Pedophiles should be locked up without any parole for life.

[papasmerf]

At first when I saw this thread I assumed the victim was a teenager.

And of course I was going to give the standard why couldn't that have happened too me response.

But upon learning of his age and the effect it had on him I am frankly sickened.

I pray that he can somehow get through this and have a happy life.

it would be awesome if you would extend that to all victims of sexual predators

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

it would be awesome if you would extend that to all victims of sexual predators

I do believe me.

 

[Shiek]

I know several individuals that went thru something similiar with people in authority postions, whether it was a parent, a sibling, a relative, friend of the family, a teacher, police officer, principal, coach, etc and I really was shocked to hear about these incidents.

But you know what makes me sicker?

Read what our current provincial government is trying to do.


https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/o...omises-to-bring-back-explicit-sex-ed-curricu/

Do we really want ten year olds learning about oral sex and 11 year olds learning about anal intercourse? I'm sorry but no

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

''The program had sex-ed begin in grade 1, with the naming of genitalia and other body parts. By grade 3, students were to learn about “sexual orientation” and “gender identity,” by grade 6 they would discuss masturbation as “common” and “not harmful,” and by grade 7 they would discuss oral and anal intercourse and learn about the use of condoms.''

They would be 13 by grade 7 I do believe and that sounds about right to me.

It's better to learn of this in the classroom rather than on the net or at the local hangout.

 

[Shiek]

13 in grade 7? nope....take a year off that age.

Originally in 2010 the proposal was grade 6 would learn about anal sex. I can understand highschool students learning about sex but not grade school children, its WAY too young an age to learn these things.



Why are the liberals so adamant on teaching this to our kids? It's the same in Chicago with the Dems but they want to start in kindergarten.

 

[Anneliese]

13 in grade 7? nope....take a year off that age.

Originally in 2010 the proposal was grade 6 would learn about anal sex. I can understand highschool students learning about sex but not grade school children, its WAY too young an age to learn these things.



Why are the liberals so adamant on teaching this to our kids? It's the same in Chicago with the Dems but they want to start in kindergarten.

Actually, as a parent of 3 children 4, 8 and 10... we openly discuss sex and sexual differences. I have bought several age appropriate books that discuss and show pictures about sexuality and what sexual intercourse is and how babies are made etc. We have read through them, they are readily available for them to pick up and read any time they want, and any question asked of me is answered straight up in a matter of fact manner. My children will not grow up thinking sex is a taboo subject, and an inappropriate behaviour the way I was and will have an absolute clear understanding of what it is and the reality and ramifications of their actions.

Finally, in my opinion, onset of puberty indicates onset of sexuality.... and lets face it... one is the horniest when they are a teenager with those super raging hormones. So I will assume that my children will engage or want to engage in sexual intercourse in their teens, as that is what their bodies are urging them to do. So, as their parent, it is my responsibility to arm them with knowledge and tools (birthcontrol, condoms, etc...) so that they can be safe and healthy. All the information I present to my kids about sexuality is not done in a salacious manner, but rather in a matter of fact way that presents human sexuality as normal and healthy. That attitude is what I wish for my children.

In Holland, sex education is an ongoing part of the curriculum of children from primary through to highschool, and as such they have one of the lowest rates of teenage pregnancy in the world. Unlike the US, which actively restricts sex education, instead opting for abstinence education.... which given their teen pregnancy rate is not working AT ALL. So personally, I opt for knowledge.... the best tool in the arsenal for healthy, safe and preventative sexual activity.

 

[Guido]

I know I was a horny bugger as early as grade 5. I was hitting on all the girls and even eye balling the teachers but then again it's in my Italian blood.

I would have done anything to get into a 20 year old hot blonde with big boobies! I remember stroking one off watching Mary Ann walking around the deserted island in her little short shorts!:he:

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Actually, as a parent of 3 children 4, 8 and 10... we openly discuss sex and sexual differences. I have bought several age appropriate books that discuss and show pictures about sexuality and what sexual intercourse is and how babies are made etc. We have read through them, they are readily available for them to pick up and read any time they want, and any question asked of me is answered straight up in a matter of fact manner. My children will not grow up thinking sex is a taboo subject, and an inappropriate behaviour the way I was and will have an absolute clear understanding of what it is and the reality and ramifications of their actions.

Finally, in my opinion, onset of puberty indicates onset of sexuality.... and lets face it... one is the horniest when they are a teenager with those super raging hormones. So I will assume that my children will engage or want to engage in sexual intercourse in their teens, as that is what their bodies are urging them to do. So, as their parent, it is my responsibility to arm them with knowledge and tools (birthcontrol, condoms, etc...) so that they can be safe and healthy. All the information I present to my kids about sexuality is not done in a salacious manner, but rather in a matter of fact way that presents human sexuality as normal and healthy. That attitude is what I wish for my children.

In Holland, sex education is an ongoing part of the curriculum of children from primary through to highschool, and as such they have one of the lowest rates of teenage pregnancy in the world. Unlike the US, which actively restricts sex education, instead opting for abstinence education.... which given their teen pregnancy rate is not working AT ALL. So personally, I opt for knowledge.... the best tool in the arsenal for healthy, safe and preventative sexual activity.

Great post and I wish my parents were as forward thinking as you when I was a youngster.

 

[papasmerf]

so now with all the support here, for teaching 10 year old CHILDREN about sex.
Are some people insinuating she was just teaching by providing a hands on lesson???

Sorry folks but wrong is wrong.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

13 in grade 7? nope....take a year off that age.

Well I was 13 in grade 7.

 

[Shiek]

Guess you were a year behind, most kids are starting grade 1 at 6 years of age.

Anneliese, As far as I'm concerned, teaching kids about sex is best left to the parents and not the education system. Some kids are more mature at a younger age and can absorb it but many are not. You are a credit to your children, the government is not.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Are some people insinuating she was just teaching by providing a hands on lesson???
.

No nobody in their right mind would think that.

 

[Mm69]

I don't know how he knows, but from my own very limited experience...

I have a family friend who was abused by her step dad. She tried to talk to her mother several times, but her mother just wouldn't hear it. After first her mother accused her of lying (or an overactive imagination). Then when she came upon some incontrovertible proof (which I don't know what it was, but I would guess that the mother walked in on him), she bluntly told the daughter that she did not want to lose the man.

As parents, our main responsibility is to protect our kids and make them feel safe and loved. I can't even imagine how my friend felt when she couldn't even rely on her own mother.....

No doubt doubly betrayed. As you said, a parent's job is to protect our kids. When we fail at that, we should be there to help pick up the pieces. When a child can't even count on a parent for consoling and sympathy it's truly tragic.

 

[Baz]

The abuse of children, regardless if the are little boys or girls is plain wrong and the perpetrators should be dealt with a very heavy hand. I agree with Sheik that any mention of sex education at an early age should be strictly left with the parents and not the teachers!

 

[HOF]

Now, can we get back to the female teacher that ruined this young man's childhood.​

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Anneliese, As far as I'm concerned, teaching kids about sex is best left to the parents and not the education system.

A nice notion however the reality is the many parents DON'T and let loose their kids ignorant about facts. They're only way to learn those facts are on the internet or at parties.

 

[papasmerf]

A nice notion however the reality is the many parents DON'T and let loose their kids ignorant about facts. They're only way to learn those facts are on the internet or at parties.

the problem with the educators teaching it is we want our kids to learn about it in a clear manner.

If you look at the education system you will see an agenda.

I for one see this teacher as product of that not just a villain.

Currently the kids are being taught homosexuality is natural and should be accepted.
Up until 20 years ago that concept was foreign.

Pedophilia is wrong and most of us agree with that. The same could have been said about homosexuality 30 years ago.

I do not trust the system of education with teaching any subject on morals.

 

[Cardinal Fang]

the problem with the educators teaching it is we want our kids to learn about it in a clear manner.

If you look at the education system you will see an agenda.

That can be said about anything papa. Even "certain" parents have an agenda. There are those parents homophobic and don't want their children taught anything about if for fear that they may turn into one. There are parents that are bigoted and don't want their children taught that they are no better than others. Everyone has an agenda. If we can come to an understanding that the only agenda is to provide INFORMATION then we have a starting point.

I for one see this teacher as product of that not just a villain.

This teacher is disturbed and deserves to be punished. The fact that she attended a modern day doesn't mean the school taught her to be who she was. There are many people that go through school today and are just fine. I would venture to say there is something more in this women's past that led here. More than likely....and I'm just speculating here...there were instances of sexual abuse on her in the past. If I was a betting man I would place my money there.

Currently the kids are being taught homosexuality is natural and should be accepted.
Up until 20 years ago that concept was foreign.

Times change papa and with that we have better information to base our decisions and concepts on. It's important we keep up with the times and teach our children outside of the blinders of faith outdated moral dogma that was pervasive a while ago. Yes homosexuality was considered wrong and blacks not too long ago were considered less than whites in every aspect. It took people to break down those walls by force because if we waited for the natural progression of society to see the errors of its ways we would still be waiting.

Pedophilia is wrong and most of us agree with that. The same could have been said about homosexuality 30 years ago.

Pedophilia is wrong and always will be because it is a crime perpetrated against those too young to defend themselves. Homosexuality was considered wrong because it was based on misguided notions of faith and hatred against people that were not understood or tolerated. You can't compare the two papa.

I do not trust the system of education with teaching any subject on morals.

Fair enough. But who do you then trust because many of the parents are sure as hell NOT doing the job they keep telling the educators not to do. Do we trust our religious leaders? I can easily argue with you that faith has no more has a monopoly on a moral compass than Madman has one on inane posting.

So who then do we trust to teach our young the morals? My father was a bigot but my mother was not. She did not do anything to stop him. How I didn't turn out to be a bigot was a surprise to me Papa and still is today. I remember being exposed to many kids at school so when I came home my fathers words about them always ringed hollow. I'm not sure what the answer is Papa but I'm not willing to say the current education system is off base because I've seen what happened in the past and that IS NOT the solution.

 

[papasmerf]

Fang
the question becomes who is better suited to raise a child
The parents, who hold the responsibility for them?
Or the Government?

 

[thesun]

With the ongoing media and constant sex in our faces, do not be surprised that 10 year old children are already engaging in oral sex. It is better to be informed rather than being obvilious to the potential health risks.