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Making rent and the holiday season

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I find it hilarious that I get calls and or texts near the end of the month from SP's I haven't heard from in months, sometimes years. Gotta make rent. Sometimes I lose track of time myself but when I get a barrage of texts like "Hey baby, how you been? Haven't seen you in a while. Hope you're doing okay." I'm flattered for about half a second and then I look at the calendar. "Hey, how's it going. How much do you need?" or "Hey baby, I'm doing good, wanna get together?" and almost inevitably after that, I get the hard luck story. "How do you plan on paying me back?" blank stare. I guess her statement of "Can you LEND me some money..." really means, "Can you lend me some money that I'll never pay back because I know you won't ask for it back because you like me but I don't really like you and only see you as a wallet, but next time we fuck, I still expect you to pay me....." What the actual fuck....?

I'll tell you all a little story. I have a fuck buddy, she's an SP but we've been fucking off the clock since April. We go out and have a good time and sometimes we fuck at the end of the night, sometimes I just send her home. Recently she's been absent but pops up once a month or so. We have dinner. Go to a show and up fucking back at my place and she goes home (she has a BF out of town btw, like I GAF). After a few weeks of silence, she texts me one morning and starts off an innocent conversation then all of a sudden, she hits me with the sob story. Keep in mind that she's had the "I can't make rent" story before, but she just goes out and hustles and usually makes rent by working. So I hear her out and she promises to pay me back. Fine, I've known her long enough and it isn't a habit. A week later, she hits me with a "I don't know what to do about our relationship. I don't want anything serious and I think to make this work we should have an arrangement." :SayWhat?: Needless to say, I'm a little taken aback by this...yeah, me.

I went on to tell her that I didn't think we had anything serious and that I liked how things were working and that if we had an arrangement, I would have certain expectations, like being available and not disappearing or ghosting. I flat out told her that she's not a real good candidate for a sugar baby, sugar daddy relationship. She wanted to still talk about it so I told her to come over that night and we'll talk. It's been radio silent since then. Like I said, not a good candidate. I did tell her that my expectation was that she was going to pay me back what she borrowed. And yeah, I know, kiss it goodbye. It wasn't much and I knew the chances of seeing that money was slim. I'll hear from her near the end of the month, I'm sure. If she charged me for every time I fucked her at no $$$ vs the what I loaned her, I'm still WAAAAAAY ahead.

Now on to the holiday season. WOW, lots of hours being put in by some ladies LOL. Some out of retirement. Some brand new; I actually love this part of the season because some of the Uni students don't go home for the holidays and stay behind and make some money...fresh meat. LOL. Tell me you haven't noticed the extra effort by some. Go trolling on BP for the end of the month specials and holiday specials. A bargain hunters dreeeaaaaam.
 
Like most people. They spend more than they make or they are hoping to make their quota before rent is do. I do not associate with those people anymore. Their negative energy and feel sorry for me please because I don't watch my budget comes out of their pores.
 
Some times it feeks like the Dentist office calling to remind you that its time for a check up.
 
Hey, I don't get anyone calling me or texting me for money and sex.


I said it before and I'll say it again
YOU SUCK!:no:
 
I'd be embarrassed to admit trolling for escorts in poverty, but some have no shame and even boast about it.
 
Some times it feeks like the Dentist office calling to remind you that its time for a check up.

Better than Google calendar.

Hey, I don't get anyone calling me or texting me for money and sex.


I said it before and I'll say it again
YOU SUCK!:no:

I swallow too if you want - no upcharge.

I'd be embarrassed to admit trolling for escorts in poverty, but some have no shame and even boast about it.

But it happens and plenty of bargain hunter threads out there.
 
Some sps could truly use a helping hand sometimes during the year not just xmas for truly valid reasons
it is the ones that take the opportunity of xmas to make phone calls and talk guys that they know into making a donation to the cause that really screw it up for that ones that could use the help!!
All I can say is pick and choose wisely and think with the big head.
I have help some and I have also been burned by some
lesson learned

DILLIGAF
 
I don't believe in lending and borrowing. Don't believe in credit cards, don't believe in spending money I don't actually have. When friends ask for $ I simply give it to them if I have it. If I don't expect them to pay me back, then if they ever do, I'm pleasantly surprised and have free money woot! Keeps everything simple and uncomplicated.
 
True, but rejoicing and laughing about the opportunities to exploit isn't cool.

Did I rejoice? Did I laugh?

Go trolling on BP for the end of the month specials and holiday specials. A bargain hunters dreeeaaaaam.

If that's what you think I did, wake up and read again and then when you're finished reading it, read it again and then apologize.

 
I don't believe in lending and borrowing. Don't believe in credit cards, don't believe in spending money I don't actually have. When friends ask for $ I simply give it to them if I have it. If I don't expect them to pay me back, then if they ever do, I'm pleasantly surprised and have free money woot! Keeps everything simple and uncomplicated.

I like you. A lot. xoxoxo
 
Did I rejoice? Did I laugh?

Go trolling on BP for the end of the month specials and holiday specials. A bargain hunters dreeeaaaaam.

If that's what you think I did, wake up and read again and then when you're finished reading it, read it again and then apologize.
I read several LOLs in your posts and your first sentence contained the word "hilarious".
 
I read several LOLs in your posts and your first sentence contained the word "hilarious".

I always laugh when I see the obvious that no one has the balls to laugh about, including some SP's I know who laugh at the same things as I do, but never publicly.

In my bolded excerpt, did I laugh? Do I amuse you? Do you think I'm funny? DILLIGAF about your opinion? Not really but YOU make me laugh. Here's some NeverDull for your armour big boy.

For the plebs out there, I do find tragedy in an occupation that's fed by a debilitating habit. Those women will never see the inside of my wallet, not because they're "ratchet" but because I don't believe in KNOWINGLY feeding their chemical or liquid addiction. It's not to say that some of our more pleasant and or tolerable SP's don't have addictions, but they keep them hidden and it's unfortunate. I've let go three regulars because I found they were feeding habits. I pointed them to addiction counseling and sent them on their way. I don't have time to hold someone's hand through their addiction because they have to WANT to kick it. I did tell them that I'm here to support their recovery but I won't be feeding them any money.
 
Fugged, are you a wealthy individual to be able to support all these ladies you say you help out financially?

If you hobby, that alone bites into the budget let alone trying to pay rents, drug habbits and other luxury items? I'm not judging dude, it's your money so do as you wish, I'm just curious.
 
Fugged, are you a wealthy individual to be able to support all these ladies you say you help out financially?

If you hobby, that alone bites into the budget let alone trying to pay rents, drug habbits and other luxury items? I'm not judging dude, it's your money so do as you wish, I'm just curious.

I'm not wealthy by any means. I have low overhead.

I do hobby in spurts. I do keep the private ladies on an adhoc basis. There is currently no one on the payroll; I've found that doesn't work out because I have expectations and they see it as free money and they're the ones that usually fuck that up by ghosting or feeling like they don't have to work for it.

I'm currently enthralled with the new lady I have been seeing these past two weeks but I do spread the love. Like a new car, I take her out for a drive as much as I can when she's available, but I do like taking out the reliable rides often.
 
I'm not wealthy by any means. I have low overhead.

I do hobby in spurts. I do keep the private ladies on an adhoc basis. There is currently no one on the payroll; I've found that doesn't work out because I have expectations and they see it as free money and they're the ones that usually fuck that up by ghosting or feeling like they don't have to work for it.

I'm currently enthralled with the new lady I have been seeing these past two weeks but I do spread the love. Like a new car, I take her out for a drive as much as I can when she's available, but I do like taking out the reliable rides often.

Granted but a regular plus a few foreign drives a week can easily add up to $1000 a week. I can see some individuals on here based on their reviews spending large amounts of money so by no means it surprises me. I had a boss who was paying his sugarbaby $10000.00 a month, bought her a condo and a car and then she cut ties with him after of course she begged him to put the condo in her name.

I don't blame her because he was an old rich fool. He actually believed this hot 25 year old was falling for his wrinkled 65 year old ass. I laughed for days when I found out.
 
I always laugh when I see the obvious that no one has the balls to laugh about, including some SP's I know who laugh at the same things as I do, but never publicly.

In my bolded excerpt, did I laugh? Do I amuse you? Do you think I'm funny? DILLIGAF about your opinion? Not really but YOU make me laugh. Here's some NeverDull for your armour big boy.

For the plebs out there, I do find tragedy in an occupation that's fed by a debilitating habit. Those women will never see the inside of my wallet, not because they're "ratchet" but because I don't believe in KNOWINGLY feeding their chemical or liquid addiction. It's not to say that some of our more pleasant and or tolerable SP's don't have addictions, but they keep them hidden and it's unfortunate. I've let go three regulars because I found they were feeding habits. I pointed them to addiction counseling and sent them on their way. I don't have time to hold someone's hand through their addiction because they have to WANT to kick it. I did tell them that I'm here to support their recovery but I won't be feeding them any money.
Laughing at tragedy, mocking those who try to help - that's the spirit! :YMAPPLAUSE:
 
Laughing at tragedy, mocking those who try to help - that's the spirit! :YMAPPLAUSE:

I mildly agree with you but many many men have been taking advantage of and been parted of their hard earned money albeit their own foolish fault. I would venture to guess on more than several occasions Fugg has been fugged royally and doesn't even know it.:biggrin2:
 
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