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If your wife is overweight, it might be time to consider having an affair.



That's the message in two new advertisements from Ashley Madison, a website that encourages extramarital affairs.
The two ads recently ran in New York newspapers. Both feature the same overweight model dressed scantily in black underwear and a red bra.

The first ad, published just after Halloween, had a large picture of the woman with the words, "Did your wife scare you last night?" At the bottom of the ad was the website's tagline: Life is short. Have an affair.

On Tuesday, a second ad ran with the words, "We call it as we see it." It shows a thin model with a green check mark beside her, then the same overweight model with a red x beside her. Both models are dressed in similar outfits.
The overweight model wrote a post for the website Jezebel.com to acknowledge she's the woman in the ads.
But the woman, identified as Jacqueline, didn't approve of her photo being used by Ashley Madison.

"Years ago, before my modelling career began in earnest, a photographer friend of mine arranged an informal photo session. I was under the impression at the time that people purchasing these photos from the photographer would be doing so for their own personal use. I had no idea that the photographer would endeavour to sell the photos to corporations and/or stock photo companies, who would then go on, repeatedly, to use them in rude and mocking ways," she wrote.

"I am mortified that my image and likeness would be used as advertisement for two things I am so vehemently against: namely cheating and, to an even greater extent, body shaming."

Ashley Madison founder and CEO Noel Biderman told Jezebel.com Jacqueline, who runs an adult website featuring larger women, is getting "great publicity from all this."

"The best thing that could've happened to this woman is that we used her in our ad. Despite what she may want you to think, she is reaping the press for her own pornography website. She took these pictures and signed the release knowing that they were not just for 'personal use,'" his statement said.

Critics have taken to blogs, websites and the company's Facebook page.
"Your new advertisements are disgusting and degrading to women of any size," Kiki Lestrange Ariadne wrote. "These new advertisements don't show a scary woman at all. All they do is showcase this pathetic excuse for a company."

A man named Julio Sandes suggested the company should "respect the beautyness (sic) there is in every women's (sic) body, not produce shame and pain with your propaganda."



 
I heard they tried to get Andrea Bargnani to be their spokeman at one time LOL.
 
Catchy headline . . . but misleading

Interesting read, nonetheless

“I’m trying to put Ashley Madison out of business,” said Prof. Anderson, who teaches at the University of Winchester in England and is also “Chief Science Officer” for the Toronto-based dating website, which facilitates extramarital affairs. “I don’t think I’m going to win this war. I think the dominant culture is doing just fine in stigmatizing people who want sex outside of their relationship as perverts. But my goal really is to put Ashley Madison out of business.”

In the meantime, his job as chief science officer is to promote Ashley Madison by offering other researchers free access to its subscription data and chat records, so they too can probe the mysteries of online infidelity. His success in this role has landed him smack in the middle of social science’s credibility crisis.

On Monday, Prof. Anderson will present a paper at the American Sociological Association conference in San Francisco whose title borrows Ashley Madison’s slogan: “Life is Short, Have an Affair: Middle-Age Women and Extra-Marital Affairs.”
. . .

As a piece of marketing bumph, focused on women in particular, the paper fits with Ashley Madison’s priorities. The company’s image was recently threatened, for example, by a lawsuit from an ex employee who alleged she was ordered to create fake profiles of women to attract men as customers. From that perspective, hiring an academic to present friendly research about female customers at a serious conference makes good business sense.

As proper science, however, the acceptance of this business-friendly research (it was promoted as a conference highlight) reveals the awkwardness of social science’s unique perch in academia, halfway between the humanities and traditional science.

It is a particularly bothersome problem given the current state of social science research, which is in a great credibility crisis. Part of this is the so-called replication crisis, in which many of social psychology’s experimental findings are starting to look like unrepeatable one-offs, a problem foreseen in 2012 by Nobel Laureate Daniel Kahneman, who warned of a “train wreck looming” unless stricter research methods are adopted. Part of it is the difficulty of proving deep and complex theories about human social behaviour using the traditional tools of statistical analysis. And part of it is the ease by which bogus research can be passed off as legitimate science.

In such a climate, letting hucksters into academic conferences to promote their employer’s sex websites with half-baked research on subscription data seems likely to make everything worse.

One leading sociologist who is attending the ASA conference, for example, dismissed the Ashley Madison research as “unethical,” “ridiculous” “crap.”

“This is not research,” said Robert Andersen, chair of sociology at the University of Toronto. “It is embarrassing for serious sociologists to see this crap. It wasn’t published for good reason.”
 
No shit.

It is embarrassing for serious sociologists to see this crap. It wasn’t published for good reason.”
 
Kudos to their integrity.


The paper was not peer reviewed, and was rejected for publication by the American Sociological Review.
 
Online cheaters exposed after hackers access AshleyMadison hookup site - The Washington Post
 
[h=1]Ashley Madison, infamous infidelity website, target of data hack[/h]
[h=3]Hackers claim to have real names, nude photos and credit card info of Ashley Madison users[/h]
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https://www.cbc.ca/news/business/as...idelity-website-target-of-data-hack-1.3159643
 
Boing said:
He got pissed off for $19 measly dollars.

They made a profit of 1.8 million or so and they never kept their end of the bargain. It is wrong what they are doing but then send the senior officers to jail for fraud.
 
You thought ISIS was nasty?

Even its outrages must look pretty tame right now for the 37 million clients of Ashley Madison.
The Toronto-based adultery website has been hacked by cyber-terrorists who threatened to release megabytes of juicy personal info if the site does not shut down. Just what we need, another terror tactic. Infideliterrorism.

Now you know why your spouse looks pale and twitchy.

But what if you are among those 37 million cheaters? What do you do now? After you’ve changed your shorts, I mean, and booked the next flight to Upper Mongolia.
“Come clean,” advises my life coach, Robin H-C. “Truth is always the best approach.”

In fact, the cyber crisis might even be “a great wakeup call” for a couple, says Ms. H-C, author of Life’s in Session.
“They may decide they’re done — or they may find a way back to each other by talking through things that have been suppressed.”
Easier said.

“This is seriously life threatening,” e-mails Sarah, 32, an Ashley Madison member and a married mom.
“Concerned?” she writes. “Terrified!

“My life would be destroyed if it came out. I’m sure quite a few people are panicking today.”
Bob, 45, calls from York Region to tell me, ruefully, “it was just a matter of time. Any website is hackable.”

Bob ought to know. He’s an IT guy — and an Ashley Madison member. He has used the site for a month, thus far without success, which may turn out to be a blessing.
“So I haven’t actually cheated on my wife.” Yet. “I love her, but there are certain things severely lacking. I hate to say it, but life really is short.”

He says he’ll fess up — if she confronts him. “Maybe that’ll be the best thing ever,” he says.
On the other hand, “I’ve been looking online for the last 20 minutes. I can’t find the (hacked) data.”

Well, Ashley Madison says it has plugged the leaks.
“Right. After the bank is robbed, they put in better locks. How reassuring is that?
“My information is still out there.”
So you’ll quit the site?

“I’m debating it,” says Bob. “I will take down my photos.” He’s already registered under a fake name.
Frankly, I’d change my postal code, too. To somewhere in Antarctica.

Avid Life Media, which runs Ashley Madison, confirmed the breach but said, “we have been able to secure our sites, and close the unauthorized access points. We are working with law enforcement agencies, which are investigating this criminal act. Any and all parties responsible for this act of cyber-terrorism will be held responsible.”

The hacker(s), call themselves “The Impact Team.” They claimed they had a “complete set of profiles” of Ashley Madison clients. They released a sample, and warned of more to come.
In a manifesto, reported by krebsonsecurity.com, the cyber pirates declare:

“Too bad for those men, they’re cheating dirtbags and deserve no such discretion.” The hackers also accuse Ashley Madison of holding on to “deleted” data.’
The website Monday waived the $19 deletion fee for members, which seems like closing the stable door after the stud got out.
“Cold comfort,” Bob from York Region calls it.

Details, details. The manifesto’s most chilling line: “With 37 million (Ashley Madison) members, mostly from the U.S. and Canada, a significant percentage of the population is about to have a very bad day, including many rich and powerful people.”

Get used to it, all you cheating dirtbags and anyone else looking for love by the byte.
Hacking is to websites what cellphone cameras were to Rob Ford — impossible to avoid.

Hackers have hobbled NATO, NASA, the UN, the New York Times, the Canadian government, the CIA and entire nations such as Estonia.
So what chance do a bunch of adulterers stand?
Their online photos, fantasies and financial records are hacker heaven.
Ashley Madison is not the first target and won’t be the last.

In May, Adult FriendFinder’s 3.9 million clients had their names and “secret” thoughts exposed by a hacker who offered to sell the data base for a measly $15,000.
So are hookup websites doomed?
Not so fast.

In my experience, hormones trump hackers any day.
Strobel’s column usually runs Monday to Thursday. Hear him on 94.9 The Rock FM Tuesday and Thursday mornings. [email protected]



https://www.torontosun.com/2015/07/20/panic-sweeps-the-cheats
 
Wanker said:
You thought ISIS was nasty?

Even its outrages must look pretty tame right now for the 37 million clients of Ashley Madison.
The Toronto-based adultery website has been hacked by cyber-terrorists who threatened to release megabytes of juicy personal info if the site does not shut down. Just what we need, another terror tactic. Infideliterrorism.

Now you know why your spouse looks pale and twitchy.

But what if you are among those 37 million cheaters? What do you do now? After you’ve changed your shorts, I mean, and booked the next flight to Upper Mongolia.
“Come clean,” advises my life coach, Robin H-C. “Truth is always the best approach.”


I'd say just the shear number of people is your biggest asset. With that many people on it, it's going to be a bitch to search through; and even if your name comes up, you can just say it's some guy with the same name as you. :biggrin2:
 
Mississauga man caught. He looked but never cheated :rofl!::rofl!:

He may be the unluckiest cheater of all time.
Some 37 million people around the world subscribe to the adultery service Ashley Madison.
Just two were outed on an infidelity blog after a hacker group calling itself Impact Team broke into the online matchmaker’s files and threatened to release customer names and intimate details about their sexual inclinations.

One was an American man from Brockton, a city in Plymouth County, Mass., with a population of just over 94,000.
The other man lives in Mississauga, in a two-storey brick house in one of the city’s typical cookie-cutter subdivisions where all the homes are packed too close together.

In an exclusive interview with the Toronto Sun, the Mississauga man said he looked, but never cheated.

“Sometimes, you’re just curious, looking for friends, but then it doesn’t necessarily appeal to you,” he said while standing on his front porch.
The Sun isn’t identifying the man because he didn’t choose to publicly release private information about himself.
He said he’s been a husband for 20 years.

He works in the city and has a young child.
He was clearly shocked and looked panicked while talking about the impact the release of his name has had on his life.
The hacked information from his profile suggested he likes to give and receive oral sex, “light kinky fun,” “erotic tickling” and “role playing.”
He denied he wrote any of these things.

He insisted he joined for titillating chat, and nothing more.
He said he joined AshleyMadison.com in 2010, stayed on for “two to three years,” then used the website’s “paid delete” option to have his profile removed for $19.

“I haven’t been on the site in a long, long time,” he said, adding he never expected something like a security breach to occur.
“Like I said, it is a stupid (website). You go just to see what is out there. It was pretty much a waste of time ... to join.”

The reverberations of the hack have been felt in bedrooms and bedroom communities around the world.
There are viral stories about couples whose marriages have been ruined after panicked cheaters confessed for fear they could be outed online.

Ashley Madison CEO Noel Biderman, whose company tagline is “Life is short. Have an affair,” has characterized the hack as an “act of cyber-terrorism.”
The man from Brockton — username Heavy 73 — had a “list of fantasies” that included “cuddling and hugging” and “likes to go slow.” Hackers leaked the information to show the kind of dirt they’ve gathered.

“I have only two personal interests on this site. Making sure that you are comfortable with me, should I be so fortunate to hold your attention and making sure I take the role of discretion to an artform. I mean, isn’t this why we are here, to be as discreet as possible?” reads his alleged profile posted on the infidelity blog.
The hookup hackstorm began in March when Adult FriendFinder was similarly attacked, revealing the sexual preferences, fetishes and dirty secrets of more than 3.5 million people worldwide.

As for Ashley Madison, the company has been a hotbed of controversy since its launch in 2001. Critics have accused owner Avid Life Media of creating “a business built on the back of broken hearts, ruined marriages and damaged families,” but Ashley Madison’s Biderman simply shrugs it off, noting it’s “just a platform” and people choose to commit adultery.

“My belief is that people use affairs to preserve their marriage,” Biderman has previously told media.
In 2012, ex-employee Doriana Silva tried to sue the company for $20 million for “repetitive stress injury” because she was allegedly assigned to create over 1,000 fake member profiles within a three-week period to attract paying customers. The company counter-sued, alleging fraud. In January, an Ontario Superior Court judge threw out the case without costs.

Meanwhile, the Mississauga man’s fate lies in whether the world will tell his wife first — or if he will.
“It’s not exactly a site where you meet honest people,” he said. “I noticed most of them — they were jokers. Some of them are scams as well.”
— With files from Terry Davidson
[email protected]

https://www.torontosun.com/2015/07/24/outed-ashley-madison-user-talks-to-sun
 
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