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I had to talk a good friend of mine who hobbies, off the ledge today. He was extremely pissed off and upset. He was taken advantage of by an SP and went hand in hand with a previous thread about Holidays and end of the month with some SP's who need to make their monthly budget or take care of an addiction.

Seems this bitch (for lack of a better term), would lead my friend on with promises and rarely deliver. I had to tell him, "What did you expect? They take our money for a living. Do you really think they'd want to be with someone who sees hookers? Ask a civilian that, I'll bet only 1 in 500,000 would say 'Oh yeah, it's okay' ". He went on to tell me about the subtle hints about falling short on rent (lol) and other bills. *facepalm*. Keep in mind, he's been secretive about this this whole time to me and only telling me that he's seeing "so-and-so" tonight.

So this bitch even connected with him on FaceBook, which gave both of them open access to each others private lives. Then he saw a pic of her and her BF, to which she kept telling him that she had none. I know this feeling; your heart sinking in to your stomach, it's not a nice feeling. So he sent her a message on her phone, nothing. He sent an IM to her FB account. Nothing. He sent a few more texts and still nothing. He gave up and told her he wanted all the money back that he lent her; keep in mind, she said "loan". I told him "don't ever expect money back when they say 'Loan', ever." "Principal" he says. Fuck that. Principal means nothing to these cunts. All his situation did was bring up bad experiences I've had and just pissed me off. I told him I would go looking for her and get his money back if he wanted, even I don't get it, she might think twice about doing it to another sucker. I told him to never "lend" an SP any amount of money he wasn't comfortable with never seeing again. His total was in the 10's of thousands. Fuck.

Before you all jump down my throat, I have a few things to relate and disclose. The SP's that I have long standing relationships with are very truthful with me. They don't pretend to want to make it anything but business and I appreciate that. The ones that lead on a vulnerable soul and play on his feelings, because face it gents, we're all a little emotionally damaged and need and search for attention, you should never contact them again and block their numbers. The ones that have deceived me are cut loose fairly quickly. I don't give them another opportunity to redeem themselves. I've fallen off of this a few times, but it's rare you'll fool me a second time. My regulars where they've been 100% honest and truthful, we've had a falling out for other reasons or one of us has decided to move onward. These deceitful bitches don't deserve the kindness that some of have shown them. I hope he's learned something from me today. I went through all the pains so someone in the same boat, doesn't have to or will learn from my experiences.

He told me that his final message to her was that she would always be a hustler and fail in all aspects of life because she is who she is and no one in the world has time for that except for people who are the same. I told him he'll probably hear from her by the end of this month or she'd move on to another sucker. Don't give it another thought but I know it's hard for him, he's a sweetheart of a guy.

Fuck all you deceitful bitches and god bless the ones who don't.
 
That is an awful story, but one I've heard many many times. I feel terrible for him and do hope she'll repay him, but I'm sure hope is all he'll get. This does happen to men and women though and some hobbiests too are good at manipulating to get free time, extra services etc. That certainly doesn't compare to 10 G's, but deceit and manipulation is wrong no matter what they aim to gain. There is nothing that can be said or done to make him feel better, other than, I can insure him that karma will follow her money trail, that I believe.This is a hard lesson for him, hopefully one he won't repeat and remember there are also lots of us who couldn't fathom doing that to anyone. Cheating someone of their money isn't an escort thing, it's a dishonest person thing.
 
That is an awful story, but one I've heard many many times. I feel terrible for him and do hope she'll repay him, but I'm sure hope is all he'll get. This does happen to men and women though and some hobbiests too are good at manipulating to get free time, extra services etc. That certainly doesn't compare to 10 G's, but deceit and manipulation is wrong no matter what they aim to gain. There is nothing that can be said or done to make him feel better, other than, I'm insure him that karma will follow her money trail, that I believe.This is a hard lesson for him, hopefully one he won't repeat and remember there are also lots of us who couldn't fathom doing that to anyone. Cheating someone of their money isn't an escort thing, it's a dishonest person thing.

Absolutely.

I only pointed out SP's as that is what was the common bond between his story and my connection. Marrying or being in a relationship with someone has it's ups and downs, that's what goes with committed relationships. Money is usually the catalyst for breakups.

I told him about the karma thing and I've seen it too often and know this to be true. His statement about her failing in life will hold true, I'm sure of it. She'll get hers, even if I don't deliver it personally. I can be the nicest guy in the world but don't EVER piss me off, especially when it's to someone I care about and the same has been done to me. I think I'm more angry than he is right now.
 
You will be surprised (maybe not you) of the amount of cash members, hobbiests, pooners or whatever we call ourselves lending money to SP and then complaining they won't pay back or won't see them.

We are not talking a few hundred but a few thousands. They will learn, not as quickly as I did but they will learn.

Guys, STOP lending money to SP. You will never get it back you fucken fools.
 
You will be surprised (maybe not you) of the amount of cash members, hobbiests, pooners or whatever we call ourselves lending money to SP and then complaining they won't pay back or won't see them.

We are not talking a few hundred but a few thousands. They will learn, not as quickly as I did but they will learn.

Guys, STOP lending money to SP. You will never get it back you fucken fools.

Yep.

I don't care how much you THINK she likes you. If she really liked you, she wouldn't take your money to fuck you or spend time with you. AND it has to be repetitive, not just once.

Our experience will save you money and heartache. So all you dumb fucks owe me and @Prick some sessions.
 
Yep.

I don't care how much you THINK she likes you. If she really liked you, she wouldn't take your money to fuck you or spend time with you. AND it has to be repetitive, not just once.

Our experience will save you money and heartache. So all you dumb fucks owe me and @ some sessions.

Let me repeat myself. DO NOT lend money to SP, they are not nurses or social workers. They are xxxxxxx.

You get it?.
 
I have lent money to dancers. Some I got back. Some I am sure I will get back some day. I don't think the ones who kept it were bad people, they were more damaged people. Sometimes it is worth lending someone money, because it gives you a chance to see how much they really value the relationship. It can be expensive to find out, but it can be worth it, because the next lesson could have been more expensive.
 
I don't think its just sw's. Anytime you lend money really do have to assume you won't see it again, even with friends or family. Relationships with sw's are founded on a financial exchange but is based on intimate interaction. If your barber asked you for money it wouldn't be difficult to say no.
 
I have to agree with Whatawokkie said, when you loan money, you have to hand it over with a "goodbye", an impression that it is now gone for good. Of course we all expect good people to be of their word, but and sadly, most aren't good people. The ones you discover to be good, make the hard lessons learned worth the trials. Remember we all choose our actions and can blame no one but ourselves, if we're going to be honest. Not much solace, but if there is a choice and you're free to choose, remember the outcome of your choice, is on you.
 
I don't think its just sw's. Anytime you lend money really do have to assume you won't see it again, even with friends or family. Relationships with sw's are founded on a financial exchange but is based on intimate interaction. If your barber asked you for money it wouldn't be difficult to say no.

Great points and I complete concur. If I lend money I basically write that money off and if I do get it back I spend it as if it were a lottery win. :biggrin2:
 
I've certainly never had an SP take advantage in a big way like the OP. But I have tried to help out and lent a couple SP's small amounts when they were hurting and needed help.
In both cases they were regulars and knew I'd be coming back for more sessions anyway. They asked for help and I offered, an amount that equalled 4 or 5 one hour sessions.
In both cases it worked out fine. Although I did realize it was a risk, if she didn't come through, I was more worried about losing the relationship than the money. Obviously I care about my favourite Lady's, but I wouldn't want to overdo my involvement.
The good news is, both of those Lady's have become quite successful and certainly don't need my money anymore. I'm happy I could help, but I think I'd be more careful now.
 
Anyone wanna lend me an Audi R8?? Jk I'm happy with my little dinky Corolla :YMPARTY:
 
Anyone wanna lend me an Audi R8?? Jk I'm happy with my little dinky Corolla :YMPARTY:

anything for you , where do you want me to drop it off

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You will be surprised (maybe not you) of the amount of cash members, hobbiests, pooners or whatever we call ourselves lending money to SP and then complaining they won't pay back or won't see them.

We are not talking a few hundred but a few thousands. They will learn, not as quickly as I did but they will learn.

Guys, STOP lending money to SP. You will never get it back you fucken fools.

100% correct. Your better off teaching her about secured credit cards as a way to build credit if she doesn't have any. From what I've seen it's rarely a case of an sp not having any money, it's that they don't know how to manage it properly.
 
100% correct. Your better off teaching her about secured credit cards as a way to build credit if she doesn't have any. From what I've seen it's rarely a case of an sp not having any money, it's that they don't know how to manage it properly.

Some think they can make the same amount of money forever then it is too late when reality sinks in.
 
I have lent money to dancers. Some I got back. Some I am sure I will get back some day. I don't think the ones who kept it were bad people, they were more damaged people. Sometimes it is worth lending someone money, because it gives you a chance to see how much they really value the relationship. It can be expensive to find out, but it can be worth it, because the next lesson could have been more expensive.

CDick, I remember you and welcome back. How is Ms. C Dick doing and when can we have another auction?

I really would love to attend the next one.
 
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