Why they call them curvy instead of fat, overweight and she doesn't take care of herself?

[oldguyzer]

That's a shame. And I am still deeply offended, seems like a slap in the face to all BBWs on the board and the men who go see them (us).

Jacklyn, it's unfortinate you took it offensively, but I do understand. Keep in mind this is a no-discrimination place: no one gets respect! I've been insulted for being old, bald, and much more. I still visit and take it with a grain of salt.

 

[The cute one]

Even though this thread has offended one member it shall remain open.

If majority of the members find it offensive we shall close it.

Until then enjoy freedom of speech and be kind to other embers

 

[papasmerf]

Even though this thread has offended one member it shall remain open.

If majority of the members find it offensive we shall close it.

Until then enjoy freedom of speech and be kind to other embers

Thank you for the sanity

 

[Jacklyn7]

Wow... so I am insane if I am not Okay with being called fat or it being implied that I do not take care of myself? Never mind the smelly bum comment by another lady... okay, sure, than I am insane because I sure as fuck do not think that is okay.

Thank you for the sanity

 

[papasmerf]

Wow... so I am insane if I am not Okay with being called fat or it being implied that I do not take care of myself? Never mind the smelly bum comment by another lady... okay, sure, than I am insane because I sure as fuck do not think that is okay.

I do not recall calling you anything but your handle

If you have a problem with a thread or a poster put it or them on ignore.

I am sure not every post is interesting or agreed with by every member yet you are assuming the right to determine what is acceptable and what is not.

If a member here is adverse to prostitution should the mods close every thread that deal with it.

the answer is no.

They would tell the poster what I am telling you.

If the Mods find it offensive they will close it.

If I find it offends me I will complain.

You have had your say now please STFU on this

 

[Leo]

Jacklyn, I for one find you sexy.

It is what you think of yourself not how others perceive you as being.

 

[Jacklyn7]

Deplorable and tasteless response imo Papa, I am more bothered by your lack of sensitivity than anything else.

 

[Jacklyn7]

Thank you, I know the people in my life, clients included, agree. I am more offended by Papa's response to me pointing out that perhaps this thread could be hurtful to many ladies here than I was by the thread itself.

Jacklyn, I for one find you sexy.

It is what you think of yourself not how others perceive you as being.

 

[papasmerf]

Deplorable and tasteless.

Leo posted your pic............sorry you fell that way

 

[Jacklyn7]

Wow.. that is just incredibly rude.

Leo posted your pic............sorry you fell that way

 

[Admin Hub GFE]

Play fair please and stay away from insults.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

The OP has a history of trying to stir the pot on here with his threads and it looks like he was successful here. Usually he's just dismissed or ignored.

This time I can't disagree with him though. If an individual is obese then yes they are unhealthy.

And yes in most cases they are guilty of not taking care of themselves.

Doesn't mean they are not good people or that somebody won't find them desirable but make no mistake about it they are unhealthy and will be a burden on our health care system as they age. Which we all support with our taxes. I've often felt that like smoking if a person chooses to not maintain their health through excessive eating that they should bear the full cost of their health care but that 's another discussion for another time.

Now there some unfortunate individuals who have thyroid issues or are on meds that cause dramatic weight gain but the majority of these people are suffering from emotional issues and are looking for that dopamine high that is only satisfied through eating foods that are excessively high in starchy carbohydrates combined with sugar. a lot of obsessive compulsive behaviour can be linked early developmental problems during infancy. By this I mean parental abandonment neglect and abuse.

Notice I didn't say fat because outside of man made hydrogenated fats most fats when consumed moderately are actually good for ones health.

Then we have the food industry which plays on the public's misconception about the fat content by advertising that their products are low in fat all the while while they load in as much sugar and carbs that our addicted brains can handle.

It's all about making $ and corporate America is just doing what it does best.

Manipulate and deceive for the all mighty buck.

As for J7's comments about the blue one well if she took the time to research his musings on here she would have learned that he is one of the respectful posters on this board and should be treated as such.

 

[Fatso]

Please no drama on here. I like the way this board runs without that flush.

 

[Iambad]

Retards love to bitch and complain.






Surprised?.

 

[Siodd]

Why are the editing my reply there, they or she have something to hide?.

 

[bobistheowl]

I am realllllly disappointed to see this thread here, I was under the impression this board was body shape friendly... :NoNoNo: but now I know who I would like to friend, and who I want nothing to do with.

Jacklyn7, this is one of the threads that has meandered from the original post, through a few revivals. Some parts of it are worthy of four of the five rating stars. Any one page, taken out of context, may not be at all representative of the entire discussion, good or bad. Of late, it seems to have jumped the shark. At times, it's been a very good read. At other times, it has not been; I call these threads sifters.

I've seen your pics. I'd consider you to be curvy, but not fat. I firmly believe that you do not require a sidewalk scooter to do your grocery shopping.

One of the themes discussed on some of the back pages here is that it's unfair to use a single adjective to describe all women larger than a 14 dress size. This benefits the size 50, by including her in a group in which she doesn't belong, but is detrimental by association to those on the opposite end of the scale, because of the same overly broad definition.

 

[bobistheowl]

...You have had your say now please STFU on this

papasmerf, I think you owe Jacklyn7 an ass kiss for that, otherwise your membership status in the White Knights fraternity may be a topic of discussion at the next gathering of the gartered. If you're going to talk to someone like that, it should be to a guy.

 

[Jacklyn7]

You're just pure class, huh?

Retards love to bitch and complain.






Surprised?.

 

[Transient]

A thread of this nature will spark discussion. The OP has a tendency of posting topics similar to this that make you shake your head and they eventually just die out.
Discussion is healthy people, let's try to keep it civil and moving forward. For the record, there are lots of terms used that I find offensive and the term "fat" has always been one of them. Mostly because it is subjective and used, especially by children, as a insult.

 

[bobistheowl]

Retards love to bitch and complain.

Surprised?.

You're just pure class, huh?

Given that no previous post was quoted, I'll accept that Iambad was just being self revelatory. I'd give him the benefit of the doubt.