not have nice breast, she is not as good looking so on and so on......Yes you Pay but You Do Not Own them.....They have just the same rights has you......Just as you hide behind your name here why can the escorts do the same......

Some of you guys think that you can control these women but it is all a fantasy and in real life these women can say and do whatever behind whatever name they want to just like you.......and express what they want.....I am not saying all you guys are like this but there are a few and maybe instead of taking it personal, and you know you do not do this then you have no need to worry.

How I look at this is the guys who had a joke out of this or the ones who did not response in a negative way or never response....a lot who posted a lot of reviews, well they know it is not them.....The ones who felt personally attack well they must have screwed up in some way.......Learn and moved on.....

True. If only for the fact that both men and women need to learn how to communicate with more tact and respect. Often it is not what is said, rather, how it is said.

 

[HOF]

I counted nine instances where you agreed with Reverse's original post. Her points weren't made in a professional manner but they're a true expression of a view from someone in the business who's had to deal with too many assholes - some who post on this board.

Do you know this sp Auggie or are you assuming that some of her clients post on this board? If she really loathes the men that provide her income and expresses herself so inappropriately, she should find a new job, it's that simple.

Yeah, I forgot the p in express.