SP pics? Do you want to see all available pics if there is a large weight difference?

[Jessica Rain]

So as I am sure some have noticed, I have dropped a lot of weight. The weight I know will be staying off based on how I lost it so that in itself has made it easier for me to actual announce and show the weight loss. Admittedly I would be quite embarrassed if I announced and then put it all back on as fast as I lost it. So I kind of made sure that is not going to be the case before I made public announcements. LOL

Now I am kind of stuck with a dilemma and I hoping you good folks here can help me out.

I just did a new photo shoot that will go live on my site in a couple of weeks. I have a couple of albums from shoots before on my site. I think they are great pics too, but they show me about 30lbs heavier. This is a big difference in my "look". For an example of size difference - Twitter

Do I scrap those albums and leave them off my site completely since there is a drastic difference? The albums are dated of course, and I don't have a problem with showing them. That was me, and I thought I was fabulous then, I still think I am fabulous now.

My concern is what potential clients think. Will they feel it is a possible bait and switch? Will they get confused? Will guys who like a bigger girl feel duped if they show up and I am not that size because they were paying attention to the Feb 2018 album and not the Aug 2018 album. I did have one guy get very disappointed in my look once because I started advertising as a BBW and he said I didn't fit that category.

I am not trying to be rude, but we all know guys don't always pay that much attention to words that go along with sites, ads, etc. So basically the question is, scrap the old albums and stick with current weight showing pics, or add the new folder, keep the old ones as well because they are awesome too?

PS - I am not trying to make this an advertising thread, a big me up with compliments thread, an attention seeking thread. I am serious and really want to know what gentlemen would prefer.

 

[Pooldude]

Drop the old pictures. You are selling a product "Per say" and it should reflect on what you look like now. Irrelevant on what you looked 2 to 6 months ago.

 

[Big Fat Boy]

Keep new pictures only.

 

[Willy]

Would you want to show off pictures in early high school when you had pimples or the ones from your last year without them?.


Ditch the old ones.

 

[Martin]

I agree. No need to keep the old ones. You are what you are today not yesterday.

 

[God]

Whatever makes you feel sexier.

 

[Dier]

Ditch the old pictures.

 

[Winslow]

Hi Jessica, first of all, congrats on the weight loss.

IMHO, I would keep things simple, and scrap all your old pics. As usual, just my opinion!!

Is there anyway, you can share with us, how you lost the weight?? I'm trying to lose some weight myself, and any advice, would be much appreciated!!

 

[007]

New pictures only.

 

[Benito_775]

Common sense says to show only your newer pictures. I also would like to know your secrect on how you lost your unwanted weight.

Thank you.

 

[Cybermike]

Don't complicate things or over analyse. You are what you feel and look so why bother living in the past. Yes, even yesterday is the past.

Home you understand what I am saying.

 

[nntsci]

My only reason for saying keep some old ones is so that repeat customers know its you. This may not apply to you, perhaps more an issue if I find a lady through leolist or an escort agency or something like that, but if I see a lady and months later I try to find her again, but all her pictures are different, I might wonder if its the same lady.

 

[MEAT]

My only reason for saying keep some old ones is so that repeat customers know its you. This may not apply to you, perhaps more an issue if I find a lady through leolist or an escort agency or something like that, but if I see a lady and months later I try to find her again, but all her pictures are different, I might wonder if its the same lady.

I disagree, plus leolist is not a good way to meet or book SP. A few of my friends got ripped off there. Too many fake ones.

Nntsci, Jessica already has her followers and regulars and sure most have her business number that they can text her for a business meeting.

Jessica is sharp, attractive and opinionated but also smart enough to know how to market herself, except for this one, why she asked for advice. All opinions are good and valid-we all think and reason with different minds. But the bottom line is "Branding" yourself and the only way she can in my humble opinion is to start looking for new clients that have never heard or seen her.

 

[Win8]

Why befuddle a potential client. Keep your site sharp, shinning, elegant and make sure you add your personality to it. Don't always listen to what your web designer, photographer, best friend or clients have to say. Most like me do not care what you looked like 6 months ago. What you look now is that makes me want to visit. I am not a reviewer because of my choice.

The bottom line is that pictures should be the real thing up to that day that was posted.

 

[nntsci]

I disagree, plus leolist is not a good way to meet or book SP. A few of my friends got ripped off there. Too many fake ones.

Nntsci, Jessica already has her followers and regulars and sure most have her business number that they can text her for a business meeting.

Jessica is sharp, attractive and opinionated but also smart enough to know how to market herself, except for this one, why she asked for advice. All opinions are good and valid-we all think and reason with different minds. But the bottom line is "Branding" yourself and the only way she can in my humble opinion is to start looking for new clients that have never heard or seen her.

That's why I said it doesn't apply to her.

 

[The Voice]

Keep it current. If, god forbid, the weight ever comes back, you can always put the pics back.

Congratulations by they way! You look fantastic!

 

[KingJ]

Keep it current. If, god forbid, the weight ever comes back, you can always put the pics back.

Congratulations by they way! You look fantastic!

What he said.

 

[Jessica Rain]

My only reason for saying keep some old ones is so that repeat customers know its you. This may not apply to you, perhaps more an issue if I find a lady through leolist or an escort agency or something like that, but if I see a lady and months later I try to find her again, but all her pictures are different, I might wonder if its the same lady.

I get what you are saying. This would certainly be something to think about. My advertising does stop and go a lot. If I did advertise more on BP before it closed, I may have had to do that.

I disagree, plus leolist is not a good way to meet or book SP. A few of my friends got ripped off there. Too many fake ones.

Nntsci, Jessica already has her followers and regulars and sure most have her business number that they can text her for a business meeting.

Jessica is sharp, attractive and opinionated but also smart enough to know how to market herself, except for this one, why she asked for advice. All opinions are good and valid-we all think and reason with different minds. But the bottom line is "Branding" yourself and the only way she can in my humble opinion is to start looking for new clients that have never heard or seen her.

A couple of things:

When I am advertising, that is the time that I am indeed open to accepting new clients. When I am not advertising, my pics are usually done, the site is offline, signatures empty or starting that I am not available.

I think all ad platforms have their pros and cons. The trick, like everything in life, is to learn how to navigate successfully.

and as for why I asked. I do truly want to know. It is not something that is discussed. Most certainly when a lady gains weight, guys are all about making sure she has updated her pics, and not to use old ones so guys don't feel it is a bait and switch. Why can't I make sure I am not going to do the same the other way?

I am the type of escort who does have albums as I try to take pics every couple of months when actively working. This is something I am known for. I have a legit concern that changing things up, removing a bunch of stuff, which is basically everything, may appear as a false sense of trying to rebrand from being a "fat chick" into something else.

I am known for everything you have said, but I am also known for being honest, so keep the old would be fine for me, but then do I open the door for guys being confused on who they are getting at the door. Me now, or me 30lbs heavier? It does make a difference.

Besides, you may not have known me when I first started out. The number of questions I asked, and the answers I got are what has made me the savvy SP I am now.

I will say I did take my signature out. It was supposed to out like I did in similar threads on other forums. When I am taking my signature out of my replies, it is my way of showing either respect to the lady the thread may be about, or respect for the thread topic like if it was a tragedy type topic and if I am truly asking something and I really don't want it to be seen as advertising but instead for the validity of the topic itself.

Common sense says to show only your newer pictures. I also would like to know your secrect on how you lost your unwanted weight.

Thank you.

Hi Jessica, first of all, congrats on the weight loss.

IMHO, I would keep things simple, and scrap all your old pics. As usual, just my opinion!!

Is there anyway, you can share with us, how you lost the weight?? I'm trying to lose some weight myself, and any advice, would be much appreciated!!

So what I did. I swear I didn't do much at all.

Like all women, we plan out our diets that we are going to start but never do. And around this type of planning, I was really physically feeling like crap. I was tired, nauseous a lot, stomach issues, muscle cramps. Just a bunch of crappy shit.

So I wanted to try and eliminate some foods to see if it was something with what or when or how I was eating. I figure it couldn't hurt to try a couple of things. It would help me prep for my diet anyway.

1. I tried to go black coffee and couldn't but I did cut the sugar that I put in my coffee by half. I am still hoping to get to at least no sugar.

2. I didn't drink a lot of pop before, but I really made an effort to axe it out completely. I switched to water, OJ, and coffee or tea only.

3. I tried to cut out fast food. And I did a good job of it. I would go weeks without it. Then when I did have to go, because sometimes you just have to for whatever reason, I completely stopped ordering fries. I cut the burger from the large burgers they normally offer and went for the small one. So a whooper JR instead of a regular sized one and a cheeseburger made like a mac instead of a big mac.

4. Doing some of those helped me with portion sizing then at home too. I started grabbing the smaller plates instead of the big one. I would tell myself, "let me see how this settles first and if I am still hungry I can always eat more" My body was starting to feel better and I didn't want to go back to some of the feelings I had before, so this helped create that mindset of "wait and see how eating this will affect me."

5. I started eating very thin sliced bread. Weight watchers actually.

That is really about it. By the time I started to notice a difference it how I felt physically, I started also noticing the weight coming off. I figured I would keep doing it until I platued at a weight and then see if I want to lose more. Kind of like I did with the portion sizing. I am pretty much at my platue. I will kick it here for a bit. Maintain and then if I want to lose more, I can look at exercise, etc.

I will want to start to build up some stronger mucles. I have been doing some manually labour as of late, and have notice a bit of a stronger arm and I like it, so I may run with that next.

The key I think for me was not focusing on losing weight. It was not my goal, it was not what I set out to do. It was to change a few things that I would have to change if I was going to diet so I looked at it as prep I guess. Partly prep and partly investigating what works and doesn't work with my body internally.

For guys, I am going to add one thing - stop drinking. If you are a beer or wine, or anything drinker, stop or seriously cut that down. That will make a huge difference.

 

[DDoS]

Do what makes you feel safe, good and of course horny :biggrin2:

 

[Loophole]

This one is a no brainer and do wonder why you even had to ask.