You ain't hearing me bitch. I wont complain one bit.
Here is the thing, I wish, I TRULY wish I could take all the families from war torn countries, all the girls in places that don't allow them the basic rights like education, all the orphaned boys left to the elements, all the hurting, disadvantaged, vulnerable people in the world, and bring them all my home to live in peace, health, and happiness.
But if my home is not big enough, doesn't have enough money in the bank for food, doesn't have enough clothes, doesn't have enough first aid kits, doesn't have enough hot water, doesn't have enough (add whatever to the list here) then what good am I actually doing??
Not to mention, if my house already has people in it that are not getting what they need, and a line up of people waiting to get into my house, who have been there in line properly like they are suppose to, how can I justify skipping others ahead or removing those already in my home to make room for these new people who broke into my house from the back window?
Being mindful of your own house, it's capabilities, it resources, it's safety, is not wrong.
It is a no win, never ending battle. Immigration I mean. We will NEVER be able to do enough, give enough, etc. And we will ALWAYS be assholes for turning people away. Period.
That is not even getting into checking if the person really is who is who they say they are and really are in the trouble they are in.