as for knick knacks, i lived for about a year with one of my ex gfs and she was stuffer...meaning when she straightened up, she stuffed things anywhere as long as they were out of sight......i once found my credit card bill (which I mistakenly opened and left on the table) in amongst her childhood photos.....and yes, it was 6 months past due and this was back when you had to have a paper copy of the bill to take to the bank.....grrr...
we both worked in the same buiilding and would walk home together.....first thing i'd do is get myself a cold glass of water from the fridge, take a good gulp, put the glass on the table and go change out of my suit....she'd start a pot of coffee....i'd come out after changing and my glass would always be emptied and put in the sink....this went on for 3 weeks, every time i'd say I'm not done drinking that......and into the sink it'd go.....
Until one time, i waited until she had poured her cuppa coffee and went into change, i dumped out her coffee and left the cup in the sink....she came out and was pissed....i said "now you know i feel every time you dump out my glass of cold water"....needless to say, she never dumped out my glass of water again lol....now sure, sometimes i could pour another glass but more often than not, there was only one glass left in the jug we kept in the fridge so my next glass would be luke warm at best......