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Cancellation Fees - Cool or Not Cool?

Who said I like math? The guy in the picture I posted just looks like an 'average' joe.

But given it's you who automatically focused in on the algebraic equation, we can only assume that it's actually you who really likes math. It's only logical.

Gives me an idea for a new poll: Nerdy Girls - Hot or Not?

Does he look like the *average Joe? Well, that is also interesting, since that is your determination and view point and not everyone's. Since many may find your appearance to be average, others, mine and not his, etc. Average is at best, subjective, and inderterminable, since we all see things differently, yet it can also be construed as demeaning when used to compare one to another or to describe a person. No, your response is simply a good example of how we all see things differently, and still not an answer to my initial question:) Thanks Demien for clarifying, and btw, do you have any of the answers to those equations yet, lol:)

and btw, why care if others find nerdy, or any other types of girls hot. Those with confidence, like what they like without needing another's opinion to justify those likes. Narcissists and the insecure are the types that always seek reassurance and I am not implying that is what you are doing, but I thought I'd make a point, valid or not:wink2: :)
 
I would not book a lady that required a deposit. She would lose more business in requesting a deposit than she would avoid losing, monetarily, in demanding the deposit in the first place.
 
I would not book a lady that required a deposit. She would lose more business in requesting a deposit than she would avoid losing, monetarily, in demanding the deposit in the first place.


If that were the case, no one would continue to ask for deposits, or be successful in business, would they?

Hotels aren't going out of business because they collect deposits, are they?
 
If that were the case, no one would continue to ask for deposits, or be successful in business, would they?

Hotels aren't going out of business because they collect deposits, are they?

If demanding a deposit made an escort more money, then 90% of the escorts in the industry would do it, but they don't.
 
If demanding a deposit made an escort more money, then 90% of the escorts in the industry would do it, but they don't.


No one is saying they make more money, but they obviously make what they consider to be enough, and that's all that matters. I still maintain that SP's don't lose money if they ask for deposits.

I doubt we'll hear from many SP's who do collect deposits, because they're all busy entertaining their clients instead of posting on escort review boards.

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If getting a reference and/or deposit makes her feel more at ease about seeing me, I would see that as benefiting both of us.
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No one is saying they make more money, but they obviously make what they consider to be enough, and that's all that matters. I still maintain that SP's don't lose money if they ask for deposits.

I doubt we'll hear from many SP's who do collect deposits, because they're all busy entertaining their clients instead of posting on escort review boards.

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Lol. You have said in the past, that posting on boards is a way of relaxing...and you post on *all* the boards, I guess you need to relax often, lol. You've also claimed to be a business women, are you lacking business?
Your statement isn't one imo, that is welcoming to others, nor complimentary to HUBGFE. We all should encourage others to want to post, not to make it appear as if doing so, makes one seem this or that. There are many escorts, as you know, that see clients very infrequently, not all of us rely on visits as a means of support. Their are some escorts who derive pleasure from posting and dating, both can be done, by some of us:)
 
I would post but Cristy already said it all and more eloquently that I would...

But I have to admit not liking the implication from Lori that the time spent here is wasted...
Work is nice but play is too and reading and occasionally writing is a well needed break...

I meet once or twice a month (it is not how I make a living) so still have time to play and read on my new favourite site...

And no I do not ask for a cancellation fee,I just refuse to see you after if you do not make the effort of cancelling ,like the guy who booked me last week for this Tuesday at 10h and never bothered writing to cancel,he just goes in my ''lapin'' folder.
That's how I call the one who do that like in the expression ''poser un lapin"
Just learned the ''ghost'' expression,is there a copyright because I think I will steal it?

And now it is nap time in rainy Montreal...
 
I would post but Cristy already said it all and more eloquently that I would...

But I have to admit not liking the implication from Lori that the time spent here is wasted...
Work is nice but play is too and reading and occasionally writing is a well needed break...

I meet once or twice a month (it is not how I make a living) so still have time to play and read on my new favourite site...

And no I do not ask for a cancellation fee,I just refuse to see you after if you do not make the effort of cancelling ,like the guy who booked me last week for this Tuesday at 10h and never bothered writing to cancel,he just goes in my ''lapin'' folder.
That's how I call the one who do that like in the expression ''poser un lapin"
Just learned the ''ghost'' expression,is there a copyright because I think I will steal it?

And now it is nap time in rainy Montreal...
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Lily - anyone who knows me, knows that I don't think it's a waste of time being here. I have spent more time posting on the boards than just about any other escort in Canada.

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Me too lol,I find it addictive as it is the only place I can be Lily and not think ,no need for comments here lol,
I juggle many lives and the Lily one is hidden and until I found review boards I felt very alone with no one to relax without stress about being an escort...
And since I am drawing on my computer all day it is soo easy to cheat and go see what's new on my playgrounds...
 
I can honestly say that in all the years I've been doing this I've only cancelled on a client once because a girlfriend had an emergency and needed me to watch her son after school. I however have been cancelled on countless times, including today by a new client.

The implication that there may be something wrong with me or my business practices is ludicrous. I find that reviews/honourable mentions bring a lot of time wasters out of the woods. Also, we live in a day and age where common courtesy isn't practised as much and it's deemed acceptable to cancel last minute. This is why I'm going to start asking for references/handles and in lieu of that work info. on my new site's booking form. I don't like being intrusive but need to start protecting myself as I'll be working from my home. If a potential client can't understand my need for safety, that's "too bad so sad".

As for a cancellation fee, I'm with others here in that I simply put a multiple canceller on a "do not book" (DNB) basis. I was once offered a cancellation fee from a multi canceller and accepted. Thankfully he showed and anted up!
 
Me too lol,I find it addictive as it is the only place I can be Lily and not think ,no need for comments here lol,
I juggle many lives and the Lily one is hidden and until I found review boards I felt very alone with no one to relax without stress about being an escort...
And since I am drawing on my computer all day it is soo easy to cheat and go see what's new on my playgrounds...


I'm very grateful for our forums too. After I quit working for an Agency, I worked for 5 years as an Indy without having anyone to talk to about the business or stuff that happened with my clients, because I worked at home alone and never had any contact with other SP's, just my clients.
 
The forum made a huge difference and now since I join the Indycompanion collective it is so different,never alone,I honestly think that if it was not of that reseau I would have stop escorting...now of course for me it is a aside but being able to share worries and questions is priceless.
 
Me too lol,I find it addictive as it is the only place I can be Lily and not think ,no need for comments here lol,
I juggle many lives and the Lily one is hidden and until I found review boards I felt very alone with no one to relax without stress about being an escort...
And since I am drawing on my computer all day it is soo easy to cheat and go see what's new on my playgrounds...

Bienvenue à HUBGFE.cc Lily! Très content de faire votre connaissance! :heart:
 
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