bobistheowl
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I dated an Exotic dancer for a few months in 1991-92, went on one date with another, (who didn't date guys while she was dancing), and was good friends with another one for about three years, until she moved to Vancouver. These were all civilian dates, not take out.
I don't think I'd want to be dating an active MPA or Escort, but if she was retired, I'd have no problem with it. I don't think a woman's past sexual history is any of a man's business, unless there she has children, or a sexually transmitted disease. Those are the two things a man should know about.
I'd find it hypocritical to thing less of a woman, because she charges for company. I have a lower opinion of the woman who'll give a blow job to any guy who'll buy her a lobster dinner.
The ex-Escort would likely be sexually adventurous, and less inhibited, than an average civvie woman, not from Montreal. I'd just not want to date her during her career, unless it's a few hours at a time. It would be a bit awkward saying "Hi, honey, how was your day?", and getting a full answer.
Hypothetical: Dating an ex-Escort, she sees a former client, in a public place, and tells me. I'd ask "Did he treat you well?" if she said yes, I'd say "Invite him over". If he declines, he can watch her give away what he had to pay for. If he comes over, maybe we become friends, because we have common standards.
The dancer who was my friend for three years suggested we go out sometime. I took her to the guys' Tuesday night poker game, bought her $40 dollars of chips, and gave her cab fare home, for whenever she'd had enough She could keep any money she had left, when she called it a night. I just introduced her to the other players, but didn't tell them how I knew her.
She played for about two hours, but wasn't very good; she only knew black jack, and we were playing games like Omaha, High Chicago, Hi-Lo Piccolo, Fiery Cross, and The Black and Red Game.
She told me later that she had a commonlaw husband. She hadn't been deceiving me, it was just a cultural difference, she was from Costa Rica, and they have different sexual attitudes there. She just wanted to go out with me sometime, not to have a relationship, but just an outing, outside of the club.
I was a house guest many times, and attended her daughters' birthday parties a few times. She just didn't know many people that weren't work associates, and many of them were rivals.
Her common law husband was a great guy, who spoke no English whatsoever. He knew how she knew me, but I'd treated her well, and contributed to their family income. Maybe he felt that her time spent with me was better than time she would have spent with another guy, who thought less of her.
I have a nice photograph of her, from a modelling portfolio, with an inscription on the back in Spanish. None of you guys are ever going to see it.
I don't think I'd want to be dating an active MPA or Escort, but if she was retired, I'd have no problem with it. I don't think a woman's past sexual history is any of a man's business, unless there she has children, or a sexually transmitted disease. Those are the two things a man should know about.
I'd find it hypocritical to thing less of a woman, because she charges for company. I have a lower opinion of the woman who'll give a blow job to any guy who'll buy her a lobster dinner.
The ex-Escort would likely be sexually adventurous, and less inhibited, than an average civvie woman, not from Montreal. I'd just not want to date her during her career, unless it's a few hours at a time. It would be a bit awkward saying "Hi, honey, how was your day?", and getting a full answer.
Hypothetical: Dating an ex-Escort, she sees a former client, in a public place, and tells me. I'd ask "Did he treat you well?" if she said yes, I'd say "Invite him over". If he declines, he can watch her give away what he had to pay for. If he comes over, maybe we become friends, because we have common standards.
The dancer who was my friend for three years suggested we go out sometime. I took her to the guys' Tuesday night poker game, bought her $40 dollars of chips, and gave her cab fare home, for whenever she'd had enough She could keep any money she had left, when she called it a night. I just introduced her to the other players, but didn't tell them how I knew her.
She played for about two hours, but wasn't very good; she only knew black jack, and we were playing games like Omaha, High Chicago, Hi-Lo Piccolo, Fiery Cross, and The Black and Red Game.
She told me later that she had a commonlaw husband. She hadn't been deceiving me, it was just a cultural difference, she was from Costa Rica, and they have different sexual attitudes there. She just wanted to go out with me sometime, not to have a relationship, but just an outing, outside of the club.
I was a house guest many times, and attended her daughters' birthday parties a few times. She just didn't know many people that weren't work associates, and many of them were rivals.
Her common law husband was a great guy, who spoke no English whatsoever. He knew how she knew me, but I'd treated her well, and contributed to their family income. Maybe he felt that her time spent with me was better than time she would have spent with another guy, who thought less of her.
I have a nice photograph of her, from a modelling portfolio, with an inscription on the back in Spanish. None of you guys are ever going to see it.
