My new boyfriend wants to take me on vacations for a couple of weeks.

[MisterAsianLover]

Reverse,

You should tell him that you don't want a long-term relationship because he doesn't please you sexually. Tell him to invest in other women as well because he will get a better return in the long run from them.

Then ask him if he still wants to take you.

 

[MisterAsianLover]

?? but yet in many of the threads mal posts, where comments are clearly laden in bigotry, women hatred and even disrespectful towards our industry, they're acceptable?

I say what i feel, just as you do. I don't constantly complain about your opinion. I just respond to it.

Get over it.

 

[MisterAsianLover]

I have to agree the lack of respect is not acceptable.

Lack of respect?

The woman is letting everyone know that she is undecided about whether or not to use someone in order to get a free trip out of the equation.

Should we congratulate her and tell her that the man is SO LUCKY to be with her her?

 

[Madman]

Lack of respect?

The woman is letting everyone know that she is undecided about whether or not to use someone in order to get a free trip out of the equation.

Should we congratulate her and tell her that the man is SO LUCKY to be with her her?

Bottom line is when a 50 plus old man takes a 30 or under gorgeous woman on an expensive vacation it is about the money and if he believes any different he's an idiot. I say all the power to Reverse because she is not doing anything wrong but only enjoying the fruits of her bodacious body.:wink2:

 

[jj77*]

Hi Reverse: As a 50 something year old guy, I think he knows what he is getting into. As long as you are honest with him and feel comfortable I think you should enjoy the trip. Find someplace great you would both enjoy. He is hoping, I think, that the trip brings you closer together. He can afford it and will enjoy it if you both have a great trip. Bon voyage.

 

[MisterAsianLover]

Don't do things to others that you don't want done to you.

Reverse, would you EVER pay for a trip on his behalf?

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

It's the golden rule....do unto others.....etc.

If I were in his shoes....I'd probably be thinking that I could change your mind during the trip. He's going to try hard to win you over and probably be very disappointed when it makes no change to the situation. Part of it is his ego, part of it could be that he just really likes you. Either way, if you know this is going nowhere, you should at the very least be honest with him about your feelings on the future of the relationship......but all involved would probably be better off if you don't go and cut things off now. It's like removing a bandage....faster hurts more but not as long.


Besides....from what I've seen, you are stunningly beautiful and a sweet lady. I'm sure there will be a line of guys who would count themselves lucky to be with you. You might miss Mr. Right while on the trip with Mr. Wrong.

Yep +1