What is fat to you Guys????

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I know a loaded question.
I am just trying to understand what size men really
like.

Most women do not look at size but more personality....
If you listen to tboy ....Money....:LMAO: and child production....:LMAO:

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[tboy]

Most women look at personality? Please tell me you don't really believe that do you? Maybe in other women but I have not yet met a single human being (male or female) who doesn't look at how a person looks first and foremost. Now everyone is different, some like big, some like small some like big boobs some little boobs.

Now to define what is "fat".....fat is any amount of excess weight a person carries. I think the meyers (is that the name?) BMI index states that anything over 5% for men and 10% on women is "fat".

As the saying once said "if you can pinch more than an inch" that's fat.

Now whether or not that is attractive to someone, that is 100% subjective. I for one prefer thinner women because, it is much easier to get a woman to GAIN weight than it is to get her to lose it......

(btw, before anyone starts things like: you aint' no gq yourself, I will say this: when I was 21, I had a 30" waist, 30 yrs later I've got a 32")

 

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[peace]

ps. I'm 34.

 

[Guido]

Fat maybe but I would still do her in a heart beat!

Fat and flabby, she would have a 3 beer minimum for me to do her!

I have a 38 inch waist and I'm not telling anyone my age!

 

[Admiral]

You are such a Boing :NoNoNo:

 

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I do believe women look at personality....
Does not mean they marry the guy....:LMAO:
I agree with it is a personal choice....the size of the woman....
Now the woman that Boing likes...Well I have issues with her size but all the women
I posted I would do..... Somebody that unhealthy I would have issues....if sex was involved....

 

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[jumpingjackflash]

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Ok these

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Ok these

Sure why not?

20 years ago or so I would have said no way but now I see beauty where I didn't before.

 

[Dan]

Ok these

Yes to all 3 in a heart beat!

 

[tboy]

Sure why not?

20 years ago or so I would have said no way but now I see beauty where I didn't before.

Now, I don't think "beauty" is what is being asked here....I think the original question was "what to us is "fat""......I've seen some truly beautiful plus sized women but they are rare...most overweight people are that way simply because they (for whatever reason) just stopped taking care of themselves. I know I know, children, but IMO that's BS. I've known quite a few women who have had children and they returned to their natural size after giving birth. I've also known women who let themselves go to pot and increased their size by another 50% (in one case 100%)....I have read that that is because prior, they see themselves as a "sexual" being to catch, keep, and please a man...after childbirth they see themselves as a mother and must retain weight in order to feed the newborn during harsh times (nevermind the fact that we haven't had harsh times since the 20s). By harsh times I mean back when we lived in the forest and during the winter food was scarce.....we've long since moved out of the forest and food is readily available almost everywhere...in some cases, FREE.

Personally, I don't find plus sized women compatible. I'm 175 lbs, 5'8" and it doesn't "feel" right, being with someone who is 25% larger than I am. If I can't put my arms around her, she's too big. I use a sort of "rule of thumb": if she can't fit her ass into my jeans, I'll pass......not that they have to fit her perfectly, but if her butt is too big for my jeans, it's too big for me.......

Nevermind the fact that when she lies in bed, the mattress tilts to her side and I have to spend the whole night holding myself on my side....I just don't like fighting gravity......

 

[a 1 player]

Personally I like a few extra pounds on a woman, but that does not mean obese.