Would you prefer to date an MPA, STRIPPER OR SP?

[Robintheboywonder]

First off would you consider a serious relationship with a professional, if yes which one of the three would you prefer??

I would have no issue if we both felt the same way about one another and I'd prefer a stripper, only because she doesn't have to do more than a lap dance.

 

[papasmerf]

Way too general a question to answer to answer.

I suppose if that is all the info I have before I need to decide I will take the one with the highest net worth

 

[Baz]

I would never feel comfortable knowing my spouse will be in the arms of another man during her work hours. I don't believe a proper relationship can be fostered under these work conditions. Relationships demand trust and fidelity from both partners which in the case of a sex worker in any field fidelity is not at all part of the equation.

 

[oldguyzer]

I have had serious, extended relationships with all three. Some left the business when we dated, others stayed in it. I never had an issue confusing "work" with "personal", and none of the ladies had an issue either. I found a level of honesty and forth-rightedness in those relationships I didn't get from ladies not in the business.

 

[JessieJames]

I have had serious, extended relationships with all three. Some left the business when we dated, others stayed in it. I never had an issue confusing "work" with "personal", and none of the ladies had an issue either. I found a level of honesty and forth-rightedness in those relationships I didn't get from ladies not in the business.

Do you believe they are real relationships or is it more of a sugar daddy status??

 

[oldguyzer]

I would never feel comfortable knowing my spouse will be in the arms of another man during her work hours. I don't believe a proper relationship can be fostered under these work conditions. Relationships demand trust and fidelity from both partners which in the case of a sex worker in any field fidelity is not at all part of the equation.

Trust is vitally important, yes, but the relationship with someone in the business is completely about trust, whereas those outside the business are much more likely to be untrustworthy.

Fidelity has to be defined in each relationship with someone in the business as to what it means. In the end, most men are too insecure to be with someone in the business, worried that they might "enjoy" themselves more with a customer than with their mate. Self-confidence is a total necessaity for any male in a relationship with some lady in the business, and also a willingness to trust completely. Not to do either means the relationship will fail. That ends up with very strong relationships, if that can be achieved.

Ladies in the business, what say you? Would you be in a relationship with someone who was a customer?

 

[oldguyzer]

Do you believe they are real relationships or is it more of a sugar daddy status??

Without doubt, one or two have been (willing) sugar daddy status, but that was understood by both from the start. The "real" relationships have been real. And have lasted, on average, several years. Typically, they end for reasons not to do with their business, but mine: I work crazy hours and am away from home, sometimes for months. That's tough on any relationship.

 

[ConquerorRyan]

All 3... at the same time

 

[User-E]

All 3... at the same time

Ryan!! Long time no see. :BigHug:

 

[Louis XIV]

I'd have no problem having a serious relationship with any of the above. My wife however, although she's fine with me seeing SPs, would frown on anything outside the typical business transaction.

 

[User-E]

I'd have no problem having a serious relationship with any of the above. My wife however, although she's fine with me seeing SPs, would frown on anything outside the typical business transaction.

How did you convince her to let you see SP's?! You're a very lucky man.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Like OG I have had relationships with all three.

I had a friend who used to manage a strip joint who cajoled me into working as a bouncer on Sunday nights. My GF at the time wanted Sunday nights to be her night and I wasn't included,lol. So I figured this was the perfect way to piss her off. When we broke up some time later I increase my time there to 3 nights a week. Oh and did I mention that for me this place was cash cow. I was basically running the floor. Want to have a stag party there, pay me. Want to get in without ID, pay me. Want to get set up in the back with a high mileage girl,pay me. The owners treated the staff just chattels so When all the coat check and cover charge girls quit they thought they would save money by expanding my duties without any increase in pay,lol. Wasn't too hard to start a nightly skim for myself and the other oppressed employees.

Worked there for 7 years and ''dated'' a fair number of the hired talent. Used to really look forward to Every second Sunday because that is when the agency from Montreal would send a new batch down to freelance. Brushed up on French pretty quick,lol

About a year later I was dating this girl when she informed me that she used to be a MPA. After I picked myself off the floor she told me that she would like my blessing to go back into the biz. I thought it over and capitulated. She landed at a MP near the Yorkdale Mall and was very well reviewed on the red board. She is now a part time SP and although we are still very close we are not a couple. She is the one who told me about the boards and the red board in particular.

Another lady I was involved with for over a year started out as a feature dancer and ended up working for an agency based out of Boston. Because she had done a few porn films she was billed as a porn star SP. That one didn't end well.

I didn't have one problem with any of their career choices and supported them all as best as I could. But don't for a moment think that I'm saying these were normal functional relationships. Because they were not. The stress that their jobs had on them mentally took a huge toll on all of them. And as the years went by the cracks would get wider and wider. No what it was was the best ride on the midway. The highs were incredible but had an expiry date that isn't to far in the future.

 

[bolt.upright]

First off would you consider a serious relationship with a professional, if yes which one of the three would you prefer??

I would have no issue if we both felt the same way about one another and I'd prefer a stripper, only because she doesn't have to do more than a lap dance.

My wife won't let me have a relationship with any of them. Officially.

 

[Jasper]

I'd date the one with the nicest tits. :good:

 

[Kpoker28]

Trust is vitally important, yes, but the relationship with someone in the business is completely about trust, whereas those outside the business are much more likely to be untrustworthy.

Fidelity has to be defined in each relationship with someone in the business as to what it means. In the end, most men are too insecure to be with someone in the business, worried that they might "enjoy" themselves more with a customer than with their mate. Self-confidence is a total necessaity for any male in a relationship with some lady in the business, and also a willingness to trust completely. Not to do either means the relationship will fail. That ends up with very strong relationships, if that can be achieved.

Ladies in the business, what say you? Would you be in a relationship with someone who was a customer?

Very good points made here. The insecurity issue is something that I would definitely feel

I have a hard time seeing myself being able to date a stripper/MP/SP. But I can see myself going from just a client to being a close friend with one.

 

[Madman]

I would easily date any of the three, marrying never but that's more a case of never marrying anyone again. The other important thing would be the age, she would have to be over 35 so a certain level of maturity has set in.

 

[peace]

How could you say that if you keep thinking this way:

 

[Madman]

How could you say that if you keep thinking this way:

:don'twantto-see:/

 

[papasmerf]

I would easily date any of the three, marrying never but that's more a case of never marrying anyone again. The other important thing would be the age, she would have to be over 35 so a certain level of maturity has set in.

He must have really hurt you.

 

[peace]