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Living on your own again

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I am getting use to living on my own again.....but I am having issues
and starting to remember somethings on being on your own...

The major cause of Distress......The Bathroom.....See unfortunately I
have 3 bathrooms....for one person.....Luxury....Shit No.....
When you buy Toilette Paper you usually stick it in the Bathroom you
use the most.....Right...:dontknow: Then just put a roll on the ones you
don't use as much....Well... having 2 cats has made this a very challenging
situation.....Because they Love Toilet Paper...So every so often I catch them playing,
lets see how far the toilet paper can go without breaking......

So here is the Major issue...I go to the bathroom and without thinking or checking
I am doing my thing.....then I look...NO TOILET PAPER.....and there they are looking at
me......:grrrrrr: So I am hoping I have an extra one under the sink....OMG..nothing....and
nobody to help me......and I am looking at them wondering which one did it...and my dog
sitting there staring off into the air.....I know he will not fetch toilet paper from the other bathroom
and he is the one who is the brightest of the group....

That is one of my issues...maybe some of you have something....
Maybe in this World I am the only one living alone.......Shit I think I
drank too much.......:cry::rofl1:
 
I live alone and I also have 3 bathrooms and I have a surplus of bathroom tissue. Granted I have no cats. The solution is therefore obvious - kill all the cats.
 
Hey .....I am not killing the Cats.....But ok how about this....

You go to the fridge to get some juice, it all gone....Well there is only you in the Damn place
so you can not blame it on anybody.....Even though the Cats and the Dog is looking at you
kind of greedy ......

Am I the Only One who Lives alone.....OMG.....and with Animals....Hmmm.....that does not sound right.....I think I am going to bed, cry myself to sleep and see if I return to the real world again....I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone........In a House all alone....the only woman by herself...in a World of Couples.......You are Now enter the Twilight Zone.....:shocking:
 
I've been living alone for three years now, and I don't think I ever want to live any other way. :music:
 
+1 I love my space. Initilly I thought I would struggle with it as I always had roommates but I didnt.
 
I've lived alone for the better part of 15 years now.
Not looking to change it either.
 
I am getting use to living on my own again.....but I am having issues
and starting to remember somethings on being on your own...

The major cause of Distress......The Bathroom.....See unfortunately I
have 3 bathrooms....for one person.....Luxury....Shit No.....
When you buy Toilette Paper you usually stick it in the Bathroom you
use the most.....Right...:dontknow: Then just put a roll on the ones you
don't use as much....Well... having 2 cats has made this a very challenging
situation.....Because they Love Toilet Paper...So every so often I catch them playing,
lets see how far the toilet paper can go without breaking......

So here is the Major issue...I go to the bathroom and without thinking or checking
I am doing my thing.....then I look...NO TOILET PAPER.....and there they are looking at
me......:grrrrrr: So I am hoping I have an extra one under the sink....OMG..nothing....and
nobody to help me......and I am looking at them wondering which one did it...and my dog
sitting there staring off into the air.....I know he will not fetch toilet paper from the other bathroom
and he is the one who is the brightest of the group....

That is one of my issues...maybe some of you have something....
Maybe in this World I am the only one living alone.......Shit I think I
drank too much.......:cry::rofl1:
 
I've lived alone for the better part of 15 years now.
Not looking to change it either.

30 yrs and counting for me.....

I've met quite a few people who have trouble being by themselves, living arrangements or relationshipwise. I think it takes a really secure person to not only be happy being alone, but not feel the need to have someone constantly in their life (romantically speaking). It's strange because when you meet someone for the first time, and they ask "ever been married"? when you say no, they get this odd look on their face.

Bliss's "no juice" scenario is a perfect example of what i think is wrong with most relationships: most look to lay the blame on someone else.....like "you drank all the juice".......living alone, you have no one to blame but yourself...for ALL your problems. Too many times you hear about how someone's partner does this, does that, gets on their nerves etc etc and the thought that runs through my mind is: so, why are you with them then? stop bitching about it......

I think the major issue is lack of self reliance. I know that no matter what life throws at me, I can pretty much handle it. Unlike those who are constantly in need of someone in their lives, they always have someone to lean on. For eg: with my recent cataract surgery I HAD to have someone drive me to and from the hospital. The doctor/nurses wouldn't even let me into the waiting room to see if my ride arrived. I was more than happy to take a cab to the hospital and home again. Little did they know that no one was around for the required 24 hrs after the surgery. If i ran into any problems I had no issues with being able to handle the situation or call an ambulance if I couldn't.

Bliss: I think you should embrace this time as a test to see if you can stand on your own for once in your life. From what I gather from your posts here it seems you've always had someone around whether it was siblings, parents, spouse, someone was always there.

I think maybe instead of being so wrapped up in finding someone else, you should take this time to be on your own, get your shit together so when you do finally meet someone, you're all together and more able to have a rewarding and happy relationship. Which brings me to my concept of a relationship: I think a relationship is made up of two complete and healthy individuals. I find all too often that people look for someone to "make them happy".Well, the only person that can make YOU happy is YOU. To rely on someone else for your own happiness is ludicrous at best....sick at worst.
 
1. This was to be a fun thread....
2. I had lived alone at 16 to 19 then in my twenties before meeting hubby...he went from mom's
house to living with me
3. I enjoy being on my own.....
4. I enjoy laughing at myself with the juice thing even the bathroom....even
when showering and my women product are done....I go nuts ...
5. Living on my own I make it silly and fun.....
6. As for Blaming everybody....Why Yes It is Everyone fault but mine....:rofl1:
7. As I stated this was a fun drunk project....Thank God ...I was not committed....:crazy::rofl1:
 
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