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Politeness or flirting...?

thesun

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My male and female friends and I had a disscusion about this issue recently.

Some of them said that some women jump to conclusions too quickly as to the motive of a gentleman's kindness. Or that eye contact he gives you, some women assume he is flirting or lusting, even though he is self confident and a pure soul. Thus some believe some women are too hard on men, and they assume that their instinct is who they are, and women get upset when they can't control it and it takes them over. Then one of the female participants in our discussion said, women look at them as push overs, and then women exploit their weakness.

So what do you think....
 
I assume that the gentleman is being polite unless he is forthcoming with his feelings. If he is polite but I am interested I will flirt back in an obvious way that would tell him I am open to exploring things further.​
 
Please move your hand, Miss Bridgette. I would love to put my tongue in its place.:biggrin2:
 
If you were brought up properly. Being polite to women is like a second instinct, the only way to act.
 
I assume that the gentleman is being polite unless he is forthcoming with his feelings. If he is polite but I am interested I will flirt back in an obvious way that would tell him I am open to exploring things further.​

Interesting...

Is it possible to flirt when two people are naked?
 
It you were brought up properly, you would know the difference.

Each has their own cues......
 
One should always be polite in public. I've opened doors for both men and women with no ulterior motive behind my actions.
 
Baz said:
One should always be polite in public. I've opened doors for both men and women with no ulterior motive behind my actions.

The fact you have to state "without ulterior motive" means you have one. I hold the door for anyone, any age, simply because it's polite. Don't even think about it or why.
 
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