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I can have sex with a woman and not kiss them. But I cannot kiss them if I do not like them.
 
@Companions, excellent list of questions. Here are my answers.


What do you look for in an agency?

Bare minimum: Prompt professional responses and good customer service policies. Puts the safety of SPs and Clients above collecting the agency cut.

Above average: Can make good recommendations based on feedback on SPs and the types of questions I ask. Can also offer comparisons between SPs, eg. "this girl has more PSE feedback and that girl has more GFE feedback"

Excellent: When I reach this stage with an agency, they are no longer an agency to me anymore, but rather a fantasy match maker. I would feel comfortable describing my bucket list of fantasies and trust them to try their best to help fulfill them.


Do you trust glassware in an agency (say for mouthwash and water) or would you prefer disposable cups and water bottles?

No glassware please. Too much can go wrong and blood can go a long way at making a date a disaster.

When something goes wrong, what makes you feel better about it?


The agency is truly contrite (if it is their fault), sympathetic (when its not). Monetary compensation is not always necessary but always appreciated as it shows that the agency puts customer satisfaction high up in priority.

Would you like a bathrobe available for your use or would you prefer just towels?


Towels are fine. Bathrobe wouldn't stay on long enough to warrant the extra laundry.

If you were designing your dream agency, what would you do?


Start with a dream location. Decorate it tastefully and with some luxuries, for example, nice sound system, large shower, maybe a hot tub, etc. Partner up with good talent. Notice I said partner not hire as I believe the relationship between SPs and agencies is more a partnership than the typical employer/employee one. Have a good infrastructure, for example, drivers, bookers, security - all this stuff is behind the scenes but clients know when an agency has a good infrastructure because dates go so much more smoothly. Build up a good rapport with repeat clients. Be active on HUBGFE. Have ladies who are active on HUBGFE. Hold promos and contests occasionally to generate interest and promote the agency.

We're thinking about launching an "experiences" section, with things that are a little tougher to organize like Oasis dates, early morning with breakfast, late night with whiskey tastings - would you appreciate this?

I would likely never be able to partake, but I think this is an excellent way to promote the agency and the SPs. it might even help with the longer and overnight dates to have some activities lined up for the client and the SP of his/her choice.

How do you feel about selfies - do you think it takes away or adds to the experience?


Love selfies.

Do you use Snapchat? Twitter? Would you?

No. These types of apps tend to "blow up" the phone with notifications and for those who do not use a hobby phone, this can prove disastrous if they have not taken the steps necessary for discretion.*


And why is your mother's cooking always better?!


My father was the cook in my family, but I prefered my mother's cooking for every day meals because they were simple yet effective. Plus it was my mother who taught me how to cook.
 
"What do you look for in an agency?"

quick responses to email queries
having text messages as an option for contacting the agency.
detailed schedules that gives times available
an agency that doesn't time their girls too strictly (allows some leeway between dates).
accurate pictures
a nice variety of different ladies and some details about their height, age, measurements, background, hair colour etc.
I like the fact that GOE's state if the lady is enhanced or not
having the schedule for the coming week up before Sunday in case I'd like to see someone on Monday.
an incall option
links to reviews of the ladies

"Do you trust glassware in an agency (say for mouthwash and water) or would you prefer disposable cups and water bottles?"

Disposable probably better...

"When something goes wrong, what makes you feel better about it?"

an apology; the offer of a discount in some cases (e.g., one agency offered $50 off because the traffic was so bad the lady was an hour late
if there are delays, an update is good

"Would you like a bathrobe available for your use or would you prefer just towels?"

No probably not. No real need in most cases however, the only exception is if the incall site is in a condo and one has to cross the hall from the bathroom (not an ensuite), then perhaps a fresh robe would be nice as an option for the quick run across the hallway.

"If you were designing your dream agency, what would you do?"

I've used 2 or 3 agencies (e.g., Toronto Passions & Garden of Eden) that I have found very good and not sure what I can add. I like GOE's detailed schedule and availability during the day. Having an incall location is important as I don't have my own place in the city. Both had incall sites. I like Toronto Passions for their use of hotels. It was always a bit of an adventure to see where the girl would be located, and I got to know some great hotels in the city (and some not so good hotels as well). The GOE have their own incall site at one point was near where my daughter worked, but fortunately, both moved.

"We're thinking about launching an "experiences" section, with things that are a little tougher to organize like Oasis dates, early morning with breakfast, late night with whiskey tastings - would you appreciate this?"

I might... not sure. Maybe lunch dates with sandwiches, lol.

"How do you feel about selfies - do you think it takes away or adds to the experience?"

I prefer professional photographs that bring out the beauty of the lady.

"Do you use Snapchat? Twitter? Would you?"

Hardly even use Twitter, never Snapchat.

"And why is your mother's cooking always better?!"

I actually cook better then my mother, lol... except for bread... her homemade bread was phenomenally good.
 
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That is quite a laundry list of questions. Congratulations for trying to get some feedback!
Sorry not sorry! I can help awesome women find great men, but you guys are what made my time as a companion incredible, and HUBGFE guys specifically - I think I was in the first 20 people to join this site? I remember the conversations about starting it... Duh I'm going to ask.

I agree on the stockings needing to line up (and I looooove stockings). Laundry would never be out, and we have a fairly boutique incall so it's not an issue. As we learn and grow, I'll be very aware of it. I think that applies to garbage cans as well.

I went with "don't lie about weight or stats" and "let her choose her own age". Nothing is off or unexpected and if anything, women are better IRL. They're tricky because everyone else lies... but I figure if we're honest and can be better than you expect us to be, then you'll know how sincere and invested I am in this.

I need to up my website game, we have big improvements coming.
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If you could fight 100 duck sized horses and 1 horse sized duck, what would you choose? Is there anything else I can do that would encourage you to try us out?
 
We'll play because I have a lot of questions I want to ask and this is the perfect audience:

What do you look for in an agency?

I'll forgo the obvious (the ladies) answer. Honest and helpful communication is probably the biggest thing. Also for me a downtown incall location is a must.

Do you trust glassware in an agency (say for mouthwash and water) or would you prefer disposable cups and water bottles?

For water or wine glassware is fine. To keep things simple disposable is probably easier. Absolutely shoul be disposable for mouthwash though.


When something goes wrong, what makes you feel better about it

If the agency tries to fix the problem that's the biggest thing. At this point in my hobby career I expect things to go wrong and try not to let it bother me. If the lady has to cancel let me in know as soon as possible and try to offer alternatives (another lady or another date or time.) Somethings are out of your control but when it's your mistake (like losing a prebook) own it. Some token is nice but not always required. It does show that you recognize the inconvenience to the client in a material way. [VINE][/VINE]

Mentioned communication earlier but it's important enough to me to bring up again. If the lady is late and won't be able to start until 20-30 mins later than scheduled don't wait until I'm at the location. Nothing worse than hanging out in the lobby or outside on the street looking shady. Hate getting strung along and being told "almost ready 5 minutes more" for half an hour.

Delays happen but frequently the agency knows we'll in advance that you won't start on time but do not want to say anything. If the last 2 appointments started 30 minutes late your not going to miraculously make up the time. I'd rather be told that my start time has to be adjusted. I think the agency is worried that a client may cancel if the time gets bumped and figures once you've arrived you're invested and won't leave. At that point the "almost ready" game starts. The issue they don't realize is that you could end up with an angry and irate client and the lady has to deal with them in person. Bad situation to put your staff in.


Would you like a bathrobe available for your use or would you prefer just towels?

Had it once and it was nice. Wouldn't say it's a requirement though.


If you were designing your dream agency, what would you do?

We're thinking about launching an "experiences" section, with things that are a little tougher to organize like Oasis dates, early morning with breakfast, late night with whiskey tastings - would you appreciate this?

Could be fun. Something I'd consider for a lady I've visited several times and had a good rapport with.

How do you feel about selfies - do you think it takes away or adds to the experience?

I like them.


Do you use Snapchat? Twitter? Would you?

Twitter yes but infrequently check my timeline anymore. Mostly used for DMs now.

And why is your mother's cooking always better?!

My mother's cooking is terrible lol. My dad worked in kitchens and did all the cooking when he was still with us. I do a poor job at Christmas dinner in comparison.
 
@Companions, excellent list of questions. Here are my answers.

Thanks! I'm trying to earn your business, not today but 6 months, and a year from now

That's a really low minimum to set. I can provide feedback, but it's always strange given that I know these women so well - maybe I should ask more pointed questions (do you care about gorgeous versus more open-minded? Should she be smart and eloquent? I'm lucky that right now this is isn't an issue, but I imagine it might be).

I think I made your dream agency, except I don't have the same showering facilities because it's my third week and I can't afford those extras (YET). I'm about to introduce a new sound system that hooks up with your personal spotify :) And now we have a charger for everyone's phone (important), water, and refreshments available with freshly baked goodies and whatever else.

For issues, we are open and offer easy discounts when something goes wrong.

I hope we an earn your patronage as we move forward. We're looking to build something that's as much of a tribute to the clients as the women who hire us.

- Becky
 
"What do you look for in an agency?"

quick responses to email queries
having text messages as an option for contacting the agency.
detailed schedules that gives times available
an agency that doesn't time their girls too strictly (allows some leeway between dates).
accurate pictures
a nice variety of different ladies and some details about their height, age, measurements, background, hair colour etc.
I like the fact that GOE's state if the lady is enhanced or notlinks to reviews of the ladies
Done done done done and done
having the schedule for the coming week up before Sunday in case I'd like to see someone on Monday.
an incall option
I'll get on this. I usually know if you text me.

Duly noted on everything else, I've added the things I missed to my notes and I look forward to offering and even better experience for HUBGFE clients.

Becky
 
"What do you look for in an agency?"


Done done done done and done

I'll get on this. I usually know if you text me.

Duly noted on everything else, I've added the things I missed to my notes and I look forward to offering and even better experience for HUBGFE clients.

Becky

thanks

"or notlinks to reviews of the ladies"

by the way should have been "noting links to reviews of the ladies"

typo
 
@Bolt, Fuggy, the Voice and tunderin Jesus(or as he's better known Dilligaf:)-thanks for your responses. I can have sex with those I have no connection with, physically or emotionally, but I find kissing to be an emotional exchange. I'd have to connect with a man on an emotional level in order to kiss him passionately.
 
Thanks! I'm trying to earn your business, not today but 6 months, and a year from now

That's a really low minimum to set. I can provide feedback, but it's always strange given that I know these women so well - maybe I should ask more pointed questions (do you care about gorgeous versus more open-minded? Should she be smart and eloquent? I'm lucky that right now this is isn't an issue, but I imagine it might be).

I think I made your dream agency, except I don't have the same showering facilities because it's my third week and I can't afford those extras (YET). I'm about to introduce a new sound system that hooks up with your personal spotify :) And now we have a charger for everyone's phone (important), water, and refreshments available with freshly baked goodies and whatever else.

For issues, we are open and offer easy discounts when something goes wrong.

I hope we an earn your patronage as we move forward. We're looking to build something that's as much of a tribute to the clients as the women who hire us.

- Becky

Well you certainly have my attention. My bare minimum is low because at the end of the day, the hobby is a hobby and if an agency can't even meet the minimum, they will have lost my business. For example, I've recently cut out an agency that I've used for years because they no longer meet the minimum. I do have one agency that has reached the excellent stage. For the record, it's not a competition between agencies. I see this biz as one big pool that we all play in. As for the incall, I'm liking that you went the extra mile. I don't use Spotify, but I have a "sexy mood" playlist that just needs an external speaker - which I sometimes bring. As for refreshments, I once had an SP offer me a glass of wine. I appreciated it, and it went a long way to breaking the ice. Being offered water after the date would go a long way to rehydrate me I think. I usually like to bring a little something for the SP I'm seeing, so putting up dietary restrictions on your site is a good idea.
 
@Bolt, Fuggy, the Voice and tunderin Jesus(or as he's better known Dilligaf:)-thanks for your responses. I can have sex with those I have no connection with, physically or emotionally, but I find kissing to be an emotional exchange. I'd have to connect with a man on an emotional level in order to kiss him passionately.

Agreed. Sex is sex, but kissing is very personal. Here's a question. Do you like, or are you ok with a guy going directly from DATY to kissing (assuming the connection is there).
 
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Agreed. Sex is sex, but kissing is very personal. Here's a question. Do you like, or are you ok with a guy going directly from DATY to kissing (assuming the connection is there).

I'm glad to meet another person, sorry, I'm not sure if you are male or female, that see's kissing as such. Although I think most men that I've dated view it as something specifically sexual. As far as the daty then to my mouth, well as clean and sweet as my pussy is, I'm a gemaphobe and I prefer not to want to taste my pussy, or anyone else's. It has happened though, but I prefer if kissing is going to take place, that the daty occur after. But lets face it, in the heat of passion, nothing can be predicted.
 
1.Gentlemen, when visiting your escort do you want/like/expect an alcoholic beverage, or prefer something non-alcoholic.
Do you think it is the escort who should supply the alcohol or do you think it should be brought by the client?

2. If, when in the midst of things, the escorts notices something on or about her client that makes her nervous and uncomfortable to continue..such as sores, or other skin issues, she can't identify, and or weird behavior, so she decides to end the session, would you be understanding, upset, would you expect money back?
 
1.Gentlemen, when visiting your escort do you want/like/expect an alcoholic beverage, or prefer something non-alcoholic.
Do you think it is the escort who should supply the alcohol or do you think it should be brought by the client?

2. If, when in the midst of things, the escorts notices something on or about her client that makes her nervous and uncomfortable to continue..such as sores, or other skin issues, she can't identify, and or weird behavior, so she decides to end the session, would you be understanding, upset, would you expect money back?

1. This is where the price point comes into play.........If a Snifter of good Brandy or a glass of Single Malt is offered....Then yes......However if she offers you hit off the MD20/20 or her crack pipe than no. In between the two ranges you should play it by ear.

2. This should open a discussion and and an immediate GET OUT!!
 
@Companions, the pics of your ladies look awesome. This is not to pick on the price but just out of curiosity.

Why are all the fees $300 outside the $250 agency norm?
 
1.Gentlemen, when visiting your escort do you want/like/expect an alcoholic beverage, or prefer something non-alcoholic.
Do you think it is the escort who should supply the alcohol or do you think it should be brought by the client?

2. If, when in the midst of things, the escorts notices something on or about her client that makes her nervous and uncomfortable to continue..such as sores, or other skin issues, she can't identify, and or weird behavior, so she decides to end the session, would you be understanding, upset, would you expect money back?

1) For ladies I've seen frequently I usually bring wine. My preference is for Trius sparkling wine made with method classique ($29), have brought champagne ($70) for special occasions, and at other times flat red or white wine if the lady prefers. If I book a new lady or book through an agency I usually don't bring wine. A couple times for my birthday, I've asked the agency to make sure its ok with the lady if I brought wine and I brought a half bottle (350ml) of Henkel brut. One lady brought her own wine (Grace Miller) to celebrate our birthdays... which happened to be 1 day apart.

2) Think its reasonable for the lady to protect herself from disease. The money should be returned. In Nevada, the lady's do an inspection of the equipment before sex and if there is something amiss, I assume, the person doesn't get any service. The brothels have security so this can be done without the lady having any fear of any irate customer. If she does decline service the man does not pay... payment comes after.

The beauty of this system in Nevada is that by the time the guy find out how much its going to cost, she has already been fingering his equipment and closely inspecting them for a couple minutes and mine was fully erect. So when she said $600, I wasn't capable of saying no... lol...

I've always assumed the blow job and condom placement more or less gives the lady the opportunity to inspect the man's equipment. I've never had a refusal at that point, but do you ladies ever refuse to go on?. I would hope so. I would assume he'd get his money back. My worry would be for her safety if she told him to go. Is that a concern?

I once had a pimple on the base of my penis... on the day of seeing a lady who I had seen many times before... I popped it that morning, and later during my session I told her about it... she thanked me for telling her... and went ahead with the session.
 
@Companions, the pics of your ladies look awesome. This is not to pick on the price but just out of curiosity.

Why are all the fees $300 outside the $250 agency norm?
No, that's a fair question and I anticipated it 🙂

There are a few reasons for the price difference. The first and most obvious one is that the women who hire me are actually independent (as opposed to places that say so for marketing reasons). They are literally my bosses and I can't tell them what to charge. I have a 2-fee structure and each woman can opt in and out of those fees as the individual appointment demands.

Secondly, the cost of renting and living downtown has increased significantly over the past 10 years, but rates have not. For upscale independents, they're charging right about average ...but you guys get all the benefits of working with an agency, like fast responses, texting, and potentially discounts if something goes wrong. There's a level of insurance for you. You also get all the benefits of an independent provider, like their active (and self-managed) Twitter profiles (and constant selfies!).

The vast majority of agencies charge $100/$250, so the woman is left with $150 at the end of the day. The women who hire me earn $200 or even $250 - it all goes right back into her pocket. I think the "norm" is wrong and confusing, and our business model relies on loyalty, female talent and individual entrepreneurship. (Story time: I once booked an Indy duo with an agency woman... who told me her indy rates for an outcall were $300/h. I knew full well that she was earning $150/h at her agency - confusing!) At $300/hour, my bosses don't have to be as high volume as other agencies.

Lastly, even though I know $300 makes us higher than other places, I like that it allows me to be picky about who hires me. I imagine that as we grow, some women will offer a lower rate and some might opt to offer a higher one to vary their offerings based on market demand and their personal style.

We have no need to be a barebones bed and side table style agency - we're working hard to exceed your expectations - individual units, fully furnished and comfortable, as luxurious as we can make them. (Guys, keep telling me what you want!). Phone chargers, sound system, candles, art, fluffy towels, refreshments and snacks...

For all of that, I think $300 is absolutely fair. Raise your standards, guys! You deserve it - it's your hard-earned money!

Becky

PS. There are about 20 things we're doing differently, not just rates - mandated time between engagements, for example. I laugh when I see "15m inbetween appointments". Um... no. Let's do this in a way that benefits the women and the clients we adore.
PPS. Keep your eyes open for our HUBGFE introductory special, as a special thank you for giving us a shot.
 
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1.Gentlemen, when visiting your escort do you want/like/expect an alcoholic beverage, or prefer something non-alcoholic.
Do you think it is the escort who should supply the alcohol or do you think it should be brought by the client?

2. If, when in the midst of things, the escorts notices something on or about her client that makes her nervous and uncomfortable to continue..such as sores, or other skin issues, she can't identify, and or weird behavior, so she decides to end the session, would you be understanding, upset, would you expect money back?

1. I think it's nice to be offered either or. I sometimes bring an alcoholic beverage like wine or something else if I repeat and know what the lady likes. It's up to her whether she drinks it there or takes it home; I don't drink. But as a good host, I think a refreshment should be offered.

2. The client should be aware of his/her body unless it's on their back and they don't notice. I work on my own vehicles a lot and other things and my hands and body get quite scarred up at times. I don't want to alarm anyone and I tell the lady right away that they're there and if it's a problem, then we don't go any further. If the infliction is in the genital area, well, I'd be a fool to go see an SP and secondly, not seek medical treatment, so yes, the SP should question and choose to stop or continue.
 
No, that's a fair question and I anticipated it 

There are a few reasons for the price difference. The first and most obvious one is that the women who hire me are actually independent (as opposed to places that say so for marketing reasons). They are literally my bosses and I can't tell them what to charge. I have a 2-fee structure and each woman can opt in and out of those fees as the individual appointment demands.

Secondly, the cost of renting and living downtown has increased significantly over the past 10 years, but rates have not. For upscale independents, they're charging right about average ...but you guys get all the benefits of working with an agency, like fast responses, texting, and potentially discounts if something goes wrong. There's a level of insurance for you. You also get all the benefits of an independent provider, like their active (and self-managed) Twitter profiles (and constant selfies!).

The vast majority of agencies charge $100/$250, so the woman is left with $150 at the end of the day. The women who hire me earn $200 or even $250 - it all goes right back into her pocket. I think the "norm" is wrong and confusing, and our business model relies on loyalty, female talent and individual entrepreneurship. (Story time: I once booked an Indy duo with an agency woman... who told me her indy rates for an outcall were $300/h. I knew full well that she was earning $150/h at her agency - confusing!) At $300/hour, my bosses don't have to be as high volume as other agencies.

Lastly, even though I know $300 makes us higher than other places, I like that it allows me to be picky about who hires me. I imagine that as we grow, some women will offer a lower rate and some might opt to offer a higher one to vary their offerings based on market demand and their personal style.

We have no need to be a barebones bed and side table style agency - we're working hard to exceed your expectations - individual units, fully furnished and comfortable, as luxurious as we can make them. (Guys, keep telling me what you want!). Phone chargers, sound system, candles, art, fluffy towels, refreshments and snacks...

For all of that, I think $300 is absolutely fair. Raise your standards, guys! You deserve it - it's your hard-earned money!

Becky


PS. There are about 20 things we're doing differently, not just rates - mandated time between engagements, for example. I laugh when I see "15m inbetween appointments". Um... no. Let's do this in a way that benefits the women and the clients we adore.
PPS. Keep your eyes open for our HUBGFE introductory special, as a special thank you for giving us a shot.


Thank you for this awesome answer. I was going to comment on your previous thread but I think the members have issued a good spectrum and there's no need for my different flavour of the same response.

Hilighted kudos. This is exactly how an agency should be run.

There is only one agency that I know that takes a fair cut and the ladies are happy (Sassy's). Their incall(s) are always and have always been nicely decorated and welcoming. I remember the first time I used them years ago and commented about how nicely the place was decorated and how welcoming it was. Much better than a hotel or barebones condo with only a side table (as you put it).

Some of the members here balk at the fact that I have off the clock time with some of my regulars. My reasoning is this - more money goes in their pocket. Both of us like the fact that we don't have to be looking at the clock and worrying about the next appointment. It's generally a more relaxed setting; my place or hers. The most important part is the bottom dollar and again, before anyone goes off the deep end, the offer has always been made mutually or the SP. I've never had this scenario with an Indy because it's redundant; they've obviously taken the right steps to keeping more in their pockets and being their own bosses.

Becky (and Carolyn @Sassy's) for MVP
 
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