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Fuggedabouditt
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BuzzSaw said:
Yes, your dick should smell/taste....like soap. Your pussy should smell/taste....like soap.
This is more for the client who has everything in check, but for some reason, the SP doesn't give him the same treatment as the last guy who banged her.
This is where the subpar SP and the better and more affluent SP differ. I mentioned on another thread that it seems the SP's from PQ are fabulous there, but when they cross the Ontario border, something comes over them and there are a majority who are subpar. I personally stay away from them, not to say there aren't exceptional SP's based out of PQ that tour here; they know who they are and are in the cross hairs.
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How does anyone know what the last guy received? .......and what an escort does with one is no ones business but those who were involved. Ymmv is a necessity and who is anyone to judge what I do with "Joe", "John" or "Bob", other than me.
I'm not a machine, nor am I an actress, how I react to one physically and mentally, will not be the same as the next and that should be celebrated not critiqued. We are all adults in this business and fully aware of hygiene and other unwritten rules, so if you aren't up to par on yours, I'm not going to act like your mother and take your hand and lead you into a shower and show you how to properly wash, that's not part of my job, nor is it your duty to correct my mistakes should my hygiene be lacking. I don't expect my clients to be gorgeous, super smart or ultra wealthy, but I expect they act like gentlemen, show up clean and if not, give me notice that they'll need to shower, be on time and they can expect to be treated fairly and provided with good service, but that too will depend on them. No one can determine how a session will go until they meet their date....so to expect the same isn't reasonable, so, should I be also expected to orgasm with every client, expect every client to tip the same, see where I'm going
I'm not a machine, nor am I an actress, how I react to one physically and mentally, will not be the same as the next and that should be celebrated not critiqued. We are all adults in this business and fully aware of hygiene and other unwritten rules, so if you aren't up to par on yours, I'm not going to act like your mother and take your hand and lead you into a shower and show you how to properly wash, that's not part of my job, nor is it your duty to correct my mistakes should my hygiene be lacking. I don't expect my clients to be gorgeous, super smart or ultra wealthy, but I expect they act like gentlemen, show up clean and if not, give me notice that they'll need to shower, be on time and they can expect to be treated fairly and provided with good service, but that too will depend on them. No one can determine how a session will go until they meet their date....so to expect the same isn't reasonable, so, should I be also expected to orgasm with every client, expect every client to tip the same, see where I'm going
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Fuggedabouditt said:This is where the subpar SP and the better and more affluent SP differ. I mentioned on another thread that it seems the SP's from PQ are fabulous there, but when they cross the Ontario border, something comes over them and there are a majority who are subpar. I personally stay away from them, not to say there aren't exceptional SP's based out of PQ that tour here; they know who they are and are in the cross hairs.
Another moronic statement.
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Fuggedabouditt
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cristycurves said:How does anyone know what the last guy received? .......and what an escort does with one is no ones business but those who were involved. Ymmv is a necessity and who is anyone to judge what I do with "Joe", "John" or "Bob", other than me.
I'm not a machine, nor am I an actress, how I react to one physically and mentally, will not be the same as the next and that should be celebrated not critiqued. We are all adults in this business and fully aware of hygiene and other unwritten rules, so if you aren't up to par on yours, I'm not going to act like your mother and take your hand and lead you into a shower and show you how to properly wash, that's not part of my job, nor is it your duty to correct my mistakes should my hygiene be lacking. I don't expect my clients to be gorgeous, super smart or ultra wealthy, but I expect they act like gentlemen, show up clean and if not, give me notice that they'll need to shower, be on time and they can expect to be treated fairly and provided with good service, but that too will depend on them. No one can determine how a session will go until they meet their date....so to expect the same isn't reasonable, so, should I be also expected to orgasm with every client, expect every client to tip the same, see where I'm going
This is the result of a review board my dear. When braggarts brag, we ALL know what he received. See where I'M going? :biggrin2:
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Fuggedabouditt said:
No actually it isn't, because a braggart brags, doesn't mean his brags are true. See where I'm going ......again
There are far to many cases where men have mentioned getting this and that and they got less and or sometimes more. To many of you believe gossip, whoever said women are the gossips got that wrong!!......:LMAO: and whoever said a review has to be a recount of intimate details....some of you certainly must be in need of reading porn and hearing how others do itHmmmmmmFunny about this business, escorts are sworn to discretion, and that discretion encapsulates who they see and what they do with whomever, along with other details. Yet when your fellow hobbyists spew a diatribe of activities and events, that's celebrated. More hypocrisy, more double standards and more stupidity. If you expect something, then please give it.....see where I'm going.
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cristycurves said:No actually it isn't, because a braggart brags, doesn't mean his brags are true. See where I'm going ......again
Funny about this business, escorts are sworn to discretion, and that discretion encapsulates who they see and what they do with whomever, along with other details. Yet when your fellow hobbyists spew a diatribe of activities and events, that's celebrated. More hypocrisy, more double standards and more stupidity. If you expect something, then please give it.....see where I'm going.
This is exactly where I'm going. This is exactly why I don't review.
My opinion is important to me and me only.
What would you call a review if it's not some sort of "bragging" in some respect?
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I completely agree, there is no need for an agenda, no need for play by plays. Just a mention of someone worthy of being seen and providing a valued and good/great service. As I said before a review says as much about the author as it does about the one being reviewed.
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I currently have a very vanilla massage service. I'd like to offer extras to some clients, sometimes, but not to all clients, all the time.
I've never been able to figure out how to advertise extras. I don't want to post them in my ads because then everyone assumes everything is available every time, but I might be in the mood to offer something extra on one visit, but not on the next.
Also, I think most guys only bring enough cash to cover the expected fee, so even if I let a client know an extra service is available when he arrives on that day, he probably won't have extra cash to cover the added expense.
Any suggestions on how to market extras without having to be obligated to provide them to everyone, every time?
I've never been able to figure out how to advertise extras. I don't want to post them in my ads because then everyone assumes everything is available every time, but I might be in the mood to offer something extra on one visit, but not on the next.
Also, I think most guys only bring enough cash to cover the expected fee, so even if I let a client know an extra service is available when he arrives on that day, he probably won't have extra cash to cover the added expense.
Any suggestions on how to market extras without having to be obligated to provide them to everyone, every time?
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papasmerf said:
Well thank you papa. I'm honoured. :BigHug:
Fuggedabouditt said:
Fuggedabouditt
I have to agree with some of what you say but on the other hand I gotta disagree with some of what you say
An sp should be totally within her right to do what she wants with whoever she wants. INDY OR AGENCY
it is her body and her business period
if she has a just reason for not providing a specific service to a specific client so be it!
If you don't agree or like it don't go back or repeat with her
Just take for example the guy that see's an sp and he is just plain gross. Dirty or just plain smells oozing out of his pores!!!
The sp does not DFK or BBBJ and he feels cuz he read a review that he is entitled to it
Said guy is upset obviously but does he ever wonder why?
if it is an agency lady he probably calls the agency and complains
I personally book long multi hour dates. I know for a fact that I treat the ladies with respect and I get the respect back.
does that mean I get better service? I don't know !! I do know I am very seldom disappointed !!!
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Yes, I agree with this to a certain extent but be-careful what you wish for as service may go down and prices up if you leave it in the hands of the providers. Just like at the grocery stores, product gets smaller and cost goes up.:biggrin2:
Chunky said:
Chunky
please don't look at my judge my junior listing in my profile as a young buck!!! LOL
I have been at this for a very long time. look at the thread about who is the oldest member. I may not b the oldest but I am probably near the top of the list
anyway back to your advice. Great comment however I have found it to be completely the opposite!!
maybe cuz I make better decision or maybe I a smarter now than when I started
but SERVICE AND PRICE ARE OK
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The YMMV card
You made some good points here, everyone should have the right to decline any sexual activity with any person for any reason. If a client is dirty, refuses to shower after the SP asks him to due to hygiene issues, they can't expect to get the high end of YMMV.
However, an "ideal" or "great" SP is able to overlook things like weight, looks, ethnicity and provide good service to every client who does their part and is clean and respectful. I can understand why a client who really did do everything "right" would feel disappointed if the SP gave them lousy service because they look like they came from their construction job and not an office. A good agency will stand up for their sp's when a client who smells like he hasn't showered in days complains he got cbj instead of bbbj even if he read certain services were offered in a review.
You made some good points here, everyone should have the right to decline any sexual activity with any person for any reason. If a client is dirty, refuses to shower after the SP asks him to due to hygiene issues, they can't expect to get the high end of YMMV.
However, an "ideal" or "great" SP is able to overlook things like weight, looks, ethnicity and provide good service to every client who does their part and is clean and respectful. I can understand why a client who really did do everything "right" would feel disappointed if the SP gave them lousy service because they look like they came from their construction job and not an office. A good agency will stand up for their sp's when a client who smells like he hasn't showered in days complains he got cbj instead of bbbj even if he read certain services were offered in a review.
