SP pics? Do you want to see all available pics if there is a large weight difference?

[Guido]

Your boobs shrank?

 

[Jessica Rain]

Your boobs shrank?

Lol. Yes and no.

I was always wearing the wrong size bra.

So I went from 42/44DDD to a 36 J. Hahahhaha.

I lost a bit in the number because I lost some back fat. But gained a few cups sizes.

I know. I know. Only the fabulous me could lose weight and gain bigger boobs. hahahahahha

This one is a no brainer and do wonder why you even had to ask.

I did explain why I asked earlier. Honestly, I have been an online advertising escort for 4 years and I feel like now I have to scrape all my pics that I have built over those 4 years and start new. Which is okay - a little sad. I like them all.

But also - would it not be strange to a client like you if you went to a site like mine and suddenly only found 6 - 8 pics? I guess I don't want to be accused of trying to be "slimmer" like a lot of bigger girls get accused of with pro pics.

Then again, I was the type of person who started online before C36 to built a history for myself before I was even really ready to start. Buillding a reputation was important. That meant building a history - which now I seem to be wiping out. Lol.

 

[Signingin]

For guys, I am going to add one thing - stop drinking. If you are a beer or wine, or anything drinker, stop or seriously cut that down. That will make a huge difference.

Bingo, the sugar intake on alcohol is absurd.

 

[Winslow]

I get what you are saying. This would certainly be something to think about. My advertising does stop and go a lot. If I did advertise more on BP before it closed, I may have had to do that.



A couple of things:

When I am advertising, that is the time that I am indeed open to accepting new clients. When I am not advertising, my pics are usually done, the site is offline, signatures empty or starting that I am not available.

I think all ad platforms have their pros and cons. The trick, like everything in life, is to learn how to navigate successfully.

and as for why I asked. I do truly want to know. It is not something that is discussed. Most certainly when a lady gains weight, guys are all about making sure she has updated her pics, and not to use old ones so guys don't feel it is a bait and switch. Why can't I make sure I am not going to do the same the other way?

I am the type of escort who does have albums as I try to take pics every couple of months when actively working. This is something I am known for. I have a legit concern that changing things up, removing a bunch of stuff, which is basically everything, may appear as a false sense of trying to rebrand from being a "fat chick" into something else.

I am known for everything you have said, but I am also known for being honest, so keep the old would be fine for me, but then do I open the door for guys being confused on who they are getting at the door. Me now, or me 30lbs heavier? It does make a difference.

Besides, you may not have known me when I first started out. The number of questions I asked, and the answers I got are what has made me the savvy SP I am now.

I will say I did take my signature out. It was supposed to out like I did in similar threads on other forums. When I am taking my signature out of my replies, it is my way of showing either respect to the lady the thread may be about, or respect for the thread topic like if it was a tragedy type topic and if I am truly asking something and I really don't want it to be seen as advertising but instead for the validity of the topic itself.





So what I did. I swear I didn't do much at all.

Like all women, we plan out our diets that we are going to start but never do. And around this type of planning, I was really physically feeling like crap. I was tired, nauseous a lot, stomach issues, muscle cramps. Just a bunch of crappy shit.

So I wanted to try and eliminate some foods to see if it was something with what or when or how I was eating. I figure it couldn't hurt to try a couple of things. It would help me prep for my diet anyway.

1. I tried to go black coffee and couldn't but I did cut the sugar that I put in my coffee by half. I am still hoping to get to at least no sugar.

2. I didn't drink a lot of pop before, but I really made an effort to axe it out completely. I switched to water, OJ, and coffee or tea only.

3. I tried to cut out fast food. And I did a good job of it. I would go weeks without it. Then when I did have to go, because sometimes you just have to for whatever reason, I completely stopped ordering fries. I cut the burger from the large burgers they normally offer and went for the small one. So a whooper JR instead of a regular sized one and a cheeseburger made like a mac instead of a big mac.

4. Doing some of those helped me with portion sizing then at home too. I started grabbing the smaller plates instead of the big one. I would tell myself, "let me see how this settles first and if I am still hungry I can always eat more" My body was starting to feel better and I didn't want to go back to some of the feelings I had before, so this helped create that mindset of "wait and see how eating this will affect me."

5. I started eating very thin sliced bread. Weight watchers actually.

That is really about it. By the time I started to notice a difference it how I felt physically, I started also noticing the weight coming off. I figured I would keep doing it until I platued at a weight and then see if I want to lose more. Kind of like I did with the portion sizing. I am pretty much at my platue. I will kick it here for a bit. Maintain and then if I want to lose more, I can look at exercise, etc.

I will want to start to build up some stronger mucles. I have been doing some manually labour as of late, and have notice a bit of a stronger arm and I like it, so I may run with that next.

The key I think for me was not focusing on losing weight. It was not my goal, it was not what I set out to do. It was to change a few things that I would have to change if I was going to diet so I looked at it as prep I guess. Partly prep and partly investigating what works and doesn't work with my body internally.

For guys, I am going to add one thing - stop drinking. If you are a beer or wine, or anything drinker, stop or seriously cut that down. That will make a huge difference.

Excellent response Jessica. Keep up the good work!!

 

[Vongolo]

Good for you. You miss pizza, donuts, pasta and pork chops?.

 

[Alomar]

Looks like not keeping the old ones win.

 

[demien3k5]

This question really didn't need to be thread with a poll at all. Holy 'over-thinking it' batman! For someone with such strong and immovable opinions on virtually everything else of consequence occurring in the universe today, I find it hard to believe THIS was the issue you needed the broader public's opinion on, across two ERBs no less. :no:

 

[Jessica Rain]

This question really didn't need to be thread with a poll at all. Holy 'over-thinking it' batman! For someone with such strong and immovable opinions on virtually everything else of consequence occurring in the universe today, I find it hard to believe THIS was the issue you needed the broader public's opinion on, across two ERBs no less. :no:

Um no. One ERB only. The other is called Lyla again.

Plus asking the opinion of others does not nor will not every negate my own opinion silly. I thought you would know that by now. :-Cool/"

 

[Jessica Rain]

Good for you. You miss pizza, donuts, pasta and pork chops?.

lol. I still eat those. Just not for every meal.

Looks like not keeping the old ones win.

It does. I was given a really great idea from a person which I think I will probably do. Helps combine what everyone has said here, my joy for helping and educating people and showing the success of hard work.

Stay tuned and I will announce it soon enough.

Thanks to all who replied.

 

[demien3k5]

Um no. One ERB only. The other is called Lyla again.

This board, plus T-E-R-B makes two ERBs. Lyla is something else altogether. I can count to two, y'know.

 

[Jessica Rain]

This board, plus T-E-R-B makes two ERBs. Lyla is something else altogether. I can count to two, y'know.

You know thems fightin' words.

Some people here will want to kick your ass for calling HUBGFE an ERB!!!!

I know, I know but the B and F apparently make a difference. LOL.

And now I know why you get the escorts to count their orgasms with you. Only being able to count to two and all.

:wink2:

 

[demien3k5]

And now I know why you get the escorts to count their orgasms with you. Only being able to count to two and all.

If I don't teach those escorts how to count past two, who will. For the record, most can count to at least 50 after the 6th hour. :wink2: Think of it as my contribution to the sw industry. :-Cool/"

 

[Jessica Rain]

If I don't teach those escorts how to count past two, who will. For the record, most can count to at least 50 after the 6th hour. :wink2: Think of it as my contribution to the sw industry. :-Cool/"

And stupid me when to school to learn how to count!!!!

No wonder I turned out the way I did. Lol

 

[50cents]

Final verdict?.

 

[Jessica Rain]

Final verdict?.

So update:

I have removed the old ones from public viewing but members still have access. I will be writing a blog post about the weight lost. Basically like the long post I did here about how I did it with some other info of course.

It was suggested to me by many that the story can be inspiring to others and I can't say no to helping people. So I will blog about it and if can help one person be successful with their goal, then that is an even better outcome to all this.

Thanks to everyone who gave me props and who helped me come to the decision about the pics.

I have actually dropped another 5lbs and am happily maintaining here for a bit. Learning to maintain a weight is just as important as learning how to safely lose it so that will also be apart of the blog.

To anyone looking for suport on their weight loss goals, my PM box is always open.

 

[ROBERTSON]

A little late to the party here, but why not date them ?

I've seen some of the more "mature" ladies do that, works for me, also, I can reminisce,...

 

[Hoser]

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