Deposits & Screening

[peace]

Better make that 3 please. 1 or 2 cups is just not going to do it.

Like seriously, another thread on another board about screening, same stupid replies and I know stupid me, I replied to that pile of BS too. ARG!

On second thought, make it 4. :wink2:

even better......anytime ....



and of course the beans....

 

[peace]

Thailand and most Caribbean Islands for less expensive fun.

Masturbating is still cheaper....:-Cool/"

 

[ReservoirDog]

This is the lesson I wish everyone would learn......

You can't judge an entire group by the actions of a few members.

• But we judge all men based on the crudeness of a few.
• But we judge all gun owners on the misdeeds of a few.
• But we judge all Caucasians on the actions of some who aren't even alive at this point.
• But we judge all Muslims on the actions of a portion who are religious zealots and mislead.
• etc. etc. etc.

That should shut her up.

 

[Prick]

What are you? Required reading or something?

How am I saying that I am overdoing it by being professional and helpful? Seriously? Did you not read anything else I wrote?

Do I really need to fucking explain the stupidity of that? Guess so, but try to keep up this time little one, k?

MY screening is Goldilocks perfect FOR ME. Not too much, not too little. Just right FOR ME!!!! Get it? For myself.

IF a person, a man, a guy with a horny cock and some cash, feels MY screening it TOO MUCH FOR HIM, instead of saying, too bad so sad you closest fucking rapist who only wants to hurt me, I understand that everyone is DIFFERENT. So I am professional, and HELP by suggesting another lady who can fill HIS requirements even if he couldn't fill mine.

Get it now?

Like seriously, or do you want to keep overdoing the idiotic dickheadedness by making stupid comments that anyone with a high school education could figure out when reading my post.

PS - pretty sure you are being overpaid BTW. Pretty sure one person else somewhere in the world does the same job as you but for less, so you must be overpaid. I mean with that line of thinking, all escorts are overdoing their rates too because women in Cuba will fuck you for $20.00.

Sorry people, can't stand such stupidity so early in the morning. :grrrrrr: :slap:

Want to share the drugs you are on?.

 

[Jessica Rain]

That is one crappy way to express your opinions. No one taught you manners or how to be tactful?. Calling a person stupid is so childish, immature and just shows you don't know any better so I will refrain from posting on this thread again.

But lady, get yourself together. None want to be associated with a whinny xxxx. There are tons of insults you threw my way but I won't bother replying as not to make you inferior. Go ahead, blame everything on us men, or is it just me?.

No. It's just you.

 

[ReservoirDog]

No. It's just you.

You mean YES it's me. Get yourself together or at least make sense on what you post.

 

[Jessica Rain]

You mean YES it's me. Get yourself together or at least make sense on what you post.

Says the man who said my referral to another escort with less screening requirements, to be proof that my screening process and by extension, other escorts who screen the same, to be too much and over done. That was your redivision's counter point to the debate.

Check yourself buddy. You were the one that started this with that stupidness. Move on now. Again you have nothing constructive to add to the discussion.

 

[Jessica Rain]

I notice a general pattern that if I point out an inconsistency, I generally get personal attacks or silence in reply. Some people can fool themselves into thinking that they are fair and just even when they can contradict themselves within a single statement. This isn't just about her but any and all of us.

Sweetie, I knew that was not an attack on me, in your post. It read very well. The OP made generalizations, I called that out in a lighthearted way, and you pointed it out further.

I will admit that many of us make generalizations {myself included} and in some sense, it works, in others, like how you pointed it out, does not. I do not say that all men who refuse to screen are closest rapist for example. But I will say that generally speaking, when two people take a little time in the beginning to research {for guys} and to screen {for girls}, the resulting session is usually an awesome positive experience. :good:

 

[TFZL1]

I’ve seen a couple ladies recently who screened with references and it worked out great. I even sent a deposit for one and she showed up right on time.

p.s. Screening with references worked out good for outcalls to my hotel. Neither girl asked for my real name to call the hotel to verify.

 

[ReservoirDog]

Sweetie, I knew that was not an attack on me, in your post. It read very well. The OP made generalizations, I called that out in a lighthearted way, and you pointed it out further.

I will admit that many of us make generalizations {myself included} and in some sense, it works, in others, like how you pointed it out, does not. I do not say that all men who refuse to screen are closest rapist for example. But I will say that generally speaking, when two people take a little time in the beginning to research {for guys} and to screen {for girls}, the resulting session is usually an awesome positive experience. :good:

What the shit was that?. You are trying to be nice now?. Accept it, you are a person that says it how it is but you must live a lonely life without friends.

 

[catherine st.claire]

What the shit was that?. You are trying to be nice now?. Accept it, you are a person that says it how it is but you must live a lonely life without friends.

Jessica certainly isn't lonely or without friends...

smiles, cat

 

[ReservoirDog]

Jessica certainly isn't lonely or without friends...

smiles, cat

Give it time. Being rude, loud, obnoxious and vindictive does not have happy endings. Haven't you noticed she has to have the last word on everything and she believes she is never wrong?.

Yes her shit doesn't smell either.

 

[ReservoirDog]

I can't wait for what childish and immature shit she is going to come upo with to defend herself. Even the red board is sick or her obnoxious comments. I do wonder if she was a man at one point. She whines and complains about anything she doesn't agree on.

 

[catherine st.claire]

Give it time. Being rude, loud, obnoxious and vindictive does not have happy endings. Haven't you noticed she has to have the last word on everything and she believes she is never wrong?.

Yes her shit doesn't smell either.

Thank god she isn't perfect, perfect friends can get a bit stale after a while. And as we all know, everyone's shit stinks so don't worry yourself about that. I actually like my friends to have a backbone and be willing to go toe to toe on things sometimes, it helps broaden my world. She's self aware enough to know when she's raging against the machine and she owns that which I respect as well. One of the main reasons I come to Cearf is to read Jessica's posts, I find the threads she participates in genuinely entertaining. There are others on both sides of the coin that I enjoy here but Jessica always stands out...

smiles, cat

 

[Hitter]

Thank god she isn't perfect, perfect friends can get a bit stale after a while. And as we all know, everyone's shit stinks so don't worry yourself about that. I actually like my friends to have a backbone and be willing to go toe to toe on things sometimes, it helps broaden my world. She's self aware enough to know when she's raging against the machine and she owns that which I respect as well. One of the main reasons I come to Cearf is to read Jessica's posts, I find the threads she participates in genuinely entertaining. There are others on both sides of the coin that I enjoy here but Jessica always stands out...

smiles, cat

Miss cat: Your intelligence level just made me a fan. Hope to see you in the near future.

 

[Jessica Rain]

Well now. Thanks Cat. Nothing really left to say after that.

 

[Wise Guy]

Well now. Thanks Cat. Nothing really left to say after that.

Not really, have you read your posts on this thread or you just write for the sake of it?. No insult intended but if I didn't know your persona on line I would be thinking different.

 

[Jessica Rain]

Not really, have you read your posts on this thread or you just write for the sake of it?. No insult intended but if I didn't know your persona on line I would be thinking different.

I have read my replies. Have you though? Have you read the thread throughly?


First, the continued questioning, debating and out right denial of screening from men on this and other boards is insulting to us. When you are involved on 3 boards and 4 threads (2 on this very board)all about this topic, all at the same time, and all having a few guys telling me that the way I do business is wrong - that is insulting.

I have no problem having an open discussion but I am not going to be insulted and I am certainly not going to deal with stupidity.

RR - thinking he was smart, slick - I don't know but he thought he had some "proof" that screening practices, mine specifically, are over done AND to boot - his proof was my own explanation. It was and still is stupid. To say that I am giving proof that screening is overdone because I am professional enough to refer someone else who requires less is insulting. It may not be with name calling but we all know insults come in many forms. I am on a side for screening and he saying I am proving otherwise??? Ya - sorry that stupidity and comment is insulting to me. And I addressed it in kind.

You are not insulting. You are not bringing stupidity to a topic of importance because you feel it is fun to debate on the internet.

This is about out our lives. About our safety. It is an important topic. Not a debate to have for funzies.

Now right after I wrote back to him, I fully admired my post was angry. I don't deny that. I admit I could have wrote things in a different way. I don't apologize for the way I wrote what I did to HIM. He came at me in a topic of discussion with insults and jabs so I have no problem giving it back. And because of that, he got more and more pissed. Projecting, insulting, passive aggressive comments somtinued and he followed me to a second thread on the same topic and never ONCE bringing anytime of valid argument on the discussion.

I never asked for him him to be banned, I had no problem continuing with him, or not. But I am not going to be insulted person with my personal screening practices and then sit back politely, not saying anything other then thanks for opinion.

That is just not me.

As for what some people may think of me - honey if I stressed about about that I would never post anything anywhere. I am experienced enough to not bother trying to live my life proving things to others for their benefit. If you don't like me, misjudge me, or whatever - cool. Just don't dish what you can take back.

Funny though - he said to me somewhere. Yet I am still here and he is not. Makes you wonder who really can handle the heat in the kitchen. Hmmmmmm

PS - since I don't have to worry about black lash in my business because I don't rely on this escorting income to pay my bills, other escorts who will have to deal with that but can't speak out, want me to do what I do in these threads. Because someone has to stick up for our rights to safety and someone needs to be able to fire back at insults or stupidity with more then polite requests for understanding to their side. So for all the men who don't like what I have to say, there is a woman saying thank you to me for having the nerve to speak out. Just sayin'

 

[Wise Guy]

I have read my replies. Have you though? Have you read the thread throughly?


First, the continued questioning, debating and out right denial of screening from men on this and other boards is insulting to us. When you are involved on 3 boards and 4 threads (2 on this very board)all about this topic, all at the same time, and all having a few guys telling me that the way I do business is wrong - that is insulting.

I have no problem having an open discussion but I am not going to be insulted and I am certainly not going to deal with stupidity.

RR - thinking he was smart, slick - I don't know but he thought he had some "proof" that screening practices, mine specifically, are over done AND to boot - his proof was my own explanation. It was and still is stupid. To say that I am giving proof that screening is overdone because I am professional enough to refer someone else who requires less is insulting. It may not be with name calling but we all know insults come in many forms. I am on a side for screening and he saying I am proving otherwise??? Ya - sorry that stupidity and comment is insulting to me. And I addressed it in kind.

You are not insulting. You are not bringing stupidity to a topic of importance because you feel it is fun to debate on the internet.

This is about out our lives. About our safety. It is an important topic. Not a debate to have for funzies.

Now right after I wrote back to him, I fully admired my post was angry. I don't deny that. I admit I could have wrote things in a different way. I don't apologize for the way I wrote what I did to HIM. He came at me in a topic of discussion with insults and jabs so I have no problem giving it back. And because of that, he got more and more pissed. Projecting, insulting, passive aggressive comments somtinued and he followed me to a second thread on the same topic and never ONCE bringing anytime of valid argument on the discussion.

I never asked for him him to be banned, I had no problem continuing with him, or not. But I am not going to be insulted person with my personal screening practices and then sit back politely, not saying anything other then thanks for opinion.

That is just not me.

As for what some people may think of me - honey if I stressed about about that I would never post anything anywhere. I am experienced enough to not bother trying to live my life proving things to others for their benefit. If you don't like me, misjudge me, or whatever - cool. Just don't dish what you can take back.

Funny though - he said to me somewhere. Yet I am still here and he is not. Makes you wonder who really can handle the heat in the kitchen. Hmmmmmm

PS - since I don't have to worry about black lash in my business because I don't rely on this escorting income to pay my bills, other escorts who will have to deal with that but can't speak out, want me to do what I do in these threads. Because someone has to stick up for our rights to safety and someone needs to be able to fire back at insults or stupidity with more then polite requests for understanding to their side. So for all the men who don't like what I have to say, there is a woman saying thank you to me for having the nerve to speak out. Just sayin'

You really didn't understand what my point was. But Jess, you need to think before you write.

 

[Jessica Rain]

You really didn't understand what my point was. But Jess, you need to think before you write.

Then please explain. By all means - the floor is yours.

And please be sure to tell me what I need to think about before I post. What important things am I missing?