The Voice said:
So, my question is this. Do you work when you're not "working", and do you have an exit strategy from this biz?
Great question. I do work outside of this. I have a full-time mainstream business that I own and operate which keeps me busy. It is why sometimes I don't post or advertises for months on end. I get tied up with that and have no time to play in my side hobby, which is this.
For exit plan, I don't have one because I don't need one. My retirement plan is formulated based on my mainstream business, not this. I do this as more of a safe paid dating. The paid part keeps the emotional boundary between myself and my clients. I have no intentions of having a traditional committed relationship. I have always been very independent and lived alone most of my life. I have had serious relationships of course. A few actually and lasting years, but I don't think it is a road I want to go down again.
So as long as guys want me and I still want sex, I will continue to be available to a very select few of like-minded gentlemen.
Dier said:
How many Johns do you average a week?.
Hard question. Sometimes 1, 2, 3, Sometimes none. I will not see any clients this week for example but saw 4 last week. That is the most I have taken in a week though.
God said:
How often do you paint your toenails Funky & Music
I don't, my pedicurist does. :LMAO:
I prefer a french so every couple of week for a touch up.
Robintheboywonder said:
What are your retiring plans?. What would you like to do and where would you live?.
As stated above, I don't have a "retirement" plan for this industry. My overall "retirement" plans, would be to own property on the water. Something with an income property that I can host on something like Airbnb. Something I can rent when I want, and not when I don't want. A nice cozy little place with a yard big enough for a garden. Both veggie and flower.
I would also continue to travel like I do now. Which is one of my likes. I also like reading, going to a movie/show/concert. I am a pretty simple person. I love staying home, BBQing a great steak and hanging out listening to music. I also like sex of course. LOL
If I could live anywhere, I would live in Edinburgh, Scotland. I visited once and fell in love with old world charm of the place.
demien3k5 said:
You've mentioned in the past that outside of this industry you run a successful business. Do you run your SP services with the same business framework i.e. keeping the books, managing & recording costs/investments, filing taxes, etc.
My sense is that the successful SPs really take this side of the equations seriously.
Can you recommend FIN Services providers/tools that are industry friendly for those just starting out who want to do things right from the get go?
I do. It really only makes sense. Plus I rely on filed taxes for things like loans, mortgages, etc. I need to show a strong portfolio and every little bit helps. Plus, the amount of things I can expense is too good to pass up. Between my mainstream business and my side business, I basically claim everything in my life. Like everything. It is nice.
I don't do HST for this of course. I don't make enough to do so. But to anyone who worked full time, I would recommend this.
As for FIN services - I do use Square, Quickbooks Online and a small accounting firm out here. They do all my stuff, so my personal, my corp and this. They know and are non-judgmental women so I lucked out there I guess. I know that in the private forums, women have shared info on professionals who cater to the industry.
I don't use paypal for this and only use Square for one client. It connects to my quickbooks. I had my accountant set up the Chart of Accounts that pertain to me in this industry. I can then use the app or go online to enter info. I have a CC that is used strictly for this and a bank account that is used strictly for this. Which both connect to my Quickbooks account as well. Then I have the accountant reconcile for me once a year. Although if I start touring more, I will up that to semi-annually or even quarterly if need be.
Prim0 said:
This is probably different for every SP but.............How do you prefer to dress for a session? Do you like crazy outfits and role play, beautiful dresses, sexy lingerie and/or just casual street clothes?
If I were to make a request it would probably be for something sporty.....yoga pants and a sports bra are one of the sexiest outfits I can imagine.
I have done it all. I offer an attire request for clients. For first time visits without a request, I like a layered lingerie look if it is an incall. Something that can come off quick or slow depending on the clients' mood. If I know the client is always a little nervous or prefers the casual look, I will do that.
For outcall, I love to dress up. Cocktail dresses with lingerie underneath is a favourite because I feel that hidden naughty sexy feeling.
I don't do role play style outfits very often. I have but that was mostly when I was younger.
