What has happened to Men....

[RAWD]

@tboy - you rock. Good on ya for speaking up. But it seems to me that the problem there wasn't communication. It was simply that those women were on a different plane of reality. As youve said before, the Greek girl simply did not see you as a priority. You were a guy who filled in the spaces when she needed company, or had nothing better to do. Let me ask, did she make plans with you, or was it always/usually last minute?

The other girl seemed like that also. Hang out with you unless there was a better option?

If they like/love you, the will show it. Or that's just a sign of immaturity on their part. Either way, not something you can really talk about.

@Blissful - that kind of relationship exists. Sex is the icing on the cake, not the foundation (unless you spend 24/7 fucking. Lol). If you haven't found that type of relationship, maybe you've been looking in the wrong places.

 

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@Blissful - that kind of relationship exists. Sex is the icing on the cake, not the foundation (unless you spend 24/7 fucking. Lol). If you haven't found that type of relationship, maybe you've been looking in the wrong places.

I had both but was eaten up and lost myself....I am not looking at this moment, why because I want to feel settled within me ...I am getting stronger, I don't want a relationship, just fun....:biggrin2:
Maybe next year.....raying:

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Sorry, everytime I've expressed my feelings to a woman, negative feelings that is, I got slammed.......what I learned was that a guy should just bury his feelings, then if the negative feelings build up, just leave.......walk away because I know of NO woman who really wants to know what a guy's feeling......

I agree 100% and would further add that never show any weakness.

Although they preach that it's okay to show weakness once you do your never looked at in the same way.

 

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Some of you guys even women go into marriage as if it is a battle...
Who can control or destroy each other.....
It suppose to be an equal relationships....arguments should be
looked at has trying to view each others points......
Not upping one on each other.......
Maybe just maybe, you guys are looking at the wrong women...
You know what they say " If your father is an alcoholic then watch you do not marry one"
" If your parents fight all out or scream, you are an adult you have a choice to change
your behavior" So you look for women who are what you saw your parents do, without thinking about it..
So maybe you guys and women need to realize this.....

You need to change your pattern in looking for women or men....you can
not have your cake and eat it too....it can not go all one way.....

 

[a 1 player]

I'm better looking than any of those dudes.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

Womens is all about emotional blackmail. Reality as I see it is that woman want equality - until it doesn't serve them. Then many go on a weaker sex tirade.
Reminds my of that female reporter who insisted that she wanted to be in the locker room and then is shocked dismayed and offended that guys are walking in and out of the shower with their cocks hanging out.

I asked to cover s women's soccer team and they refused me access to the locker room because of "Privacy" Issues.

Damn it - should have taken it to the Human Rights Commission....

 

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[RAWD]

Womens is all about emotional blackmail. Reality as I see it is that woman want equality - until it doesn't serve them. Then many go on a weaker sex tirade.
Reminds my of that female reporter who insisted that she wanted to be in the locker room and then is shocked dismayed and offended that guys are walking in and out of the shower with their cocks hanging out.

I asked to cover s women's soccer team and they refused me access to the locker room because of "Privacy" Issues.

Damn it - should have taken it to the Human Rights Commission....

JQ - yah! That's why iI say that women have the best of both worlds now!

To answer Bliss, part of the reason why men are f-ed up is that we don't know what the hell women want from us half the time.

 

[a 1 player]

To answer Bliss, part of the reason why men are f-ed up is that we don't know what the hell women want from us half the time.

Respectfully disagree.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

To answer Bliss, part of the reason why men are f-ed up is that we don't know what the hell women want from us half the time.

I disagree too. I know what they want but am not willing to give it.
I like having testicles.

 

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I disagree too. I know what they want but am not willing to give it.
I like having testicles.

What do women want?
Why would you lose your testicles?

We all, men and women have different wants and needs.....
I know what I WOULD like in a partner.....but I realize that I will
never find that person...I need to look inside myself for those needs
and not count on finding it in an individual....if I do great ....does not
mean that I won't love another person.

Men have not really changed in the way they feel that they are in charge.
They still do not do most of the house work, not listen or share etc....
While women are working, doing house work, picking up and taking the children
to daycare, school, programs..etc....When you have a person with lack of sleep,
has no time for themselves, on the go constantly what do you think will happen...

Some of you guys may have shared these chores but the major population of men have not.
When you guys are crying in your beds sick with the flu and your wife has it too, who is watching
the children and keeping the home going?:biggrin2: Not the Easter Bunny:-Cool/"

 

[a 1 player]

Men have not really changed in the way they feel that they are in charge.
They still do not do most of the house work, not listen or share etc....
While women are working, doing house work, picking up and taking the children
to daycare, school, programs..etc....When you have a person with lack of sleep,
has no time for themselves, on the go constantly what do you think will happen...

I actually agree with this. Amazingly.

There does have to be a balance though, of work and fun.

 

[Jesus Quintana]

I peeled this from another board and this in my book typifies what women want.

" I think it's really scary to know that men don't have the right to defend their women... especially in their own homes. "

Screw it - why shouldn't a man sit back and let the woman defend him?
Automatic fall back position "Hide behind a man".
We're all equal, right?