Ask a HUBGFE Lady Thread....

[Jessica Rain]

yep still have the schedules lmao also my fault, all or nothing

WOW! I envy you. I could never in a million years.... LOL

One and done for me. I need a sandwich and a nap after a client. At least I should if the session went right, right??? :

 

[Guest]

WOW! I envy you. I could never in a million years.... LOL

One and done for me. I need a sandwich and a nap after a client. At least I should if the session went right, right??? :

yes omg!! not like i could cancel and say "i'm taking a nap and you can't stop me!!" though i wished it lol

unfortunately i turned into a machine after sessions which i'm sure all agency girls do--thats why there's a high burnout rate... amongst other high things lmao

if i had the guts and no bf, indy sounds like the way to go lol

 

[Jessica Rain]

yes omg!! not like i could cancel and say "i'm taking a nap and you can't stop me!!" though i wished it lol

unfortunately i turned into a machine after sessions which i'm sure all agency girls do--thats why there's a high burnout rate... amongst other high things lmao

if i had the guts and no bf, indy sounds like the way to go lol

I can see how the burn-out would be high for sure. It is such a catch 22.

I understand the agencies need for volume because that is where they make their money, but volume is hard on the girls.

Since this is an Ask a HUBGFE lady... let me ask you?

What do you find are the benefits of being an agency girl?

 

[The Voice]

I'm not answering for the ladies, but it's always been my impression that the agency route is more for ladies who are in it for the short term. The smart ones have a plan or goal and work towards that goal. There are also a lot of "part timers". Ladies who work a few shifts a week to get additional income from say an entry level office job.

As a client! I tend to prefer agency over Indies for pretty much the same reasons just in reverse. I get to meet strong focused women, or women who are as they are in real life and haven't adopted a SP persona yet.

 

[demien3k5]

The smart ones have a plan or goal and work towards that goal.

@Muckchelle This was kinda what I meant by 'successful' SPs - those that stay on point with the plan, achieve their goals and exit the industry to move on with real life. They don't become seduced by the cash and temptations of the lavish lifestyles that invariably create a vicious circle of earn-spend-earn more-spend more. Eventually, the spending outpaces the earning and life turns to shit.

Putting the right structures, processes, tools and partners in place, and pro-actively using them to their own advantage can really help many ladies from having to stay in the industry beyond the point where it becomes an impediment to pursuing other real life goals.

 

[LadyJacklyn]

On the indy side of things, I have only once seen 8 guys in a day, and I hated it. After 5 I become completely mechanical and detached and unable to focus. I will not do it. My sweet spot seems to be 3 or 4.

 

[Demonhunter]

@ This was kinda what I meant by 'successful' SPs - those that stay on point with the plan, achieve their goals and exit the industry to move on with real life. They don't become seduced by the cash and temptations of the lavish lifestyles that invariably create a vicious circle of earn-spend-earn more-spend more. Eventually, the spending outpaces the earning and life turns to shit.

Putting the right structures, processes, tools and partners in place, and pro-actively using them to their own advantage can really help many ladies from having to stay in the industry beyond the point where it becomes an impediment to pursuing other real life goals.

Not a very positive outlook on the industry. I’ve met more than a few ladies that live a “ real life” as an escort and feel it does not impede their lives quite the opposite it also enables them to achieve their goals.

 

[Jessica Rain]

On the indy side of things, I have only once seen 8 guys in a day, and I hated it. After 5 I become completely mechanical and detached and unable to focus. I will not do it. My sweet spot seems to be 3 or 4.

I still envy you. I had 4 total last week and I needed a week off! :LMAO:

 

[Jessica Rain]

It is surprising. :SayWhat?:

I normally don't have the time to take that many in a week and I prefer to see less personally. That whole needing a nap thing.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

yep still have the schedules lmao also my fault, all or nothing

Umm.......Wouldn't your nether regions get a wee bit sore at the end of the day?

 

[LadyJacklyn]

Lol I so hear you, I am a fan of naps. Mind you, if you didn't have a day job we'd probably be closer to the same volume I imagine. I have other projects I work on but they aren't very time consuming and I can do 'em from the hotel. :good:

It is surprising. :SayWhat?:

I normally don't have the time to take that many in a week and I prefer to see less personally. That whole needing a nap thing.

 

[Baz]

Muckshelle 8 a day, that is an incredible number. I'm sure the money was great but the work involved. I'm surprised at this point you're content with one partner but I'm happy for you.

 

[Guest]

Umm.......Wouldn't your nether regions get a wee bit sore at the end of the day?

oh fuck yeah thats why i rarely worked consecutive days! muck dealt with a lot of my shit when i was too sore to do anything after work lol that's love right there!!

@ This was kinda what I meant by 'successful' SPs - those that stay on point with the plan, achieve their goals and exit the industry to move on with real life. They don't become seduced by the cash and temptations of the lavish lifestyles that invariably create a vicious circle of earn-spend-earn more-spend more. Eventually, the spending outpaces the earning and life turns to shit.

i agree with some of this. it's not an easy job - takes a toll on you. maybe a lavish life is the "real life" they ever wanted to attain! i admire the indy girls that spend time advertising, safety, getting clients etc. it's a hard front to put up...... so i'd say the most successful SPs are the best fakers hahah tough but true

Since this is an Ask a HUBGFE lady... let me ask you?
What do you find are the benefits of being an agency girl?

ahhhh yeah i loved that you wrote HUBGFE lady not escort :good:

no time to make ads, photoshoot, booking, matching up schedules, security (hard when agency security isnt IN the condo though) or frankly, the money to begin all of that.
made a lot of friends bc the agency i was in had 3 girls in 1 condo so we helped each other with making beds, laundry, mental toll of leading a secret 2nd life.... this also leaves room for way too much drama! and stealing :don'twantto-see:/

medicine was always going to be my career but escorting made me mature in many ways that a regular job won't tbh

 

[Guest]

Muckshelle 8 a day, that is an incredible number. I'm sure the money was great but the work involved. I'm surprised at this point you're content with one partner but I'm happy for you.

i'm surprised too lol but i truly am and i think "rochelle" was a completely different person to "muckchelle"

 

[Wino]

Why do escorts insists on wearing wigs when we know they are fake and never looks good on them?.

 

[Guest]

Why do escorts insists on wearing wigs when we know they are fake and never looks good on them?.

hiding real hair colour to avoid being found, alopecia from chemo or maybe just personal preference and makes them feel pretty lol

 

[Madman]

oh fuck yeah thats why i rarely worked consecutive days! muck dealt with a lot of my shit when i was too sore to do anything after work lol that's love right there!!

Now that I've composed myself.

Good for Muck, nice to see he has patience and understanding. Plus the fact a young beautiful woman in enamored really didn't leave him much of a choice! Patience to land the hot fox is a must for us old sailors. I get it, I really do. :don'twantto-see:/

 

[Jessica Rain]

Why do escorts insists on wearing wigs when we know they are fake and never looks good on them?.

I habe no idea. I agree it makes no sense to me. Lol

bad real hair is always better then bad fake hair.

 

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We :good: have lovely ladies here such as ifyouseekamy, Muckchelle, Jessica. Where's escape from stress?