An interesting marketing technique.
The main problem with it, as I see it anyways, is that it creates many of the same dynamics that drive many men to seek something outside of all the drama.
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An interesting marketing technique.
The main problem with it, as I see it anyways, is that it creates many of the same dynamics that drive many men to seek something outside of all the drama.
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So what you are saying is Anna is offering a true WE(wife experience). You know maybe, just maybe the strategy is to attract single men thinking about getting married?Hmmmmmm I think she's on to something here!:biggrin2:
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Reminds me of a famous Lou Gerstner quote (CEO of IBM): (paraphrased) "IBM is really bad at marketing. If we bought KFC we'd market it as 'lukewarm dead chicken'." Perhaps our ever-insulting Ms A went to the Gerstner School of Marketing.
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I am exactly your target market, then, my dear lady, but I don't like hanging around insulting women, especially even less so when I pay them for their company. While I realize that this is all an "act" on your behalf to generate some curiosity and buzz (as the old saying goes, any publicity is better than no publicity) I suspect you'll find it is more of a turn-off for those you wish to attract than you realize. Anyway, good luck at the Indie party. I am sure you'll have an interesting time.
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I wish I got into this thread earlier and I have not read all the replies but the one thing that I have found to be funny is how the men have bitched about the way it was back in the day. How the men say that this is a business and therefore should be treated as such, yet the men have an issue when they get exactly 30 mins. from time in to time out of the door. The men have issue with lady being available for sex but not for much more. What???? No S42, really???? The MSOG is laughable at best as well.
This the issue with men in my opinion. It simply never stops. They always want more. More time, more "euthusiasm" more service. More like a Girlfriend. Hello????? She is a sex worker, not your girlfriend. It is a business, not a relationship. Yet, hey - review boards are great because we don't get ripped off any more.
How many girlfriends shower with you all the time - BEFORE sex - with their hair and make up done?
How many girlfriends allow MSOG? In 30mins?
Sorry boys but there is a whole heck of a lot of truth regarding the power and control. Just because it doesn't always work, it doesn't make it true. Reviews are more often then not 2 things. Ego stroking and power and control.
I am not saying if that is good or bad, but that is the reality.
I think men and women both have to understand that this is a business. While men were on a more of hit or miss back in the day, and I am not making light of it, is it right to now go the other direction? I remember when CBJ was the norm and all you heard was - well my girlfriend will do it. So men using reviews and the power and control that had, BBBJ is the norm now. I don't even think it was women who coined the phrase GFE, or PSE.
So if you want a woman to more like your girlfriend, then I think you need to treat her more like a BFE. If not, then she is a sex worker only and should only provide those services. Men like their cake and to eat it too. Here is the perfect example, this is a business when I want and a simulated relationship when I want and you as the woman need to know when I want which. LOL Totally laughable.
This the issue with men in my opinion. It simply never stops. They always want more. More time, more "euthusiasm" more service. More like a Girlfriend. Hello????? She is a sex worker, not your girlfriend. It is a business, not a relationship. Yet, hey - review boards are great because we don't get ripped off any more.
How many girlfriends shower with you all the time - BEFORE sex - with their hair and make up done?
How many girlfriends allow MSOG? In 30mins?
Sorry boys but there is a whole heck of a lot of truth regarding the power and control. Just because it doesn't always work, it doesn't make it true. Reviews are more often then not 2 things. Ego stroking and power and control.
I am not saying if that is good or bad, but that is the reality.
I think men and women both have to understand that this is a business. While men were on a more of hit or miss back in the day, and I am not making light of it, is it right to now go the other direction? I remember when CBJ was the norm and all you heard was - well my girlfriend will do it. So men using reviews and the power and control that had, BBBJ is the norm now. I don't even think it was women who coined the phrase GFE, or PSE.
So if you want a woman to more like your girlfriend, then I think you need to treat her more like a BFE. If not, then she is a sex worker only and should only provide those services. Men like their cake and to eat it too. Here is the perfect example, this is a business when I want and a simulated relationship when I want and you as the woman need to know when I want which. LOL Totally laughable.
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In the end it's our dime our choice is it not? There are numerous sexy ladies keeping majority of the boys happy and making good $$$ in the process.
An sp is selling a service and a fantasy from say $200/hr to $250/hr as an average price point.
Femme, based on Annaliese's posts, answer this question; if you were a man, would you book her?
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You have some valid points, but really, do you think men (even if we are all stupid) will pay her rates knowing the attitude we're about to get? Perhaps if the male wants to be belittled, but the average male does not hire an escort to be treated badly. We have others for that. :Crying2:
Gee I think you are going a bit farther with this than is reasonable for the premise of this thread.
I don't think it's any more complicated than saying the customers have the right to review the product and communicate amongst themselves. Why shouldn't they? You would think it a bit off if restaurants told foof critics how they should be reviewed wouldn't you?
The fact that some customers have other ancilliary issues does not invalidate this. In reality very few customers don't understant the real nature of the transaction. I almost think that you don't really understand the business when you can say that the creation of an "atmosphere", the GFE experience is inconsistent with the business premise. There are similar illusions created in business all the time. The fashion industry, cosmetics, high tech consumer products and automotive industries all create exactly these illusions. In its basic form people call it "branding".
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I would have read them all to make an opinion. Which I don't have the time for at this very moment, But I will look and give you my opinion.
Again, I was speaking in general and you are speaking directly about her. I have to go back and read everything first before forming an opinion.
I was simply commenting in general from the few posts I did read and only the original post from her.
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I am not saying that there is not a need, but the battle for power and control between men and women will always be there and while you say that is it for the right reason, more often then not, it is done for bad reasons.
Also men can not make up there minds on if this is strictly business or not. Both sides now use that as way for gain the power. If a girl doesn't suck a guy off BB, she was strictly business and that is a bad thing. If she refused to suck a dirty cock baeback, then it is strictly business and that is a good thing. Why is it not just "her" business?
The problem is men go looking for a "certain" and when they don't get one, they review based on hurt feelings. But you can never tell if there is a reason behind it.
There is no right or wrong answer in this. I am just spitting out one side of it. I can easily flip it and completely see where a man is coming and point out the errors among SP's. They just don't have as much of a voice here, so I speak up.
No hard feelings.
As a woman....I would Book her....I think she is interesting.....spunky ......
Knows what she wants....therefore knows what she is doing....I don't need
to hold her hand.......
I do think Femme is right.....about just a business and girlfriend......
So are looking for business....others girlfriend.....as some escorts treat it as a business
and others as a way to keep a group or one individual as a client in a girlfriend way....
or mistress....whichever....
Knows what she wants....therefore knows what she is doing....I don't need
to hold her hand.......
I do think Femme is right.....about just a business and girlfriend......
So are looking for business....others girlfriend.....as some escorts treat it as a business
and others as a way to keep a group or one individual as a client in a girlfriend way....
or mistress....whichever....
If one sees the transaction as strictly business and another looks at it as something more special, you see this as guys who can't make up their mind?
I know you said you're generalizing but to say we can't make up our minds is demeaning to me and I'm hurt. :Crying/:
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Hon, I hear all the time from men....women just can not make up their minds.......:LMAO:
Explain that one.....or it just one sided argument when it a woman.....
You're making the same generalization, you hear it from one man and label them all.
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Not one man but men even have said it on here......:LMAO:
In the News....in papers...in books....in Comedy.....:girlkiss:
Many men and women can't make up their minds.
But that's different from what Femme Fatale was saying, she said guys say they want a more business-like arrangement then said they want a less business-like arrangement and said they were changing their minds.
But they aren't changing their minds, they are keeping the same opinions.
Get it?
She's talking about two different types of guys and she's putting them all into one bag in her generalizing which is demeaning to us.
But being a woman that is not how I read it........:LMAO:
In reality you can spin it anyway.....
It is all in Marketing ...really...how ones Market ones self here.....There is a post that just came up about being positive to men.....I look at most of these things as women marketing themselves.......
Now mind you there are a few women I know and who have said they really do not care if they only get a few clients....they want ones who are true......so they speak their minds......If you don't like the way one of these women write then of coarse you will not see her...but there are 20 or 30 others who will......
Remember there are men out there who can make up their minds and do not need other men to tell them what to do....
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if bbbj is advertised,I'm clean and disease free then I should receive a bbbj. If the sp decides to do a CBJ I should be given the choice to leave with all of my money in my pocket or perhaps offered a cut rate.
I will also go as far as saying if the SP has a client who refuses to shower at the incall prior to the fun she should kick his dirty ass out of the room and keep a decent cancellation fee.
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