SP's - Who take advantage

[C Dick]

CDick, I remember you and welcome back. How is Ms. C Dick doing and when can we have another auction?

I really would love to attend the next one.

Thanks. I have been gradually phasing back in. Mrs CD is good, she has new, bigger implants now, they are a great improvement.

She would be up for another event, the key for her is novelty. So it could not just be the same thing again, it would have to have some new angle to make it more interesting. She has been into bukkake lately, so if someone put together a HUBGFE bukkake, she would likely be up for it, under the right conditions. But she would be open to at least consider any suggestions.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

That is an awful story, but one I've heard many many times. I feel terrible for him and do hope she'll repay him, but I'm sure hope is all he'll get. This does happen to men and women though and some hobbiests too are good at manipulating to get free time, extra services etc. That certainly doesn't compare to 10 G's, but deceit and manipulation is wrong no matter what they aim to gain. There is nothing that can be said or done to make him feel better, other than, I can insure him that karma will follow her money trail, that I believe.This is a hard lesson for him, hopefully one he won't repeat and remember there are also lots of us who couldn't fathom doing that to anyone. Cheating someone of their money isn't an escort thing, it's a dishonest person thing.

Truer words have never been spoken.

Last year a regular client took me on what I thought was my "weekend getaway" package. For some inexplicable reason he thought he didn't have to pay me for my services. Nice people often get taken advantage of. Lesson learned.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

Truer words have never been spoken.

Last year a regular client took me on what I thought was my "weekend getaway" package. For some inexplicable reason he thought he didn't have to pay me for my services. Nice people often get taken advantage of. Lesson learned.

This is true. Although I see many SP's on their own time (off agency or indie), I get it out and up front that we just "hang out", what is the deal? Compensated or not? This weekend getaway not being compensated should have been vetted by both parties. In other words, if he didn't bring it up, you should have. It can be uncomfortable because of the familiarity, but we're all adults.

I'd never want to assume anything.

 

[TFZL1]

Truer words have never been spoken.

Last year a regular client took me on what I thought was my "weekend getaway" package. For some inexplicable reason he thought he didn't have to pay me for my services. Nice people often get taken advantage of. Lesson learned.

These things need to be discussed upfront and very clearly. You went away with a client and expected to get paid. Either he didn't know that, or you didn't ask for payment.
Clearly a commumication breakdown.
I had a similar experience, although I thought it was clear upfront. I promised her an all expense paid trip, including travel, plus shopping and she agreed. It was only later, days after the trip, that she told me she was expecting payment on top of the thousands I'd spent. I suspect she was ok with it at the time, but then she told a freind, who told her to ask for payment.
Too late to ask for payment after, thats why I started with discussion and payment upfront.

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

These things need to be discussed upfront and very clearly. You went away with a client and expected to get paid. Either he didn't know that, or you didn't ask for payment.
Clearly a commumication breakdown.
I had a similar experience, although I thought it was clear upfront. I promised her an all expense paid trip, including travel, plus shopping and she agreed. It was only later, days after the trip, that she told me she was expecting payment on top of the thousands I'd spent. I suspect she was ok with it at the time, but then she told a freind, who told her to ask for payment.
Too late to ask for payment after, thats why I started with discussion and payment upfront.

I had a similar situation. All expense paid vacay and all the extras. She asked for spending money which I agreed to. It HAS to be brought up so both of you can get business out of the way and enjoy your time together.

When SP's talk, someone will always put in their two cents about how they'd never do that or hold out for more etc.... Even in the civilian world. I've never offered this again without specifics being addressed. Hell, I'll even write up a contract if it ever comes to that again.

 

[RubberRagDoll]

A client book me for a 2 hour Oasis date and we were having such an awesome time that we ended up staying for a couple hours extra. I did not expect to be compensate for it since it wasn't anything we discussed, but he was considerate enough to do so anyway.

A week later he invited me on a 3 day trip to Spain with him, I told him I was absolutely interested and it would be X amount for my time. He assumed since we had such a great time the other day that the trip alone would be compensation enough. Unfortunately that was not the case and the conversation ended there so no more of our time was wasted on the topic.

Going on vacation with a client is still work. I need to be my best self at all times to make sure my partner for the time is comfortable, happy and taken care of. It's not really a vacation for me, it is a vacation for my client and I am there to service him. It's extremely physically and emotionally taxing and for that I do need to be compensated.

 

[DannyDevito]

A client book me for a 2 hour Oasis date and we were having such an awesome time that we ended up staying for a couple hours extra. I did not expect to be compensate for it since it wasn't anything we discussed, but he was considerate enough to do so anyway.

A week later he invited me on a 3 day trip to Spain with him, I told him I was absolutely interested and it would be X amount for my time. He assumed since we had such a great time the other day that the trip alone would be compensation enough. Unfortunately that was not the case and the conversation ended there so no more of our time was wasted on the topic.

Going on vacation with a client is still work. I need to be my best self at all times to make sure my partner for the time is comfortable, happy and taken care of. It's not really a vacation for me, it is a vacation for my client and I am there to service him. It's extremely physically and emotionally taxing and for that I do need to be compensated.

I would need to be compensated when I book you or you can just buy a life insurance under my name just in case I can't handle you :shout:Funky & Music

 

[Fuggedabouditt]

A client book me for a 2 hour Oasis date and we were having such an awesome time that we ended up staying for a couple hours extra. I did not expect to be compensate for it since it wasn't anything we discussed, but he was considerate enough to do so anyway.

A week later he invited me on a 3 day trip to Spain with him, I told him I was absolutely interested and it would be X amount for my time. He assumed since we had such a great time the other day that the trip alone would be compensation enough. Unfortunately that was not the case and the conversation ended there so no more of our time was wasted on the topic.

Going on vacation with a client is still work. I need to be my best self at all times to make sure my partner for the time is comfortable, happy and taken care of. It's not really a vacation for me, it is a vacation for my client and I am there to service him. It's extremely physically and emotionally taxing and for that I do need to be compensated.

This was exactly my thought and that's why the compensation on top of the all expense paid vacay was brought up by me. My experience was the compensation she asked for, was lower than I thought and I asked if that's what she wanted and did it seem fair to her.

What I expected was exactly what you described. I expected a nice time and the SP to be attentive etc. I didn't want to be totally overbearing, I just wanted a nice time. It wasn't all about sex, it was companionship.

 

[cristycurves]

A client book me for a 2 hour Oasis date and we were having such an awesome time that we ended up staying for a couple hours extra. I did not expect to be compensate for it since it wasn't anything we discussed, but he was considerate enough to do so anyway.

A week later he invited me on a 3 day trip to Spain with him, I told him I was absolutely interested and it would be X amount for my time. He assumed since we had such a great time the other day that the trip alone would be compensation enough. Unfortunately that was not the case and the conversation ended there so no more of our time was wasted on the topic.

Going on vacation with a client is still work. I need to be my best self at all times to make sure my partner for the time is comfortable, happy and taken care of. It's not really a vacation for me, it is a vacation for my client and I am there to service him. It's extremely physically and emotionally taxing and for that I do need to be compensated.

We all get our share of these experiences and I can understand how some men can then become confused. We all must be clear on what we expect from one another and when,all while not letting our emotions get in the way.
I've given extra time/services to a few, talked to a few for hours sometimes on the phone, with no expectations. This morning a nice gent sent me a gift (etransfer) for one of those times.....it's always nice to be generous and thoughtful