Relationships off the clock

[Senior]

Ladies,

Do you have personal relationships with your clients off the clock, meaning, emails, texts, calls etc etc. Obviously, there is a question of security, disclosure and discretion.

I've had a number of agency girls give me their personal info we carry on a non working relationship outside of the agency. Some have led to off the clock and or personal pay for play off agency clock. Never had this with an Indy though. Seems more prevalent in agency girls.

It's a big ego boost when you've seen an agency girl a number of times and she says "Hey, have you got my number?".

Thoughts? Stories? Any ongoing relationships that have turned to personal BF/GF?

 

[oldguyzer]

I am not a lady, but I have relationships off the clock with two ladies both still in the business, and have had that relationship for several years. They do happen. I also see them professionally, too. The person in the room is not the same person out of it. And I like them both.

 

[Senior]

Interesting OG. You see them in their (and your) personal lives but when it comes down to sex, you still pay them.

 

[Ori]

:writing:

 

[Raiden]

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I've had a number of agency girls give me their personal info
.

Admit it, it's only because you offer to do their laundry and wash their cars!ancing:

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Interesting OG. You see them in their (and your) personal lives but when it comes down to sex, you still pay them.

It's smart when you think about it. Keeps things separate and simple.

 

[oldguyzer]

Interesting OG. You see them in their (and your) personal lives but when it comes down to sex, you still pay them.

It's smart when you think about it. Keeps things separate and simple.

Both ladies do things in their business they don't like doing in their private lives, and they have a different attitude when working. So, I get to enjoy the best of both worlds, and both attitudes, with a clear separation between the professional and the private. It makes us both more comfortable as long as the two don't overlap too much.

As for still paying, anyone who thinks you don't pay (more!) in private than in their business lives is fooling themselves. The money I pay for the professional side is for the fantasy, and while I have been offered the same outside at no cost, I do believe the ladies are happier keeping that part of their life separate. And as long as they see I know the difference between the two, they can be happy in both. And they are in business, and I don't mind paying for what I get from them. Our sessions in the professional side are a lot more passionate and hot than they would be without the outside relationship.

That may not work for some, but it works for both me and them, and that's all that matters.

 

[Al Bumin]

I thought you pay them to leave and not become seriously involved?.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

Both ladies do things in their business they don't like doing in their private lives, and they have a different attitude when working. So, I get to enjoy the best of both worlds, and both attitudes, with a clear separation between the professional and the private. It makes us both more comfortable as long as the two don't overlap too much.

As for still paying, anyone who thinks you don't pay (more!) in private than in their business lives is fooling themselves. The money I pay for the professional side is for the fantasy, and while I have been offered the same outside at no cost, I do believe the ladies are happier keeping that part of their life separate. And as long as they see I know the difference between the two, they can be happy in both. And they are in business, and I don't mind paying for what I get from them. Our sessions in the professional side are a lot more passionate and hot than they would be without the outside relationship.

That may not work for some, but it works for both me and them, and that's all that matters.

Great post OG, your money, your life and if you're happy it's all that matters and the same applies to the ladies, their bodies, their choice and if they are happy again it's all that matters.

 

[God]

I've got Batman57's number.

 

[Madman]

I've got Batman57's number.

Does Robin know you're having an affair with Batman?

OG, can I have one of your GFs for about an hour?

 

[Louis XIV]

I never understand why guys who hobby want to mix the hobby life with their personal life. It simply never has a happy ending because the guys are not able to keep business and pleasure, finance and emotion separate.

All too often when the hobby life begins to intersect and intertwine itself with 'real life', it's because the guy has some personal void he's trying to fill. When it all eventually sours (and it always does), it's almost always because HE couldn't reconcile the fact that the hobby life for 99% of escorts is a pay-for-play business transaction. No emotional strings attached.

 

[Madman]

I never understand why guys who hobby want to mix the hobby life with their personal life. It simply never has a happy ending because the guys are not able to keep business and pleasure, finance and emotion separate.

All too often when the hobby life begins to intersect and intertwine itself with 'real life', it's because the guy has some personal void he's trying to fill. When it all eventually sours (and it always does), it's almost always because HE couldn't reconcile the fact that the hobby life for 99% of escorts is a pay-for-play business transaction. No emotional strings attached.

It's true, you're right on the mark.

 

[peace]

It's true, you're right on the mark.

Now give him a hug.

 

[Louis XIV]

Now give him a hug.

As long as Madman remembers it's just a business transaction, we're cool. :LMAO:

 

[oldguyzer]

I never understand why guys who hobby want to mix the hobby life with their personal life. It simply never has a happy ending because the guys are not able to keep business and pleasure, finance and emotion separate.

All too often when the hobby life begins to intersect and intertwine itself with 'real life', it's because the guy has some personal void he's trying to fill. When it all eventually sours (and it always does), it's almost always because HE couldn't reconcile the fact that the hobby life for 99% of escorts is a pay-for-play business transaction. No emotional strings attached.

To each their own. I've had great times and long-term relationships with ladies I met in the business, and still do. I can keep business and pleasure separate (although a little cross over is fun!) and so can they, and if we're both happy, well, so be it.

I tried the no strings attached for a long time and got bored of it. I like strings, but not ones I can't break when I want to.

 

[Gntlmn]

i have done this also, not often, but people are people and there are some very bright interesting SPs out there. No reason why friendships or at least casual acquaintance relationships should not occur between compatible types.

 

[Senior]

So just ended this relationship with a lady. We'd been seeing each other at the agency since November and she had been my go-to anytime she was on schedule. One day during a visit, she gives me her personal number. I was pleasantly surprised and honoured. It wasn't soon after that that we were communicating on a daily basis and learning about each other. We went out a couple of times and had some fun. We kept the separation of business and personal time and we only saw each other for sex on the agency time.

Being a bit of a romantic, I started to care a bit more about this lady than I probably should have. I knew that this was probably not the same feeling that was being returned to me. I accepted this but it didn't stop me from trying to see if it could go further in some respect. It was shot down (nicely) and I accepted that too. Had to at least ask

Basically, the relationship ended because of a misunderstanding of the rules of engagement. It wasn't shared with me and it was assumed I knew but some of those lines had been crossed and I was not notified of turning over the apple cart.

I will miss her, but this is my fourth time around with this situation and it's never turned out well. Lessons learned maybe just for me, but I think a pay for play relationship should remain just that.

 

[papasmerf]

So just ended this relationship with a lady. We'd been seeing each other at the agency since November and she had been my go-to anytime she was on schedule. One day during a visit, she gives me her personal number. I was pleasantly surprised and honoured. It wasn't soon after that that we were communicating on a daily basis and learning about each other. We went out a couple of times and had some fun. We kept the separation of business and personal time and we only saw each other for sex on the agency time.

Being a bit of a romantic, I started to care a bit more about this lady than I probably should have. I knew that this was probably not the same feeling that was being returned to me. I accepted this but it didn't stop me from trying to see if it could go further in some respect. It was shot down (nicely) and I accepted that too. Had to at least ask

Basically, the relationship ended because of a misunderstanding of the rules of engagement. It wasn't shared with me and it was assumed I knew but some of those lines had been crossed and I was not notified of turning over the apple cart.

I will miss her, but this is my fourth time around with this situation and it's never turned out well. Lessons learned maybe just for me, but I think a pay for play relationship should remain just that.

sounds to me that you were always kept on the clock.

That is a one way street.

 

[Waxed]

One advice and never forget it. Always practice safe sex. Having a regular may make you feel more secure of not catching anything but that is just the wrong way of thinking.