it's there in black and white: she accepts no responsibility for her current situation.....
Yet you called a woman sleeping with a married man a tramp/slut....
You sexist pig.
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it's there in black and white: she accepts no responsibility for her current situation.....
Yet you called a woman sleeping with a married man a tramp/slut....
You sexist pig.
I'm not spinning anything, simply pointing out the flaws in her logic. You are correct sir: in some cases, number one being divorce, and marriage, men are simply prey, whether they know it or not.
Thankfully most women don't know exactly how much power they hold. If they women realized that when the husband falls on hard times or loses his job, if she leaves, she won't have to suffer one iota.
You're tap dancing, point out what she did wrong.
C'mon Auggie, come right out and spit it out. Call him a pussy for tap dancing around it, come on do it!!:666:
She accepts NO responsibility for her current situation...that's what she's doing wrong.
You want to enroll in an esl course my friend......
It's not wrong to accept no responsibility if the blame is fully on him.
It's very possible she did nothing wrong and her husband just wanted variety in his pussy.
Anyway, we're both making assumptions - I think we can agree on that.
It's very possible she did nothing wrong and her husband just wanted variety in his pussy.
Anyway, we're both making assumptions - I think we can agree on that.
Some men need variety and cannot stay in a committed relationship with only one woman, same can be said of some women. I cannot speak for Barbara's situation, as mentioned we only have one side but I have had friends break up where the break up was caused by mainly by one partner. Too work a marriage needs two devoted individuals that are willing to make sacrifices and compromises in order for the marriage to last. Even if one partner only breaks this rule over and over the marriage can easily fall apart.
Good post insertion, and yes, many relationships break up due to issues caused mainly by one partner, but still, some of the blame is shared by the other.
There can be NO argument that the blame is shared, after all, SHE chose HIM to begin with right? How can you not accept responsibilities for your decisions? Well, that is prevalent in today's society whereby so many look to blame someone else for their mistakes.....sorry, but there's no arguing that at least SOME of the blame lies with both parties. The only way some of the blame can't be shared is if the relationship consists of just one person....
Barbara reminds me of so many women actually. One in particular comes to mind: she meets a buddy of mine who is a big flirt. Mr Popular with the women. Then after they've been dating for a couple of years, I'm out with them at a club with a large group. He's off flirting it up with all the ladies in the group and she's sulking at the table. I say "what's the problem", she says "look, I'm sitting here alone and he's off doing who knows what". I said "that's who he is, that's what attracted you to him in the first place, so WHY are you complaining now"???? Sure, you could say "it was his fault for not changing who he is" but really, it is 100% HER fault for choosing him in the first place.....she knew how he was going in, so she cannot put ANY of the blame on him...none whatsoever.
There can be NO argument that the blame is shared, after all, SHE chose HIM to begin with right? How can you not accept responsibilities for your decisions? Well, that is prevalent in today's society whereby so many look to blame someone else for their mistakes.....sorry, but there's no arguing that at least SOME of the blame lies with both parties. The only way some of the blame can't be shared is if the relationship consists of just one person....
Barbara reminds me of so many women actually. One in particular comes to mind: she meets a buddy of mine who is a big flirt. Mr Popular with the women. Then after they've been dating for a couple of years, I'm out with them at a club with a large group. He's off flirting it up with all the ladies in the group and she's sulking at the table. I say "what's the problem", she says "look, I'm sitting here alone and he's off doing who knows what". I said "that's who he is, that's what attracted you to him in the first place, so WHY are you complaining now"???? Sure, you could say "it was his fault for not changing who he is" but really, it is 100% HER fault for choosing him in the first place.....she knew how he was going in, so she cannot put ANY of the blame on him...none whatsoever.
just DON'T sign anything!!!!! lol.
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Ummmmm, no, absolutely and positively no, not yet anyway!:he:
Why not Tboy, as long as one reads the fine print it's all good my dear!!
Tboy I understand what you are saying and perhaps I've made one or two bad choices in life, one being perhaps the choosing of my mate, maybe but that is where it ends. You see I have been the perfect wife. I have kept myself in great shape, catered to him, allowed him freedom (maybe too much, perhaps mistake 2).
He has had no responsibilities at home in the way of cooking, cleaning, etc..... Sure he brought home the bacon and I would have too, probably more if I had been the one empowered to do so..... but you know being the woman, rearing the children, tending to laundry, you know it's not right for a man to do these chores is it? In the end for the sake of the children I wouldn't have done it any other way. They are healthy, smart and Independent and will do very well in life and you know something else Tboy, so will I............ LATER!!!:go:
Sorry, there's no such thing.......I mean, even the hope DIAMOND has flaws.....
I was going to leave it at that, but since when do I know when to STFU?
See, I've been around a pretty long time. In that time every time and I mean EVERY time anyone says they are "perfect" they have been far from it. Maybe on the outside they appear to be. Maybe deep down inside they truly believe they are...but in reality, they are definitely NOT. Not even close.
Maybe THAT was the issue. Did you remind him constantly of this? Did you say this to anyone other than this board?
I mean really. All those times you tried to talk to him about your relationship did you ever start off by saying "look, I'm the PERFECT wife, what's wrong with YOU"???? (or words to that effect).
Is it because Tboy might be there? What if we tell him he's not allowed at that gang bang?
Let's try this again,
GANG BANG AT BARBS!!
Due to circumstances beyond our control Tboy is not allowed to participate in this gang bang. :na:
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Touché, Miss Melanie. Way to cut to the chase.
Mr. Anal are you confident pulling out your junk in a circle of men standing, stroking and patiently waiting their turn.
I don't know about Mr. Anal, but lil Auggie is up for it!
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She spent the first day packing her belongings into boxes, crates, and suitcases.
On the second day, she had the movers come and collect her things.
On the third day, she sat down for the last time at their beautiful dining room table by candlelight, put on some soft background music and feasted on a pound of shrimp, a jar of caviar, and a bottle of Chardonnay.
When she had finished, she went into each and every room and deposited a few half —eaten shrimp dipped in caviar, into the hollow of the curtain rods. She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.
When the husband returned with his new girlfriend, all was bliss for the first few days. Then slowly, the house began to smell. They tried everything; cleaning, mopping, and airing the place out.
Vents were checked for dead rodents and carpets were steam cleaned. Air fresheners were hung everywhere. Exterminators were brought in to set off gas canisters, during which they had to move out for a few days, and in the end they even paid to replace the expensive wool carpeting.
Nothing worked. People stopped coming over to visit. Repairmen refused to work in the house. The maid quit. Finally, they could not take the stench any longer and decided to move.
A month later, even though they had cut their price in half, they could not find a buyer for their stinky house. Word got out and eventually even the local realtors refused to return their calls. Finally, they had to borrow a huge sum of money from the bank to purchase a new place.
The ex —wife called the man and asked how things were going. He told her the saga of the rotting house. She listened politely and said that she missed her old home terribly, and would be willing to reduce her divorce settlement in exchange for getting the house back. Knowing his ex —wife had no idea how bad the smell was, he agreed on a price that was about 1/10th of what the house had been worth, but only if she were to sign the papers that very day.
She agreed and within the hour his lawyers delivered the paperwork. A week later the man and his girlfriend stood smiling as they watched the moving company pack everything to take to their new home.... ....including the curtain rods.
On the second day, she had the movers come and collect her things.
On the third day, she sat down for the last time at their beautiful dining room table by candlelight, put on some soft background music and feasted on a pound of shrimp, a jar of caviar, and a bottle of Chardonnay.
When she had finished, she went into each and every room and deposited a few half —eaten shrimp dipped in caviar, into the hollow of the curtain rods. She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.
When the husband returned with his new girlfriend, all was bliss for the first few days. Then slowly, the house began to smell. They tried everything; cleaning, mopping, and airing the place out.
Vents were checked for dead rodents and carpets were steam cleaned. Air fresheners were hung everywhere. Exterminators were brought in to set off gas canisters, during which they had to move out for a few days, and in the end they even paid to replace the expensive wool carpeting.
Nothing worked. People stopped coming over to visit. Repairmen refused to work in the house. The maid quit. Finally, they could not take the stench any longer and decided to move.
A month later, even though they had cut their price in half, they could not find a buyer for their stinky house. Word got out and eventually even the local realtors refused to return their calls. Finally, they had to borrow a huge sum of money from the bank to purchase a new place.
The ex —wife called the man and asked how things were going. He told her the saga of the rotting house. She listened politely and said that she missed her old home terribly, and would be willing to reduce her divorce settlement in exchange for getting the house back. Knowing his ex —wife had no idea how bad the smell was, he agreed on a price that was about 1/10th of what the house had been worth, but only if she were to sign the papers that very day.
She agreed and within the hour his lawyers delivered the paperwork. A week later the man and his girlfriend stood smiling as they watched the moving company pack everything to take to their new home.... ....including the curtain rods.
Dave had had enough of his wife's constant nagging. For years this dragged on and he'd had it up to here.
He approached his lawyer and found that if he leaves, she'd be entitled to half of everything including all future earnings.
Dave approached his board (he was Chairman) and arranged to be paid via a non-interest loan.
The two cars they drove were owned by the company and were leased on their behalf. When Dave decided to split with his wife, he told the company he didn't need the other vehicle and he returned it on the day he finally left.
Since Dave was the money manager of the couple he moved all his assets into offshore accounts and refinanced the house so there was only 5% equity in it. He effectively "gave" the funds from the refinancing to a local charity. (the charity paid an offshore company for consulting fees minus 10%, dave owned the company).
When Dave finally left and the lawyers took over, they found him to be virtually penniless, with no income and no assets. When he left Dave stopped paying the mortgage and it went into power of sale. A company bought the property from the bank for 40% of the listed value. Dave knew the owners of the company and arranged to live there at a rental rate of $1.00 a month.
When the settlement proceedings were over, the wife was presented with a cheque for $478.00 as her half of the liquidation of assets and was awarded an alimony of $302.00 a month (since dave effectively wasn't earning any money because, after all, a loan is not an asset, it's a liability).
He approached his lawyer and found that if he leaves, she'd be entitled to half of everything including all future earnings.
Dave approached his board (he was Chairman) and arranged to be paid via a non-interest loan.
The two cars they drove were owned by the company and were leased on their behalf. When Dave decided to split with his wife, he told the company he didn't need the other vehicle and he returned it on the day he finally left.
Since Dave was the money manager of the couple he moved all his assets into offshore accounts and refinanced the house so there was only 5% equity in it. He effectively "gave" the funds from the refinancing to a local charity. (the charity paid an offshore company for consulting fees minus 10%, dave owned the company).
When Dave finally left and the lawyers took over, they found him to be virtually penniless, with no income and no assets. When he left Dave stopped paying the mortgage and it went into power of sale. A company bought the property from the bank for 40% of the listed value. Dave knew the owners of the company and arranged to live there at a rental rate of $1.00 a month.
When the settlement proceedings were over, the wife was presented with a cheque for $478.00 as her half of the liquidation of assets and was awarded an alimony of $302.00 a month (since dave effectively wasn't earning any money because, after all, a loan is not an asset, it's a liability).
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And THIS is why current divorce laws have come into effect. :grrrrrr:
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