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Why is he banned? He always had interesting threads to read, some pissed you off, some had hot dancing women and some were just mind provoking trolling but over all the man was entertaining.

WHY, now I have to read the paper.
 
There was a concerted effort to have MAL removed which I think is ridiculous. If one doesn't like what a poster is posting, just put him or her on ignore.
 
I didn't realize he was banned. I had him on ignore, as I found him tiresome and boring, but that's not a reason to ban him. Still, the mods on this board have always treaded lightly on banning, to their credit, so whatever it was he did, he probably deserved it!
 
I didn't realize it either. I tend to ignore his posts unless there's some pretty girls, nice cars, or if other people start chiming in. Sure, he had some thought provoking topics, but you can be thought provoking without being a total ass about it. I'm sure a lot of what he wrote was just unfiltered venting, but this is not the place for unfiltered venting. Maybe celebjihad will welcome some of the stuff he spouted.
 
If he was banned, he'll come back under another name, like most of the trolls do. To be honest, I don't feel sad he's gone. His insults against women were annoying which is why I blocked him.
 
There was a concerted effort to have MAL removed which I think is ridiculous. If one doesn't like what a poster is posting, just put him or her on ignore.

I didn't know you could put someone on ignore. How?? Hmmmmmm
 
Click on the user's name and view profile. Under their picture on the left there is an option to add to your ignore list.
 
In time I'm sure MAL will come to appreciate his banning. It'll give him more time to write his manifesto...
 
Why is he banned? He always had interesting threads to read, some pissed you off, some had hot dancing women and some were just mind provoking trolling but over all the man was entertaining.

WHY, now I have to read the paper.

Interesting, mind provoking? Seriously? He continuously insulted and belittled many here,especially women in general, this industry, and those in it, and you ask why he was banned? I wondered why not sooner. Having an opinion is one thing, but intentional and continual insults is another. One can ignore but when someone sets out to be a pot stirrer and purposefully ignorant, they need to be stopped, not encouraged. It awed me that when he often referred to escorts as hookers, no one spoke up, that to me is telling, and a sad statement at that. It shows a lack of respect towards those of us who try hard to represent this profession in a positive and respectful light .Some might think it is just a name (hooker) but some also, and imo, should think, it as rude, insulting and unnecessary. As I've said before, if those of us within this industry can't show respect to one another, how can we expect those outside of it to?
 
. It awed me that when he often referred to escorts as hookers, no one spoke up, that to me is telling, and a sad statement at that.

As long as the users of that title refer to themselves as ''Johns'' then I see nothing wrong with it. Sometimes it's just a perspective sort of thing.

And as for MAL well..........Looks like he just wore out his welcome. He would be better off on the blue board anyways. Oops I believe he's been banned over there also. Telling!
 
Interesting, mind provoking? Seriously? He continuously insulted and belittled many here,especially women in general, this industry, and those in it, and you ask why he was banned? I wondered why not sooner. Having an opinion is one thing, but intentional and continual insults is another. One can ignore but when someone sets out to be a pot stirrer and purposefully ignorant, they need to be stopped, not encouraged. It awed me that when he often referred to escorts as hookers, no one spoke up, that to me is telling, and a sad statement at that. It shows a lack of respect towards those of us who try hard to represent this profession in a positive and respectful light .Some might think it is just a name (hooker) but some also, and imo, should think, it as rude, insulting and unnecessary. As I've said before, if those of us within this industry can't show respect to one another, how can we expect those outside of it to?

Cristy you know I love you but I do disagree with you on this one. Everyone is entitled to free speech unless it's clear it is hate speech which clearly Mal never did.

It's not fair to censor someone because we don't agree with them. I didn't agree with everything he said, I don't agree with all that is said from the transgender community, the gay community, the blacklivesmatter group but I give them all their right to say their peace and I will decide on a personal level what I agree with or don't agree with. I would never try to censor and stifle their opinion.

It's somewhat a free society, let's just try to keep it that way for everyone.

I am a John and proud of it but I do agree for the purpose of battling these misguided abolitionists the words "hooker" and "john" needs to be replaced with "SexWorker" and "client".
 
Um Madman, some of the stuff he spouted was pretty damned hateful. I'm all for free speech, but the problem with it is where do we draw the line between free speech and willful intent to piss people off?
 
Cristy you know I love you but I do disagree with you on this one. Everyone is entitled to free speech unless it's clear it is hate speech which clearly Mal never did.

It's not fair to censor someone because we don't agree with them. I didn't agree with everything he said, I don't agree with all that is said from the transgender community, the gay community, the blacklivesmatter group but I give them all their right to say their peace and I will decide on a personal level what I agree with or don't agree with. I would never try to censor and stifle their opinion.

It's somewhat a free society, let's just try to keep it that way for everyone.

I am a John and proud of it but I do agree for the purpose of battling these misguided abolitionists the words "hooker" and "john" need to be replaced with "SexWorker" and "client".


Nothing wrong with disagreeing, but as Erectile said, Mal spewed plenty of hate speech. You didn't mind what he said obviously, but others apparently did, enough so that a ban was given, that is telling. As I said, we all should be able to speak our minds but when it's done to evoke trouble, hate, etc, then it is no longer free speech it's an agenda and one with no good intent so why would anyone want it to continue?
 
Nothing wrong with disagreeing, but as Erectile said, Mal spewed plenty of hate speech. You didn't mind what he said obviously, but others apparently did, enough so that a ban was given, that is telling. As I said, we all should be able to speak our minds but when it's done to evoke trouble, hate, etc, then it is no longer free speech it's an agenda and one with no good intent so why would anyone want it to continue?

I'm surprised Mal lasted as long as he did with his stance on transgender folks considering the obvious advertiser on this board who has a niche carved out for transgender sex workers.

This being said, I'm with MM in believing folks should be allowed to speak their mind and others need to stop being so thin skinned. If I were a sex worker and I was offended by Mal, I would use his posts as part of my screening process, in other words it is better to know what people really believe.

Oh well, back to lurking....boredom once again.
 
I'm surprised Mal lasted as long as he did with his stance on transgender folks considering the obvious advertiser on this board who has a niche carved out for transgender sex workers.

This being said, I'm with MM in believing folks should be allowed to speak their mind and others need to stop being so thin skinned. If I were a sex worker and I was offended by Mal, I would use his posts as part of my screening process, in other words it is better to know what people really believe.

Oh well, back to lurking....boredom once again.


The way I figure it is he was given a chance to speak his mind.
 
papasmerf said:
The way I figure it is he was given a chance to speak his mind.

And while, at times, the mind generated some interesting comments, on the whole is racist and sexist bullshit got old. Yeah, he was doing it for reaction (that's what's known as a troll) but it got pushed too far.
 
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