I recently saw a client for a session, first time meeting this gentleman. When he showed up he was kind of creepy in terms of behaviour, but nothing I could really say was threatening in any way, so decided to continue with his appointment. A little light kissing and petting and I suggested he visit the facilities to freshen up so we could move things along, so to speak. When he returned in his towel, he was clearly 'excited', but when he disrobed I got the shock of my life! He had a lateral hook to his penis that was so accentuated I was suddenly worried about whether or not it would be too painful to engage in FS. My snap assessent was that it would, so told him we could try a wide variety of other activities to try and meet his needs, but that FS was out of the question for our date. He got so upset, and so aggressive that I actually got the feeling he actually really only wanted to do FS to deliberately hurt me. After a long angry rant (for such a little guy) he finally agreed to leave, offered no payment, and I didn't ask for anything either. Is it me or did this man have reason to be SO angry given the circumstances? (for the record, I've been a provider for 3 years and have never seen anything like this before) Have any other girls had this experience, and how did you handle it? Call me dazed and confuzed after this encounter....:shock:
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Wow, a dick that anchors itself once thrown into the pond. I can't say I blame you and his reaction of anger was probably due to the fact it probably has happened to him before.
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Not everyone is comfortable with genital piercings. He should have mentioned it to you at the start of the session. I have friends, both male and female that have them, and do mention that little fact before things are taken to a sexual level. His reaction was totally uncalled for, too. Douche.
One friend who has 5 piercings on his penis (a prince albert and 4 rings along the length) works for the Canadian Space Agency. When he travels, he warns airplane security that he WILL set off the metal detector.
One friend who has 5 piercings on his penis (a prince albert and 4 rings along the length) works for the Canadian Space Agency. When he travels, he warns airplane security that he WILL set off the metal detector.
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dreamblade said:
anon1 said:
I didn't think the OP was referring to genital piercings but instead a hooked penis.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peyronie's_disease
interesting story regarding genital piercings...
I was visiting Vancouver and my ex gf and I went to this nude beach near UBC. I am sort of conservative and kept my shorts on while my ex and many others were completely nude. Im not the type to lay down and worship the sun as I need to be active. Suddenly there was a pick up beach vball game going on. Of course, I joined.
Now I dont know about you but I definitely know i need something to hold my tesicles while diving, jumping, spiking and blocking the ball. I was the only one wearing shorts there but it didnt bother me at all. anyway, apparently one of the oppsoing players had these "rings" on his penis and balls.....I was shocked.....all i could do was stare at it and obviously he didnt appreciate it. I was thinking to myself....how could any guy do it...I mean isnt it painful and wouldn't it get in the way of having sex with someone. Even when the game was over and being oblivious to the score, i was still looking at it. I tried my best not to look at it but I just cant imagine anyone piercing his dick.
In case you want to tease me about this incident...go ahead....I will still hug you. Of course no ass grabbing except if you are a beautiful female.
I was visiting Vancouver and my ex gf and I went to this nude beach near UBC. I am sort of conservative and kept my shorts on while my ex and many others were completely nude. Im not the type to lay down and worship the sun as I need to be active. Suddenly there was a pick up beach vball game going on. Of course, I joined.
Now I dont know about you but I definitely know i need something to hold my tesicles while diving, jumping, spiking and blocking the ball. I was the only one wearing shorts there but it didnt bother me at all. anyway, apparently one of the oppsoing players had these "rings" on his penis and balls.....I was shocked.....all i could do was stare at it and obviously he didnt appreciate it. I was thinking to myself....how could any guy do it...I mean isnt it painful and wouldn't it get in the way of having sex with someone. Even when the game was over and being oblivious to the score, i was still looking at it. I tried my best not to look at it but I just cant imagine anyone piercing his dick.
In case you want to tease me about this incident...go ahead....I will still hug you. Of course no ass grabbing except if you are a beautiful female.
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I'm sorry, I should have been more clear - yes, it would seem that this fellow is suffering from something similar to the affliction referred to in the links posted above. In his case though, his penis curves drastically sideways to almost a 90 degree angle. I should mention he was of asian decent and his penis wasn't really all that long or very thick, which has typically been the case since I started in this business; it was just nature of the hook that gave me a scare. I had sudden visions of vaginal tearing or internal abrasions, not to mention being very apprehensive about the pain that might be involved during intercourse.
He was extremely angry, rude, and vaguely threatening, which as an independent was also somewhat intimidating, even if I did stand 4-5 inches taller than he. I guess I was just wondering what others think in terms of did I make too quick a judgement? Should I have at least tried to accomodate full service? Oral? Was he justified in his tirade?
I try to make sure every client gets what they're looking for, and am definitely no prude in bed, but safety is always top of mind especially when meeting new clients, and I'm still somewhat shocked at the nature and severity of his reaction....
He was extremely angry, rude, and vaguely threatening, which as an independent was also somewhat intimidating, even if I did stand 4-5 inches taller than he. I guess I was just wondering what others think in terms of did I make too quick a judgement? Should I have at least tried to accomodate full service? Oral? Was he justified in his tirade?
I try to make sure every client gets what they're looking for, and am definitely no prude in bed, but safety is always top of mind especially when meeting new clients, and I'm still somewhat shocked at the nature and severity of his reaction....
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Annabelle,
Your body, your rules. End of story. I have had women deny me over the years for some very odd reasons. I'm too big (stature wise), I look too scary, I'm too old, too young, I resemble someone they know... It's all good.
You have every right to deny a client for whatever reason you see fit, doubly so if you think there might be a chance of physical pain. Don't feel bad about it.
Your body, your rules. End of story. I have had women deny me over the years for some very odd reasons. I'm too big (stature wise), I look too scary, I'm too old, too young, I resemble someone they know... It's all good.
You have every right to deny a client for whatever reason you see fit, doubly so if you think there might be a chance of physical pain. Don't feel bad about it.
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dreamblade said:
LOL on the info.
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Annabelle,
Couldn't you have had sideways FS with him? I'm not making fun,honest question.
Couldn't you have had sideways FS with him? I'm not making fun,honest question.
Player is bang on and never feel you have to be coerced or forced into something you don't want to do.
However, with that being said, you do have to realize that it was quite a slap in the face to be rejected by an SP. I mean, you have to realize this guy has probably had problems his entire life and went to a "pro" in hopes of her being able to accommodate him.
To put it in perspective: how would you feel if a guy came to see you, you got undressed and when he saw your vagina he said "I can't do you because your vagina is too ugly"? or "I can't continue because you're too dumb to fuck"? I don't think you'd feel too good about it.
As for what oyster said: I was thinking the same thing. If he was so small, you couldn't at least have made an attempt?
(btw, it is also a royal pain in the ass for us to a) travel from wherever to an incall b) go through the secret password/phonecall to get the exact address c) get all ready d) maybe he dropped a V or other dick pill and now has to leave unfulfilled?
I should think a vertical hook in the penis would make for better G spot stimulation...I mean have you SEEN some of these vibrators??? (and women seem to love them!)
However, with that being said, you do have to realize that it was quite a slap in the face to be rejected by an SP. I mean, you have to realize this guy has probably had problems his entire life and went to a "pro" in hopes of her being able to accommodate him.
To put it in perspective: how would you feel if a guy came to see you, you got undressed and when he saw your vagina he said "I can't do you because your vagina is too ugly"? or "I can't continue because you're too dumb to fuck"? I don't think you'd feel too good about it.
As for what oyster said: I was thinking the same thing. If he was so small, you couldn't at least have made an attempt?
(btw, it is also a royal pain in the ass for us to a) travel from wherever to an incall b) go through the secret password/phonecall to get the exact address c) get all ready d) maybe he dropped a V or other dick pill and now has to leave unfulfilled?
I should think a vertical hook in the penis would make for better G spot stimulation...I mean have you SEEN some of these vibrators??? (and women seem to love them!)
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Very well said A1!
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tboy said:
She said lateral, meaning pointing sideways "almost 90 degrees".
"asian decent and his penis wasn't really all that long or very thick"
LOL are you saying only asian guys have penises that aren't very long or thick? LOL
In terms of his reaction, I don't think he was right in reacting that way. Nor was I there to see just how bad or frightening it was.
Not to defend or justify his reaction but lets assume the look of shock and weirded-out reaction is quite normal for this guy - in civilian life. I'm going to assume the guy probably has some serious insecurities about disrobing and the reactions he gets.
Again, I'm NOT saying his actions were justified but put it in context, there may be some understanding as to his reaction.
FTR, I'm NOT this guy.
LOL are you saying only asian guys have penises that aren't very long or thick? LOL
In terms of his reaction, I don't think he was right in reacting that way. Nor was I there to see just how bad or frightening it was.
Not to defend or justify his reaction but lets assume the look of shock and weirded-out reaction is quite normal for this guy - in civilian life. I'm going to assume the guy probably has some serious insecurities about disrobing and the reactions he gets.
Again, I'm NOT saying his actions were justified but put it in context, there may be some understanding as to his reaction.
FTR, I'm NOT this guy.
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I know, which is why I agreed with you and doing it sideways, with his "hook" pointing up, would make for better G spot stimulation......(ie: if he hooked to the right, he'd lie on his left side, and if he hooked to the left, he'd lie on his right....)
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Any other sp have seen this man or have similar stories?.
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